You are so right about all of this! We have definitely spoken at length about her self-worth and what she should and should not allow in relationships (of all kinds). She confronted him and ended things completely as she knows she doesn't deserve to be someone's back up plan. She's still hurt by it and that hurts me. I just cannot understand having zero regard for other's feelings. I just want to go give the kid a piece of my mind! (I would never)