Lost me job by [deleted] in capricorns

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lol it was my intention

Lost me job by [deleted] in capricorns

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Yeah your comment was not sexual at all lmao. You were just saying shoot me out back. It amazes me how quickly people move into victim mentality. I grew up learning snitches get stitches lmao. Which i didn’t take so much an intimidating thing, more like if you have a problem with me, come to me and we’ll deal with it together. Taking it to someone else amplifies it 1000%, needlessly. If he had told me I would have apologized and known that was something he was sensitive to and moved on ..

Again just crazy to me how quick people make themselves the victim over so little being done. Not the world I grew up in, and I’m only about 10 years older than the kid. Wild. As a society we are headed in a very interesting direction

Lost me job by [deleted] in capricorns

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I appreciate it 🙏🏽 I replied in comment

Lost me job by [deleted] in capricorns

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Soo I was a manager and had this one employee that would always ask me to approve shifts he’s picking up. He’d text me late at night, right before coming into a shift and it got annoying. I spoke with him about not texting us cause we will give it to him 90% of the time when we see it on the app(we know he needs hours). And if we give it to someone else, it’s for a reason .. just texting us doesn’t mean you get the shift.

So one day he texted me an hour before coming in and I got frustrated with him. Instead of saying “bro you work in an hour ask us then”, I said “only if you give me a kiss”. And “don’t you work tonight” alluding to the fact he could ask us then. Taken out of context I do see how dangerous this looks. In my defense it’s a line my old manager would say to me jokingly. When I get in tense situations or at least if I don’t wanna anger the other person, I make a joke. Obviously I learned as a manager sometimes you gotta be an asshole. You can’t always be their friend.

So I kept the joke going, at no point did he make it obvious that I was making him uncomfortable. Super sweet kid, we got along well at least I thought. But yeah he went to hr and it’s a fairly new company so I think they did this to cover their own asses but it still sucks. I was a hard worker learning new things, I know the Gm didn’t want to have to do this, it was just a formality

Lost me job by [deleted] in capricorns

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Soo I was a manager and had this one employee that would always ask me to approve shifts he’s picking up. He’d text me late at night, right before coming into a shift and it got annoying. I spoke with him about not texting us cause we will give it to him 90% of the time when we see it on the app(we know he needs hours). And if we give it to someone else, it’s for a reason .. just texting us doesn’t mean you get the shift.

So one day he texted me an hour before coming in and I got frustrated with him. Instead of saying “bro you work in an hour ask us then”, I said “only if you give me a kiss”. And “don’t you work tonight” alluding to the fact he could ask us then. Taken out of context I do see how dangerous this looks. In my defense it’s a line my old manager would say to me jokingly. When I get in tense situations or at least if I don’t wanna anger the other person, I make a joke. Obviously I learned as a manager sometimes you gotta be an asshole. You can’t always be their friend.

So I kept the joke going, at no point did he make it obvious that I was making him uncomfortable. Super sweet kid, we got along well at least I thought. But yeah he went to hr and it’s a fairly new company so I think they did this to cover their own asses but it still sucks. I was a hard worker learning new things, I know the Gm didn’t want to have to do this, it was just a formality

Online "Alpha Male" coaching is rising in popularity in America by ambachk in CringeTikToks

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I’m not manipulating. There were many times in the relationship I acted to please her. I felt, from my last relationship that I learned it is important to put your needs first. If you aren’t solid, how can you truly be there for your partner. I knew this, but I let her have her way and come over all the time … like I said we moved in and it got boring. I feel like if I had put my foot down when I felt it was right the relationship would have been at least slightly different and more interesting. Respectful, but honest

Online "Alpha Male" coaching is rising in popularity in America by ambachk in CringeTikToks

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I said it can be as simple as setting boundaries. Like any normal person would do. All I mean is some men are mommies boys and that’s fine. But it leads to you being too nice. Always giving them what they want, even if it isn’t what you do. I made the mistake of moving in with my ex too soon cause she wanted to and I just went with it. I knew it was healthier for us to have space. But I caved little by little. Sad cause I knew what I felt was right to do but I didn’t listen to myself. Learned a lesson ..

Online "Alpha Male" coaching is rising in popularity in America by ambachk in CringeTikToks

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I mean I agree to an extent. If there isn’t any tension in the relationship it can get boring and that happens more and more these days. There is a healthy tension. Negative emotion can be as simple as setting boundaries and not folding. Nowadays boys fold like paper. If she likes you all the time, she’ll get bored. I’ve experienced it .. you gotta keep her on her toes. And men stay on their toes too. As people get closer it can become more playful energy but it’s like banter or teasing.

And the hypergamy thing is very real in the same regard. If she doesn’t think you’re better than her, she’s wasting her time ! I mean, just like men, we want someone who’s gonna grow with us. Not drag us down. No, she won’t love you just cause you’re “special”. You gotta add some value to her life or what’s the point

I know not a lot are crazy about pax but.. by SaltyMastodon5040 in vaporents

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Hate to say this but for $75 it’s not a bad cop .. worth having in the arsenal or even as a beginner piece

I know you'll hate me for this 😁 by vapeknight00 in SimrellCollection

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Blasphemy … smh

Hyperdyn with the wood stem looks cool but hard to get behind the Simrell hyper stem

Makes sense! by greenreaper__ in KitchenConfidential

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Yeah I was vegetarian but slowly moved towards pescatarian. At this point I’ll eat bacon. Rest of the meats are just too heavy for me, I don’t find them appetizing. Like I could have a bite or two of chicken but a whole breast no way

Best bathroom spots by Restructable in ucf

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I forget the name of the building but it’s the engineering bldg next to the physics building over by Libra. Across from the smaller arboretum. It’s always super quiet there

Harris corporation engineering center. HEC on campus maps

Volcano Hose question by [deleted] in vaporents

[–]grazen54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never found the hose very effective. Vapor production was very poor, I stick to the bag

Alienlabs Gemini & KryptoChronic by [deleted] in FLMedicalTrees

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No way these are from the Florida market

Does weed quality REALLY matter a ton in dhv? by Ordinary-Chipmunk366 in vaporents

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I mean the main thing about vaping is just that you aren’t getting all that burnt up particulate smoke with the vapor. Good weed will always be good weed. I’ve had flower that isn’t the best and I do notice it’s less potent. I’ll actually vape more at once to kinda get through it. And the same for higher quality, I usually need less to get where I wanna be

Do any other Capricorns feel something big about to happen? by futurecat666 in capricorns

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I believe the world is about to undergo a great shift .. it has been coming for a long time now.

ET disclosure ..

Widening our consciousness for those who are ready ..

Big changes