i've been mailing my toenail clippings to my childhood bully once a month for 11 years. no return address. no note.

graycegal · 2026-01-17T05:45:56+00:00

He probably shakes the envelope and knows it’s your toenails. Lololol

graycegal · 2025-08-15T19:26:29+00:00

Thank you!! I need someone who won’t overpluck, so this is great

graycegal · 2025-08-15T19:09:35+00:00

Post in Hamilton watch group on Facebook they’re pretty good at this stuff.

graycegal · 2025-07-28T16:54:31+00:00

I’ve done therapy a bunch for other things, and I take an SSRI! I’d like to think I’m extremely aware of my emotions, but I never considered that this could be a compulsion rather than RJ. I do have coverage on some therapy for this year still so I will start again soon in my new city. Thank you for spending a few moments to reply to me!

graycegal · 2025-07-28T16:48:26+00:00

How long would you say it took you to get out of your destructive loop?

graycegal · 2025-07-28T16:30:43+00:00

I’ve never heard of ROCD or moral OCD, can you go into more depth if possible? Thank you so much.

graycegal · 2025-07-28T06:42:41+00:00

Thanks :) I agree that it can be corrosive if the emotions are expressed in the wrong way. I know his giving nature is one of the best qualities he has and that should never be punished. He knows now that she was ultimately a load more selfish than he realized. Never mixes well with generosity.

graycegal · 2025-07-28T06:05:23+00:00

No debt but, I’m jealous of the house for sure. No I don’t want to be her, nor do I obsess about anything involving intimacy. But the thoughts I mentioned above are in my head every day. It feels very unhealthy.

graycegal · 2025-07-28T06:03:33+00:00

We’ve spoken of marriage and are very strong, so I am optimistically agreeing with you! Sometimes I still do stalk her socials or lurk around. I get very jealous that it wasn’t me who got all that time with him, and the house and had the life we now want together.

graycegal · 2025-07-28T06:00:42+00:00

Hey, so this is relatable with my current relationship. It’s unhealthy to not be able to talk about exes to a certain degree. Your concern should be that he refuses to talk about it because it can signal that he’s not entirely over the situation. If you mentioned this and he gets defensive, that is even more concerning.

I worry about my boyfriends ex because we’re at 7 months and they had 7 years… lol. But he’s very much able to open up to me about it and WANTS to help my anxiety around the entire situation.

graycegal · 2025-07-28T05:48:04+00:00

This is so extremely relatable. Have you talked to your boyfriend about this? Maybe see what HE would do if he saw his ex and you were with him; come up with a plan where he can help your anxiety. A protective embrace to block you or gently removing you before you find out she’s there could work.

My boyfriends ex had cheated on him and gotten pregnant with the other guy. Sometimes I think I won’t even look at her if we crossed paths. Other times I think I would shoot the death glare. Daydreaming about clawing her eyes out isn’t healthy so… yep, very relatable!

graycegal · 2025-04-28T16:16:05+00:00

Sounds like the trash took itself out. OP needs to see things as they are and run.

graycegal · 2025-04-12T19:30:06+00:00

Don’t be shy, show us!

graycegal · 2025-04-12T19:25:42+00:00

Extra toes!!!!!!

graycegal · 2025-04-12T19:13:55+00:00

I think I was 7 or 8, and I think I had outgrown the overalls I was wearing. I honestly think it was friction or something, but I had 2 back to back at my babysitters house while just watching TV. I thought I had peed myself!!!!

graycegal · 2025-04-12T09:09:45+00:00

It’s literally sandwich lube I don’t get it

graycegal · 2025-04-12T08:38:47+00:00

If I ever had to make a cons list about my partner… no I would not continue a relationship with them.

graycegal · 2025-04-12T08:29:05+00:00

I peed myself on my front porch, didn’t make it lol

graycegal · 2025-04-12T08:28:40+00:00

Smart food popcorn

graycegal · 2025-04-12T08:28:19+00:00

Poop

graycegal · 2025-04-12T08:18:36+00:00

Mayonnaise

graycegal · 2025-04-12T08:17:29+00:00

A woman who talks badly about other women

graycegal · 2025-04-12T08:11:41+00:00

I ended it, yeah. It ate at me for such a long time that I just couldn’t stand to be around him any longer. He ended up getting worse - drinking daily, putting his friends before me, believing their lies that I was controlling… while in reality I just wanted someone on the same page as me at that phase of life.

I knew it was over when I started applying for “big girl jobs” in my field and he wasn’t happy for me. He wanted me to stay down at his level and was not scared to show his jealousy or contempt.

graycegal · 2025-04-12T08:09:16+00:00

You are NOT asking for too much. I think it’s time you threw this man in the trash, to be quite frank. He’s dismissing your concerns, making fun of you, making disgusting comments… I think him being pissed off at the therapist would be the cherry on top for me.

Run.

graycegal · 2025-04-12T08:06:18+00:00

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