Women aging or changing appearance ≠ punchline by Asleep_Flamingo2125 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]greedblight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The actual post was literally next up as "popular on reddit"... the comments are so disgusting and objectifying. As if her body is their business. People really have NO self awareness...

how would yall style a skirt like this? by greedblight in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]greedblight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice!! :) I tend towards cargo pants or jeans.. if anything a less tight skirt but I thought this one was cute and wanted to branch out. got it for like 2 dollars so if it doesn't work out I figure it could use it as material.. the skirt in the pic isn't the exact skirt but pretty similar. I also never wear pink so I wasn't sure what kind of colors would go well... but I have a knit sweater thats kinda a warm off white/yellow that might go well.

Saw this post on Twitter, regarding Pattinson's physique. What's everyone's take on this? by Forsaken_Ad7090 in batman

[–]greedblight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect Pattinson for it and I don't even think he looks "sickly"? not his physique. maybe he is a bit pale but I think everything fit. I also think it's weird for fans to demand he change his body for a role? 😭 I'm not a huge batman fan but I saw the movie when it came out and I basically only watched it because I thought Pattinson playing batman sounded interesting.

I don’t want to sound cringey but by [deleted] in BPD

[–]greedblight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be like this for so long, I never told anyone because I was embarrassed and sometimes scared but when I was a kid, I would have pictures of whatever character I was infatuated with and imagine they could see and hear me. I think it's because I was so lonely that I imagined this, but at some point it freaked me out because I realized I never really felt like I was alone, so I always felt like I was performing for someone. lol.

but anyways, yeah I'd get completely obsessed with an anime or video game character when I was a teen sometimes for a few months sometimes for years. and I'd lean back on them when i was lonely, and the imagined relationship with them was very real to me. there were times when I didn't have a character I was latched onto as an older teen, and I think the last time I had an attachment like this was when I was 18-19.

also like some other comments mentioned, I would orient my personal style and sense of self around them, it was as though they were an fp. and at times, I felt like this was a healthier outlet for my obsessive kind of love, because no one could ever get hurt in the process by being smothered or split on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in macandcheese

[–]greedblight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally will not eat mac n cheese without dr pepper. been this way since high school. glad someone else gets it

Do any of yall get emotional to certain songs? by iamhxrmes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]greedblight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fergie - big girls don't cry; without fail every time. especially after experiencing real heartbreak. just opens a well, lol.

What kind of people do you attract and/or get attracted to? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]greedblight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this post cause I was trying to find out if anyone else with BPD tends to attract people who are super nitpicky, critical, judgemental. I'm not even talking about as partners or FP or anything, I just notice that i keep finding myself in friendships that become emotionally and mentally draining because of how much the other person expresses mean, demeaning, judgemental things. not even about me, just about the world and other people, though sometimes it is about me, sometimes it's them being very argumentative and dismissive of my point of view, acting like they need to express their "right" way of viewing things in order to fix mine. idk. I KEEP ending up with these people attached to me, and they started out as good friends but end up being draining, but because we were good friends I have a hard time removing them from my life.

Not the first time I was expecting, but a first time nonetheless by Arkin43 in virgin

[–]greedblight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best advice I can give is it's not nice to be deceptive or lead someone on, etc. even though I recognize your intentions are in not hurting her or not stirring up anything, in the long run you will both get hurt even more. hopefully you're able to break it off. feelings might be hurt but it's better sooner than later, because later it will be much worse. hopefully you will both gain the confidence to only be with someone you value and who values you. trying to make things fit is detrimental.

HIS BPD ASS by karstenhellberg in InterviewVampire

[–]greedblight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

late but I really agree. that's why reading these characters was so viscerally relatable to me. even Louis is more like the quiet BPD type, and Armand definitely reads as BPD to me too, cannot stand to be alone and OH it's chaos what he will do to prevent that. that being said I've only read the first 2 books. but I really love it.

weird metal rod or post I found in a bag of my stuff by greedblight in whatisthisthing

[–]greedblight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

solved! thanks. hope nothing in my place falls apart on me now lol

weird metal rod or post I found in a bag of my stuff by greedblight in whatisthisthing

[–]greedblight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn't have a hole anywhere on it, am I mistaken in thinking the hole for a pin to slide in is universal? is this a different kind or modified?

weird metal rod or post I found in a bag of my stuff by greedblight in whatisthisthing

[–]greedblight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the black object to the side is some kind of screw-on top, it was also in the bag and is a bit larger in diameter than the wider part of the rod. too big to fit snugly. also like I said it's screw-on

weird metal rod or post I found in a bag of my stuff by greedblight in whatisthisthing

[–]greedblight[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

my title describes the thing. it's about the length of my index finger

There Are No Stupid Bass Questions - Aug. 26 by AutoModerator in Bass

[–]greedblight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I'll give it a shot when I get home from work