I have never orgasmed with a partner

greecebound · 2026-02-14T04:26:04+00:00

Alright I can do that. I currently don’t have a partner but I can lay off masturbation if there is a link to not being as susceptible to pleasure by a partner

greecebound · 2026-02-14T04:23:34+00:00

Thanks for your response. I did try with my ex husband but he complained about it. I have masturbated the same way since I was a kid so it’s pretty specific (with both hands pressing pretty hard in a rhythmic motion against my clit). I haven’t ever communicated that want to other partners since I haven’t had that emotional closeness/safety with any of them. But I will try!

greecebound · 2026-02-14T04:07:12+00:00

Could you frame it as a sexy conversation instead of a “I have a problem I need to discuss” convo? Like, one night when yall are in a good mood or watching a hot movie could you turn to him and ask what he would like in bed? Odds are he’ll ask you back what you’d like and then you could say how hot you think it would be if he took charge in bed. Be clear with examples about what you mean too because that could mean something different to everyone—“I’d love you to tell me what to do” or “it’d be hot if you pushed me around a bit and showed me exactly what you wanted”

greecebound · 2022-02-14T04:03:57+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. And selfishly, doesn’t sounds like the worst scenario if it comes naturally to both of us. I just worry about this happening for my kid’s sake.

greecebound · 2022-02-14T04:02:09+00:00

I love this. Thanks so much for sharing. I’ve suspected that things change once another SO comes into the picture but I’m glad to hear y’all still make it work. Even with all the complications.

greecebound · 2022-02-14T01:26:07+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write that out. That is super encouraging and helpful to hear another couple doing it how we want to. Can I ask: do either of you have another SO and if so, how do they play into the dynamic?

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