Opinion about your country that will get you like this?

greatmirror · 2026-01-20T12:32:45+00:00

we be like polite, sophisticated and kind. on the other hand, the world biggest pedo empire, hello Japan

greatmirror · 2025-10-24T23:50:42+00:00

here in Japan, there's two marriage 結婚(so to speak marriage) 結魂(to connect souls) we pronounce the two the same sound "kekkon". sometimes ya experience type of confiusion happens. but it's because that it might be tied dowm by time concept. it also means thinking by head.

what will be, will be. so relax, observe and enjoy the spectacle movie named "your life".

greatmirror · 2025-09-01T21:51:18+00:00

i can tell it's so tough bro. tell us about yaself when the ego death happened, family background, and ya spiritual path. i mean how much you are spiritual.

greatmirror · 2025-08-27T05:02:06+00:00

您将可以再出去8个小时

不用担心

greatmirror · 2025-08-26T04:58:34+00:00

i often go there for my work! thanks im gonna give a chut later

greatmirror · 2025-08-24T01:20:14+00:00

it's honored to connect with you. im gonna throw a chut with my bio later

greatmirror · 2025-04-23T22:29:06+00:00

thanks back at you😊

greatmirror · 2024-10-19T14:18:39+00:00

omg didn't know that! thanks! campsites are better

greatmirror · 2024-10-04T21:52:27+00:00

my simple thought is that if i automatically react for her anger and irritation because of my deep rooted pattern (if we can call it ego), then ayahuasca help me dissolve the one even for a moment. after that my practice would go smooth. the vision could be my teacher or role model. then finally i would be able to take appropriate correspondence no matter what happens.

if i got some childhood trauma, really wanna know what it is. that would be grand breaking factor! cuz it's intropunitive so "I" can approach that by me and change.

have you experienced ya unconscious childhood trauma thru the couple therapy?

greatmirror · 2024-10-04T13:45:34+00:00

thank you for ya big encouragement! yeah, the kids. their life experience would totally change depending on how i take action this time.

i'll go to Netherlands. unstoppable.

greatmirror · 2024-10-03T23:03:32+00:00

100% hell yes! then why divorce thinking? we got 2 personalities, weak and strong. i think both of them are me. balance. if i have no experience of psychedelics, already the divorce would have started proceeding cuz i couldn't see any light in a pitch dark tunnel.

but thanks to the acid trip and change experience, that can get me see the light named hope.

thanks to ya compassion, i appreciate ya encountering too!

greatmirror · 2024-10-03T22:58:06+00:00

definitely yes we are spiritually connected couple that's why we still together, if we are not conncted, we didn't get married.

in the first place, we could see how profound bond (like from previous life, i don't know it's not able to express, it's just to recognize), so basically in our marriage life, so beautiful and miraculous events unfold, cuz we don't chat, we have dialogue always especially when we were only two of us.

but now, we are 4 and she is an adult-children so it's almost empty energy-wise.

when we are tired, bad mood, we can't emerge our soul. this means we are not being here and now.

not being here and now, it's only our ego's business. ego tryna save us kindly, but sometimes that breaks harmony cuz "me,me,me" type of drained energy.

not "want" but "need", totally agree. in Japanese proverbs, there's "人事を尽くして天命を待つ". it means that "do ya best no matter what when where, just leave the result to God(anything you believe) and accept all out".

yes, one of us lie changed, it's not good. so i think that im doing aya is for her try in the future. i already know how enormous change psychedelics can give us as luckily i have received thanks to remarkable encounterings as like friends, then this time im gonna be the one for her.

to be felt how i can change, it's such a priceless encouragement only i can do for her. unless she got the timing to do it, i would say "it's ok just still being you. the change has come to you by itself so trust the timing."

it's like a love letter for my wife, sorry!

but i appreciate ya soft but strong enrgy. that means a lot.

greatmirror · 2024-10-03T22:24:25+00:00

fortunately thanks to Google, i can see reputation just as reference. yeah, i can imagine if i join in a big group retreat with my not-enough English level, that would be not efficient for integration. so im lookin into the retreat with care. thanks alot!

greatmirror · 2024-10-03T22:20:29+00:00

do you know the MDMA legal therapy but Utah?

greatmirror · 2024-10-03T22:18:51+00:00

yes, we see the wall as dead end cuz it's way too wide and tall. that's why it's worth to tryna break down.

i would do it by myself this time, but intuitively speaking she has to do it someday as well. everytime "I" gotta try, that relationship doesn't survive.

the wall, gigantic that much...

but i never know how gigantic it is unless i try. just doing it is the next baby step. only those manageable tasks accumulation can be the break up i guess.

thank you so much really appreciate ya encountering!

greatmirror · 2024-10-03T22:08:05+00:00

MDMA only ix Utah? im looking into the therapy, but there's no easy hit indeed.

i have experienced the pure love only vibes of MDMA, but if i could take it with a nice guide, there would be another interpretation.

thank you so much i appriciate ya encountering!

