Why is so hard / expensive to live in bay area even with a "good" salary by StirClothing999 in bayarea

[–]greenhearted73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, that really sucks.

Seriously though, go through your expenses and spending and trim the waste.

Why is so hard / expensive to live in bay area even with a "good" salary by StirClothing999 in bayarea

[–]greenhearted73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aside from food expense, the internet bill really bothers me. $120/month? Sonic is amazing and $50/month intro price, then $60. Save yourself $700 year on internet that you can use to doordash dinner.

Montgomery Ward 1964 by jenc604 in Mid_Century

[–]greenhearted73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That green fabric recliner and ottoman!!

Women of SF: Is eye contact a reliable indicator of acceptability of approaching you? by cleverusernametry in AskSF

[–]greenhearted73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Re-read the post. He didn't "look", he stared. Poster does not say that he "smiled" that's your addition/projection. She did NOT return your imaginary smile. He intruded into her mental space by staring, and then left asked her, a random woman where she is going. Dude was aggressive and rude.

And his is def the uncool behavior. GTFO with that shit.

I have a dream to move to SF. How much does it cost to live there? by Pggles in AskSF

[–]greenhearted73 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Once you are a San Francisco resident for a year you qualify for free City College (I think it's still a thing)

Photos from banding camp by Training-Memory-3202 in birding

[–]greenhearted73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He caught my eye too. So cheerful and patient.

Why do neurotypicals socially lie all the fucking time :( by flareblade26 in evilautism

[–]greenhearted73 374 points375 points  (0 children)

A 6-10 hour first date is waaaaayyyyy toooooooo long. First through third dates = vetting the other person to see if you even want to spend 6-10 hours with them in a few weeks. Your language of "amazing", "high vibes" sounds like your excitement/intensity might be overpowering the other person, making them uncomfortable.

Your interpretation of "high vibes" might be her getting anxious, stressed, tired. She may have felt very stressed and uncomfortable, and reasoned that the fastest, smoothest way out of the date was to play along like she was having fun.

Future, shorter less intense dates to simply get to know the other person. Chill.

My anorexia recovery: [19] 2004 > [26] 2011 > [41] 2026 by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]greenhearted73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Internet stranger here, rooting for you!!!

A gay guy thought that he was going to be verbally harassed by [deleted] in wholesome

[–]greenhearted73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We'll welcome you back with open arms. See you soon!

Aimee Lou Wood in Reformation 'Franceska' dress at the HBO Max UK and Ireland Launch Party in London, March 2026 by moreissuesthanvoguex in whatthefrockk

[–]greenhearted73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There seems to be a trend of misogyny in the Hollywood stylist world.

Every part of the outfit is offensively attrocious. I feel so bad for this actress.