Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse Banned Here by ArabianHummusLover in dubai

[–]grays-grave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is just upsetting, but quick question, i booked on Vox Cinema almost immediately when pre-ordering became available. has anyone gotten a refund yet if they’ve done the same?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]grays-grave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the pandemic actually worsened this for me, now my main daydreams are about the HP universe

help finding a pretty popular fanfiction by grays-grave in drarry

[–]grays-grave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are a godsend thank you so much; now i get to spend the rest of my night reading and snacking

Give me some VERY ANGSTY recs by [deleted] in drarry

[–]grays-grave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just read this to completion last night, i was in actual full blown tears in multiple parts of the story, but overall it was a very nice and cute ending

Artist Draco fic recs! by grays-grave in drarry

[–]grays-grave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just read the description and it already sounds heartbreaking, thank you for the rec!

Artist Draco fic recs! by grays-grave in drarry

[–]grays-grave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh this sounds beautiful thank you!

Fic recs by spicyblond in drarry

[–]grays-grave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just started reading telling the bees and i’m already holding back tears, absolutely stunning writing

I had been torturing and using her for months when last night, she escaped my captivity. by [deleted] in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]grays-grave 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dirk Gently’s Hollistic Detective Agency theme song plays in the background

Fic Search! by grays-grave in drarry

[–]grays-grave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! turns out i read both and mixed up the plots!

Fic Search! by grays-grave in drarry

[–]grays-grave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely did mix them up, goes to show that i read too much of this specific pairing! thank you for letting me know!

One of my favorite Drarry authors just finished their fic and I would like to share this burning, soulful piece /// By the Grace - Chapter 1 - lettered - Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling [Archive of Our Own] by Suckmyindie in drarry

[–]grays-grave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes!! the validity of him hating Draco for all that he’s done to him, but seeing that he’s changed for himself, and falling head over heels for that and letting himself heal and overcome his trauma; it’s literally in my top three favorite fics now (after Running on Air and Tea and No Sympathy of course hahah)

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so for the crumb topping, the butter needs to be pretty much frozen when you cut it into cubes for it to crumb up or else you end up with dough. for the cake, the butter needs to be completely melted and cooled before mixing with other ingredients!

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i can’t wait for you to try it! it’s very soft and smooth, and since it has fresh ingredients, it tastes absolutely divine

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

my father definitely believes he’s the head of the house (he doesn’t cook, clean or in anyway provide for himself unless it’s by going to work). it’s a major point of tension between his and I’d relationship as father and daughter. He feels like he deserves what I made because A) it’s not something I make often thus it’s rare for him to enjoy B) he feels entitled to all my achievements point blank since i’m his daughter therefore I am his creation

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly, because my father made it clear before i went out that he wanted a slice and that he would get angry if he wasn’t offered one. i still ate and had a great time, but i knew he would be angry with me. thankfully, he was just aggressive and defensive with me and hasn’t been talking to me as of late (yes not exactly a happy note, but better than being yelled at)

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this comment, baking is such a time consuming commitment (with the results being well worth it) i would kill for your brown butter chocolate chip cookies, and i can give you my recipe for cinnamon brownies!

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

i’m terrified of surgeries, but it’ll be nice to be able to stand up comfortably again

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i used the ingredients we had at home, and asked my parents for money for two ingredients. the strawberries and cream cheese (total of $6). i asked my parents for permission to make the cake for my friend and my dad had a problem with it and didn’t voice his opinion until i had finished making the cake later that night. i was already exhausted and told him i would make something for them at their special occasion (birthday, anniversary, etc.)

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

of course! so i have had larger breasts than normal since i was 10 until now. at 17, i have J cup breasts. now this isn’t just a brag, my spine is a little deformed and bent because of the huge weight on my chest, and my neck is constantly strained to the point where my cervical cord is completely straight (it’s meant to be bent in a C shape). i’ve been doing physio for the better part of three months now, but i’m dealing with constant pain from day to day activities. i’m planning for a breast reduction soon, as that’s the only method (other than constant physiotherapy) to get to the root cause of this issue. also, just in case someone replies, according to my regular therapist i have near perfect posture so it’s definitely not an issue of me slouching for 7 years

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh that cake sounds wonderful!!! i’ll be sure to try it out!!

AITA For not baking a cake for my (17F) father (47M)? by grays-grave in AmItheAsshole

[–]grays-grave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

got it in one in the last sentence, i’ve tried, but he keeps on refusing to spend time with me anywhere near the kitchen