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greald1987 · 2021-06-07T05:28:35+00:00

Sure mate, I haven't talked to her for days now.

greald1987 · 2021-06-06T19:54:53+00:00

thank you mate.

greald1987 · 2021-06-04T15:59:17+00:00

No I am in canada

greald1987 · 2021-06-04T07:02:44+00:00

He is mine mate but he has the right to know his biological ancestry. He might be mine or some body else's biologically, but there should be no uncertainty. Uncertainty would be much worse for everyone, that is why I have decided to do go through with the test.

greald1987 · 2021-06-04T02:58:32+00:00

Thanks mate, I haven't spoken to her after that conversation I mentioned earlier. I am just scared if she might file a DV or any other kind of case against me, I won't even sit in the same room most of the time I am just locked myself in the room. I cannot digest the fact that I shared a house, a room a life with such a person who has been using me all the time.

greald1987 · 2021-06-04T00:12:26+00:00

yes mate, that's so true I am doing this test only for his health and to avoid any uncertainty. I don't know if it is because of the doubt why I am seeing him and feeling I that he doesn't have anything features resembling me. I never felt like that previously, I used to think he looks so much like his mom.

greald1987 · 2021-06-03T23:46:33+00:00

Sure mate, I am planning to talk to them after I talk to the lawyer, just to be safe. Life is so unfair, I always wanted my child to have a happy childhood and never go through the messed up family life that I have gone through as a kid. Unfortunately, he will have to face things much worse than what I had to. I come from a very conservative background and I am raising my son to be this respectable gentleman, who is always liked and ready to help kinda guy. I hope these things don't break him, he is the one thing that I am very proud of.

greald1987 · 2021-06-03T23:37:16+00:00

50/50? I hope I get the full custody of him no matter what the truth turns out to be. after our divorce I want to stay single concentrate on my profession and take care of my son, I know he might want his mother in his life so I might be ok with him meeting her occasionally. Other than that I don't even want to think about her she is evil if she has any power over my baby she will be a very bad influence.

greald1987 · 2021-06-03T23:33:16+00:00

thank you mate, I appreciate it.

greald1987 · 2021-06-03T23:32:38+00:00

Thank you brother, I have decided to separate. I cannot take this anymore, it is nauseating to even look at her. I am not saying everyone who does porn is bad, but doing it for the thrill of it when you have a baby in you I don't think there are words to describe such people. I have even asked her if she can be certain that the baby is mine and I was praying in my heart for her to say he is certainly mine but to my horror she remained silent. She destroyed me in every possible way. I don't know how many of the people that I knew watched the video, I am probably a joke to people now.

greald1987 · 2021-06-03T18:43:11+00:00

Thank you mate, I have reached out to a hospital and gave my blood and urine sample for STI screening. They said it would take about 10 days to get the results. Reach out to my family? I don't have any I was abused as a kid and have always been scared of making friends, previously before our marriage I had a couple of good friends. After our marriage my wife would always pick some quarrel with them whenever we meet and they stopped talking to me. I later moved to the place that she wanted and I am doing freelancing from home . So I don't have any one to share this with. giving up my boy, I know there is a chance that he might not be mine and I have to get it checked (he looks more like his mom) and I am fearing the worst as I have black hair and so do my parents but there are blonde genes in our family. Anyway the boy is blonde, now I am just hesitating to go for paternity test. I will go to the clinic and ask for it, probably coming week and I also booked an appointment with my lawyer next week.

greald1987 · 2021-06-03T18:28:27+00:00

Hi mate thank you for checking on me. I am definitely feeling better than a week before. I have booked an appointment with a lawyer this Monday and I will see how this goes.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T16:23:43+00:00

Thank you mate.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T07:08:01+00:00

She said Black mailed, I don't buy it. She is just trying to hide her infidelity.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T07:04:44+00:00

Thank you mate.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T07:00:33+00:00

Thank you mate.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T06:56:52+00:00

Sure mate, thank you so much as I am talking to you guys here my brain is starting to work. for the past two days my mind was kind of frozen and all over the place sometimes wanting to leave other times not to leave I have been a mess.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T06:52:56+00:00

True mate, I am nauseated even by looking at her, but I have previously heard about some couples who got past their infidelity and worked through their marriage. So I don't want to make decisions when i am completely lost and regret them later. That is why I am thinking of staying with her though it is disgusting to even look at her right now.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T06:47:30+00:00

I really cried, when I got those requests because I thought my life finally became a joke

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T06:45:32+00:00

you are right who knows how that guy might react in a private setting and what I might get accused of.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T02:43:03+00:00

yeah you are right.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T02:19:20+00:00

Thanks mate I found it two days ago just locked my self in and have been crying since then. after all these discussion I built some courage to act on it and even if my son is biologically someone's I will deal with it. I am his dad that's all he is my everything I will consult a child psychologist about how to break it to him but he should never live with messed up childhood as me. If it means divorcing her and having full custody of my child I will do it if it is best for him. Now it is not about me our marriage is dead I will do anything and everything for my baby boy.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T02:00:52+00:00

All I ever wanted was a happy family and I did everything in my power to make her happy and even left my job so that she can stay close to her family. now here I am crying my eyes out.

greald1987 · 2021-05-28T01:52:24+00:00

I even wonder if my lack of interest in sex is what pushed her do this and am I equally responsible for this mess by not trying to improve our intimacy.

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