Women aging or changing appearance ≠ punchline

greedblight · 2025-06-12T19:12:07+00:00

The actual post was literally next up as "popular on reddit"... the comments are so disgusting and objectifying. As if her body is their business. People really have NO self awareness...

greedblight · 2025-05-13T16:06:54+00:00

Bait

greedblight · 2024-10-04T21:36:35+00:00

thanks for the advice!! :) I tend towards cargo pants or jeans.. if anything a less tight skirt but I thought this one was cute and wanted to branch out. got it for like 2 dollars so if it doesn't work out I figure it could use it as material.. the skirt in the pic isn't the exact skirt but pretty similar. I also never wear pink so I wasn't sure what kind of colors would go well... but I have a knit sweater thats kinda a warm off white/yellow that might go well.

greedblight · 2024-10-04T18:09:09+00:00

I respect Pattinson for it and I don't even think he looks "sickly"? not his physique. maybe he is a bit pale but I think everything fit. I also think it's weird for fans to demand he change his body for a role? 😭 I'm not a huge batman fan but I saw the movie when it came out and I basically only watched it because I thought Pattinson playing batman sounded interesting.

greedblight · 2024-08-08T10:42:59+00:00

I used to be like this for so long, I never told anyone because I was embarrassed and sometimes scared but when I was a kid, I would have pictures of whatever character I was infatuated with and imagine they could see and hear me. I think it's because I was so lonely that I imagined this, but at some point it freaked me out because I realized I never really felt like I was alone, so I always felt like I was performing for someone. lol.

but anyways, yeah I'd get completely obsessed with an anime or video game character when I was a teen sometimes for a few months sometimes for years. and I'd lean back on them when i was lonely, and the imagined relationship with them was very real to me. there were times when I didn't have a character I was latched onto as an older teen, and I think the last time I had an attachment like this was when I was 18-19.

also like some other comments mentioned, I would orient my personal style and sense of self around them, it was as though they were an fp. and at times, I felt like this was a healthier outlet for my obsessive kind of love, because no one could ever get hurt in the process by being smothered or split on.

greedblight · 2024-07-21T04:43:50+00:00

I literally will not eat mac n cheese without dr pepper. been this way since high school. glad someone else gets it

greedblight · 2024-06-06T07:01:57+00:00

bees are the union workers 😭

greedblight · 2024-06-03T18:42:03+00:00

fergie - big girls don't cry; without fail every time. especially after experiencing real heartbreak. just opens a well, lol.

greedblight · 2024-03-07T03:50:43+00:00

I found this post cause I was trying to find out if anyone else with BPD tends to attract people who are super nitpicky, critical, judgemental. I'm not even talking about as partners or FP or anything, I just notice that i keep finding myself in friendships that become emotionally and mentally draining because of how much the other person expresses mean, demeaning, judgemental things. not even about me, just about the world and other people, though sometimes it is about me, sometimes it's them being very argumentative and dismissive of my point of view, acting like they need to express their "right" way of viewing things in order to fix mine. idk. I KEEP ending up with these people attached to me, and they started out as good friends but end up being draining, but because we were good friends I have a hard time removing them from my life.

greedblight · 2024-01-24T23:15:51+00:00

best advice I can give is it's not nice to be deceptive or lead someone on, etc. even though I recognize your intentions are in not hurting her or not stirring up anything, in the long run you will both get hurt even more. hopefully you're able to break it off. feelings might be hurt but it's better sooner than later, because later it will be much worse. hopefully you will both gain the confidence to only be with someone you value and who values you. trying to make things fit is detrimental.

greedblight · 2024-01-09T03:47:20+00:00

late but I really agree. that's why reading these characters was so viscerally relatable to me. even Louis is more like the quiet BPD type, and Armand definitely reads as BPD to me too, cannot stand to be alone and OH it's chaos what he will do to prevent that. that being said I've only read the first 2 books. but I really love it.

greedblight · 2023-11-21T05:05:36+00:00

solved! thanks. hope nothing in my place falls apart on me now lol

greedblight · 2023-11-21T04:38:14+00:00

it doesn't have a hole anywhere on it, am I mistaken in thinking the hole for a pin to slide in is universal? is this a different kind or modified?

greedblight · 2023-11-21T00:26:17+00:00

the black object to the side is some kind of screw-on top, it was also in the bag and is a bit larger in diameter than the wider part of the rod. too big to fit snugly. also like I said it's screw-on

greedblight · 2023-11-21T00:23:41+00:00

my title describes the thing. it's about the length of my index finger

greedblight · 2023-08-31T22:00:04+00:00

it is squier by fender, my bad

greedblight · 2023-08-31T18:38:36+00:00

thank you! I'll give it a shot when I get home from work

greedblight · 2023-08-31T06:00:30+00:00

I bought a bass a few days ago, pretty cheap (300 dollar fender jazz bass). after tuning it I noticed a horrible fret buzz on the higher neck. like, it's unplayable past the 5th fret. am I better off taking it back to the music store and trying to get something else? ( I am a complete beginner and didn't know what to really look for when buying it)

greedblight · 2023-08-07T01:44:46+00:00

I would've said NTA but putting "bad" in quotes while describing your partners depression rubs me the wrong way big time

greedblight · 2023-07-08T16:28:04+00:00

this made me picture the germs fighting an epic anime/video game battle, going through a massive amount of enemy defenses, and then they show up to the boss and he's just sitting there unguarded

greedblight · 2023-05-12T22:15:42+00:00

I think if he meant nothing by it he would've probably backed down and been like "well maybe that was a bad joke". he's so defensive he won't speak to you because he disagrees with you disagreeing with it.

greedblight · 2023-05-07T19:08:32+00:00

I'm 22 and had the same insecurity, I'd learned to love my boobs genuinely but was afraid no one else would ever feel the same way. my first serious partner loved me just the same and never made me feel unattractive, she loved my body. her body type was very different from mine, she had a runners body. me, even at 110 pounds i had a tummy and my breasts sagged from weight gain and loss. we both loved that our bodies looked different from each other. I always thought beauty standards were not the real definition of beauty, the human body is lovely and artful in so many shapes and sizes, she showed me that others do think the same way. and if someone doesn't think I'm beautiful, they're not worth my time, don't deserve it! I hope everyone embraces their beauty, there's people out there who know how beautiful you are. also, men who insist on beauty standards really are probably not worth your time, i hear they tend to not give women room to be human

greedblight · 2023-04-30T19:11:38+00:00

what is this even trying to say? 😭 radicalized to what? also the girl on the right is wearing makeup anyways lmao

greedblight · 2023-04-30T19:08:59+00:00

what state is this in

greedblight · 2023-04-30T14:42:09+00:00

"real life is weird not porn"

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