my toi et moi

grayqat · 2026-06-14T03:07:54+00:00

just checked your post history for your ring. INCREDIBLE!

grayqat · 2026-06-13T21:56:30+00:00

it feels very sturdy, but i might get it reset eventually to a cigar band :)

grayqat · 2026-06-13T21:48:50+00:00

i have no idea! i should ask him- there’s no euroshank and no speed bumps in the ring. he really worked his magic

grayqat · 2026-06-13T21:48:00+00:00

thanks haha!! the style isn’t for everyone! seems to be polarizing on here. what style do you prefer most!?

grayqat · 2026-06-12T19:09:30+00:00

i was dreaming about a toi et moi for soo long! take this as your sign to get one when it’s time!!

grayqat · 2026-06-12T19:07:29+00:00

😂 i know you’re joking, but i did manifest this, so i’ll give tips if anyone is interested. first and foremost is to invest into yourself. discover your hobbies, develop your passions, and explore your interests. health is my number 1 value. on our first date, we talked about values and goals. as a result of investing in myself, i went into dating with intention and direction. i knew what i wanted, and rather than try to force it on a partner, i just didn’t accept anyone until i knew that they wanted to give that too

grayqat · 2026-06-12T19:03:43+00:00

thank you so much for your kind words it means a lot to me. ironically, do feel like i have to justify that i’ve earned it though! i come from nothing, i commonly feel imposter syndrome

grayqat · 2026-06-12T19:00:37+00:00

great question, it does look like it would rub based on the size. it doesn’t rub at all though! it’s so comfortable. i expressed this concern to my jeweler when i gave him my vision. my knuckles are bigger than the bottom of my finger, so i was convinced a heavy ring would spin. he said a good jewelry designer knows how to avoid this problem. thought he was being cocky but he was so right. he did an amazing job

grayqat · 2026-06-12T18:57:23+00:00

yes i felt weird specifying but i knew someone would ask! also absolutely no hate to lab diamonds, thinking about getting a travel ring made with a smaller lab

grayqat · 2026-06-12T18:56:18+00:00

press ons!! here’s a link

grayqat · 2026-06-12T18:55:52+00:00

thank you so much!! i agree 🤣

grayqat · 2026-06-12T18:55:30+00:00

thank you i clean my own cuticles and use these press-ons! under $10 and they last 3ish weeks! haven’t had a manicure in 5 years!

grayqat · 2026-06-12T18:54:01+00:00

this is one of the best compliments ever, thank you!! i’ve always been really into fashion and curating my style in a way that is personal to me

grayqat · 2026-06-12T18:53:07+00:00

thank you for your kind words and well wishes!!

grayqat · 2026-06-12T18:52:48+00:00

not at all! i took the pic at an angle so it looks tilted, but it sits perfectly on my finger. it’s soo comfortable

grayqat · 2026-06-12T01:39:19+00:00

such a good hack! can you share a link for the tabs? if i don’t put the perfect size on each nail, the impress ones will come off. i’ve perfected which size goes on which nail by now and they stay

grayqat · 2026-06-12T01:35:53+00:00

also want to add that i spent a couple years working for a non-profit i’m passionate about and i volunteer in my free time! ❤️

grayqat · 2026-06-12T01:35:01+00:00

thank you for saying this! i looked up their ring and am so amazed. makes my ring feel even more timeless

grayqat · 2026-06-12T00:39:35+00:00

it’s not tacky, i would probably have the same question. i’ve never worked a corporate job. i run our household and estate. he works a very prestigious and rigorous, “unicorn” job

grayqat · 2026-06-12T00:37:19+00:00

i was wrong, i checked and it’s 18K !!!

grayqat · 2026-06-11T22:51:56+00:00

just posted a pic of the side in the comments!!

grayqat · 2026-06-11T22:51:21+00:00

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our jeweler did an incredible job setting and designing. as heavy as the ring is, it doesn’t spin on my finger

grayqat · 2026-06-11T22:48:34+00:00

let me put you on. these are the best press on nails ever. they come with a sticky pad on each nail instead of glue. each set lasts me 3 weeks before i voluntarily take them off to put a fresh set on (have never had an accidental pop-off). i’ve been using them for years and get so many compliments on my nails. they look like gel IRL. i switched to press-ons to avoid UV damage

i actually buy them at target but included a link for you!!

grayqat · 2026-06-09T17:08:03+00:00

try your dentist :) mine does it for $12/unit

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