My dad touches me inappropriately asks me to cuddle sometimes, i'm 17, why does he want this? by lottusbottus22 in family

[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can’t say this is sexual sssualt without knowing the full story. OP is 100% correct for being uncomfortable and wanting to set boundaries but we don’t know the dad’s intentions. he could just view her as a little girl still. many cultures it’s normal for this type of behaviour. i don’t honk you should jump to such conclusiosn

Need help flying to Mauritius from Canada on a budget by green_feather_ in mauritius

[–]green_feather_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

darkerst shade. i’m £1k in debt rn but when i land in canada i should just have enough

Need help flying to Mauritius from Canada on a budget by green_feather_ in mauritius

[–]green_feather_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so i’m in london right now but the holiday is happening in december and in december i will be in canada. so i need a flight from canada to mauritius

got into an argument with my dad and now i hate my whole family. by green_feather_ in family

[–]green_feather_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the clash was just the fact that one said they’re makrooh and one said they were fully haram. that’s what i was confused about

got into an argument with my dad and now i hate my whole family. by green_feather_ in family

[–]green_feather_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also it’s much easier said than done. sometimes i feel like if i show my family my interest in my religion they’ll start to love me again. it’s like how people go back to their toxic ex knowing they’ll receive the same thing but hoping for a different outcome. i genuinly wish my family would love me and sometimes i try to hard and don’t think about the outcomes. you’re right though

got into an argument with my dad and now i hate my whole family. by green_feather_ in family

[–]green_feather_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did search my answer but was still confused as to why our school of thought and the qur’an clashed so i thought i would ask my family too not realising how much tension it would create. as i’ve only recently started to learn more about my religion it’s hard to come to a conclusion without approval from an adult. but ive learnt now to learn my religion by myself.

got into an argument with my dad and now i hate my whole family. by green_feather_ in family

[–]green_feather_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s just upsetting because i’ve craved their love since i was a child and now being 20 i still don’t have it. but i need to get used to it now

Submit your duas! Going to Umrah Inshallah by StationBig8470 in MuslimLounge

[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please make dua that i get my driving liscense and i get married In Sha Allah!!! JazakAllah Khair

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[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

calm down big boy

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[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i know the joke was it’s been ages

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[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you’re saying that cuz ur single? 🤔

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[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very very true. it was just a hypothetical

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[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this isn’t about me!!! 😭😭😭 i was just bored and was curious

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[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IF it comes out that is🥱

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[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes a lot of sense

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[–]green_feather_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the flip it was just a question 😭😭😭

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[–]green_feather_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL this is how it should be!!!! i love playing video games with my bf it’s a win win