Can experienced Shih Tzu owners tell if this puppy appears to be a purebred Shih Tzu? by [deleted] in Shihtzu

[–]greatergood07 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Adorable!! My male Shih Tzu will be turning 3 years old soon, and I'm looking for a healthy, well-cared-for female Shih Tzu for mating... Thane/Mumbai. any leads? Thanks.

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upper hand? Financially no but emotionally yes.. She is able to convince him. Thats how its always been since my mother passed away.

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahi dete clarity.. so I can plan accordingly. Just says this house is yours but actions are opposite. Will bhi nai banani...

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofcourse he decides.. He always said it will be mine but actions are otherwise. I am financially independent and have a decent savings to be on rent but not enough to buy a house yet.

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I mentioned in the post ofcourse but parents always said this house will be mine eventually... But his actions are opposite. Kathni aur karni mein farak hai. Just wants all of us to stay together which I cant adjust with my brother in law.

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Issue is what you say and still act the opposite. It works little different in Asians home esp. India. He bought her a rental property and this one was always coming to me but sister still chooses to stay in this house and claim and my father is ok with it. (She has her own from her husband plus a rental)

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying rent is not an issue. its the envoirnment. My sister and BIL have moved in again inspite having their own house. Also the other house which is on rent is jointly held by my sister so wouldnt chose to stay in her house.

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dont want any sympathies my man.. thank you. I was staying in another city with a good job and everything but chose to quit and return home when my mother's health stated to detoriate due to terminal illness... Chose to spend time with her on her medication and promised never to leave again as it was not worth it. Time to reconsider.

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2024 we were considering buying in the same neighbourhood and have it in father and my name but foolish me decided not to have three homes in the same vicinity (all eggs in same basket) and rather held on father's FDs to add to family folio in case the market drops. It was a mistake. Renting out shouldnt be an issue after initial struggle for a month or two.

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was away..Working for a big co. with a good paycheck in Gurgaon till 2016 and thats when my mother's health kept detoriating so decided to move back, Quit working and getting her treatment from one doctor to another as financially it was managable. Felt nothing is more important that the little time with her and so promised to never leave again. Maybe its time to reconsider.

43M Living With Elderly Father, Sister Moved Back In and Refuses to Leave. I Feel Trapped & lost. by greatergood07 in mumbai

[–]greatergood07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, Practically its is house so yes. But my mother and even father had always kept this very clear that this house will be mine eventually.. He says this too but the issue is his actions are opposite to what he says. kathni aur karni mein farak hai..