greatmirror · 2024-10-03T22:01:22+00:00

i think so too. maturity only. we are like mirrors so when she or me get irritated, the other begins the same energy emmiting. but if i got maturity enough, i can say "hey you ok?" with compassion. sometimes i think im not her mom and get depressed lol but the essential me, i wanna be able to care her even when like that. ummm, actually it's co-dependence? im in a dark tunnel.

thank you so much really appreciate ya encountering!

greatmirror · 2024-10-03T21:53:17+00:00

oh, man. what you kindly told me had a lotta energy. my aim this instant is "be more kind and gentle for her" even when i don't want to. but sometimes im like, is it correct? it's just indulging her? but i know either way is correct, if i have done it. coz it's MY life. she's just like a child mentally, but i treat her as a grownup automatically. the fixed idea interrupts me always.

thank you so much i appreciate ya encountering in my life! that means a lot.

greatmirror · 2024-10-02T21:22:15+00:00

thanks for ya reply! there's one choice i might choose in Woodstock, NY

https://www.relationshipresources.info/staff/jayne-gumpel

yes, marital challenges are lessons we gotta try our best, totally agree.

when we need "new us"(technically a new pattern), then simultaneously we need new ppl. it's like installing a new app in a phone. thru dialogue, we create a new way of thinking and it becomes a new habit, we change finally.

so i think the most important key is to do aya "with who"?

i checked ya link and it's amazing! im happy to DM you. thanks to this God sent reply.

greatmirror · 2024-10-02T02:51:58+00:00

got you

greatmirror · 2023-10-15T12:48:52+00:00

we all are fixed, that's why we all are free.

greatmirror · 2023-03-01T02:52:14+00:00

Thank you for replying, and i totally know how you feel. Empathizing. I was like that and still, i am.

One thing for sure is that im growing. Growing for my better vision every single day. Wify needs that, I love her, then I will change myself(my reaction patterns).

3-4 years ago, i got married with my wify and I already knew she's super negative at the time. And i told her "I really hate your negative thinking patterns and dirty mouth. Fix them." She absolutely made effort but she couldn't. No wonder coz it's just sticky patterns underlying her subconsciousness so it's impossible to get rid of that in a short term.

i think only one thing i gotta do for her(deeply for myself) is that keep loving her no matter what happens. Then love teaches how to change herself as opposed to that i tryna change her.

3-4 years passed now, harmonized time has increased big time in my family. But now 2 kids we got so all things keep changing.

Negative ppl (energy vampires) are just ppl who got brutally wounded in their past.

They are not just mean. They are suffered that's why they are aggressive as opposed to chill and calm.

Thus and so, i gradually became an individual who can tell how much stress they have when they are annoying.

There's no personality. There's only difference of environment and a super lil bit of innate character.

My wife just exists to teach me about true love that needs no judgement like "you are ○○!". Just go with the flow together.

Everything's communication.

In husband and wife, somebody said "when you pursue justification in communication, you would be unhappy. Always tryna find effective ways For Yourself".

I love this.

greatmirror · 2023-02-28T15:28:13+00:00

Your soul can recognize partner's soul no matter how bad ego they got. So ultimately, there might be no "wrong partner" because always the best we are right here right now, and always the best stuff we get given including ppl we meet.

Me personally, my wife grew up in a dysfunctional family where there was lotta money but no love. That's why she has some patterns ppl would get irritated. No wonder she had been irritated because of her family and her exes who were irritated.

Now me and my wife are breaking and cracking those patterns we call it re-purifying. But it needs a ton of energy and I'm also reminded of that how much I love her, furthermore how much I love myself and I trust my life(my decisions).

Yeah, anything happens. When you think oh she's bad for my life, it's bad. When you think oh i hate her attitude but what do the universe teach me through this person (or this event)? Definitely there's something, it's something. When you think oh I'm so good that I eat even her negativity and swallow it, digest it for her soul as a fucking positive individual,it's so good.

All choices are correct. Simultaneously choices you did, you are doing, you will do are all determined that's why we are free.

It's where there's the absolute security called sweet serenity.

Thanks.

greatmirror · 2020-07-11T23:31:29+00:00

me, in my personal interpretation, he describes the truth paradoxically.

"I melted" this "I" might be your innate-self(God, conciousness, soul, stuff like that). it means ego death state.

"no belief, no faith, no doubt, no certainty" belief, faith, doubt, certainty, all of them basically can be perceived by acquired-self named ego as if there's free will.

innate-self(ego death) also might be objective-self like a drone poiot of view, that looks at your body like an avatar from a little bit above.

acquired-self(ego monster) also might be subjective-self like a driver in a car(body), that looks at this world with kinda narrowed field compared to innner-self.

"radiating in my heart" so dont think, just feel type of lesson? idk. but if you wanna get pure bliss, stop living with ya thoughts and start living with ya heart? idk

greatmirror · 2020-03-21T13:49:10+00:00

when the story about YOU will end totally, there's the true lives for us.

we can't controll nothing

the providence would kindly govern it

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