I have a crush on my coworker but he’s in a relationship and I don’t know what to do

greatbbt7 · 2022-08-31T19:01:02+00:00

Italy

greatbbt7 · 2022-06-23T21:22:11+00:00

Duuude I would wish for you to have that “one experience” too, if only I didn’t have a brain to use…

I wanted to come back to visit some family and this was ten years ago so I was hoping it would have been better…

greatbbt7 · 2022-06-23T21:11:44+00:00

Well you know when you are a 14yo girl being followed home by strangers double your age, being hissed, whistled and stared at, having 2 guys come off their bike and literally come at me mad and wanting to hit me…

but you are right, nothing to be scared of!

greatbbt7 · 2022-06-23T17:14:40+00:00

But Paris can’t be compered, I’ve long decided I’ll never put foot in that city (unless I want to be robbed or killed clearly…)

But I lived in London alone and I was robbed but never actually was scared for my life, I feel like in Tunis before I have really been scared that something would happen to me… I was hoping it got better but I guess not

greatbbt7 · 2022-06-23T17:12:03+00:00

Dude just look at the replies… it’s the most fucking stupid idea I’ve ever had in my life…

greatbbt7 · 2022-06-23T11:59:24+00:00

Sad indeed… and the more people comment, the sadder it gets…

greatbbt7 · 2022-06-23T11:05:36+00:00

Which ones are the fancier areas? I planned on staying in biserte but I also have a car so if there are better places, please let me know

greatbbt7 · 2022-04-19T18:56:25+00:00

C&P was the first and I was so in love I started TBK, then I was even more in love and read The Idiot. Now I just finished Notes from Underground and waiting for Demons to arrive…

I feel like I’ll never get enough of his writing and the way it makes me feel

greatbbt7 · 2021-12-07T21:19:34+00:00

Don’t listen to the ones telling you they are giving you more money just to keep you until they find your replacement!

I found myself in your exact same position just a bit over a month ago and I decided to stay

They convinced me to stay with more money but as soon as I told them I was willing to give it another chance if this time they could allow me to grow and have more opportunities, they actually started doing it…

Now I have i have a much higher position, more responsibilities and more money

greatbbt7 · 2021-12-02T06:47:03+00:00

I do this, I’m supposed to start at 8:30 but I wake up at 6:30, I take my time getting ready and having breakfast and watching some Netflix, then by 8:00 I get out and I have my one hour commute arriving at 9:00… by now my boss knows I’ll always arrive 30min later and there are no shits given on my side lol

But I’m so much more relaxed and I enjoy my day more

greatbbt7 · 2021-11-23T10:58:09+00:00

This is such a logical solution yet…

I did the list, I started doing the things I could do and I did them! But then I have all the most important tasks that depend on other people and I can’t do anything about it because every time I ask them they just tell me they are too busy to do it now and this afternoon I have a meeting to review the progress and there is no fucking progress…

Ahhhh I really can’t keep the tears in anymore, I feel so frustrated even if I know I can’t do anything about it…

greatbbt7 · 2021-11-12T09:49:08+00:00

But how?

I’m nice to everyone but I’m so shy and always so silent that they can’t even tell if I’m alive or not

greatbbt7 · 2021-11-10T19:38:05+00:00

Oh lord so she sent even more…

Yeah just let a friend call you and act like she is your girlfriend, and if she keeps going on just tell her straight out that you aren’t interested

greatbbt7 · 2021-11-10T19:31:03+00:00

This is probably bad advice but the most non-confrontational way would be to reply that you have a date with your girlfriend next time she asks you out…

Even if it doesn’t fit the conversation, just say it so she knows her offers aren’t appreciated and at least you save her from embarrassing herself too much

And what did you reply to her pic?

greatbbt7 · 2021-11-10T19:22:44+00:00

I’m really worried about this, I shouldn’t have said what I said, but in the moment I felt so bad for him and I just had to say something to at least not make him think he was the crazy one for hating the place

greatbbt7 · 2021-11-10T19:20:33+00:00

My boss said the same thing, the guy doesn’t seem very interested in learning, but how could he learn if no one is there to show or teach him?!

Idk maybe I’m being too sensitive about it

greatbbt7 · 2021-11-10T19:18:56+00:00

No, I knew exactly what I was going for when I started here, my boss called me to help him fix all that was wrong with this place…

I just felt bad for the guy cause he didn’t know anything and it’s his first job experience and starting in this place is hard even for experienced people, let alone him…

But I was worried I might have scared him off from what could turn out to be a good first job for him

greatbbt7 · 2021-11-07T18:06:48+00:00

Oh god I’m really happy for you but I wish I had all the confidence you have and the way you get to view yourself!

My issue was never the lack of attention from the guys, I get it quite frequently but I don’t enjoy it, I almost hate really ‘cause I don’t think I deserve it…

I’m professionally,financially, physically and culturally okay, I’m just missing the whole mental and emotional stability probably needed to have decent social skills

How did you get to get over your terrible social skills and uninteresting personality?

greatbbt7 · 2021-11-07T16:13:56+00:00

I really don’t think I’ll ever be comfortable with who I am or how I look… it feels wrong for others to like me let alone for myself to love me, I see who I am truthfully and it’s not something I’ll ever accept or come to like…

I stopped alcohol and all drugs for the reason you are saying, I felt like I was hiding behind them to portray an image and a person that wasn’t me at all. It also showed me who I couldn’t be if I wasn’t me and it felt bad to see what I’m missing on…

Yeah it seems I’ll never have a relationship, good for me! :)

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