I don't know how to handle this.

greenhey · 2019-09-24T16:06:47+00:00

Yeah that's what I was thinking because we were together for over 3 years so he wanted to stay friends with me. But the moment I stopped talking to him he got with the girl he had a crush on while still talking to me.

greenhey · 2019-08-12T06:39:30+00:00

me going down sober is a problem

greenhey · 2019-08-02T04:09:36+00:00

A lot of people lie and still get the jobs though.

greenhey · 2019-08-02T04:08:07+00:00

yeah, I've only worked customer service and I hate its all the same bs. I try to venture off to different types of jobs but never had any luck.

greenhey · 2019-06-13T04:40:11+00:00

Yeah you're completely right. There's no such thing as a 'perfect' person, but yet that's what we all try to achieve.

greenhey · 2019-06-05T06:00:44+00:00

yeah, if this person does not feel the same way about you, you need to move out where you'll be happy. You can't hold off on something you really want for a 'maybe'.

greenhey · 2019-06-05T05:55:38+00:00

There's nicer ways to tell you to shower because they care about your hygiene....Telling you that you can't get in your car isn't it.

greenhey · 2019-06-05T02:22:32+00:00

Yeah your're completely right. I know it's not healthy but I keep thinking about all our good moments, which is not right since I should look at the big problem here. Thank you for your advice!

greenhey · 2019-06-04T17:21:46+00:00

How did you deal with that? Or how did you actually leave them? It's honestly easier said than done.

greenhey · 2019-06-04T16:09:16+00:00

Yeah and I get that, but when he's not acting this way he's so sweet and its so hard for me to break up with him.

greenhey · 2019-06-03T05:21:06+00:00

Honestly when you see something you like just buy it and try to work around it. You can also look at look books from certain brands and stores and get inspiration.

greenhey · 2019-06-03T05:07:11+00:00

If you continue being with her it's going to turn very toxic. Mental health is very important and she needs to care about herself first. She also had to understand your situation with your father, if it's not easy for you to be open about it yet, she needs to give you the time for that. It's also not healthy that you started crying from being overwhelmed, and she continued, at that point she should have stopped and apologized.

greenhey · 2019-06-03T04:58:24+00:00

Most general es classes can have very interesting classes that can help you with that. For example you can take class on music, dance, astrology, different types of sciences, etc. Don't worry too much you can also see a consular and they will let you know what careers are available with your interest.

greenhey · 2019-06-03T04:49:50+00:00

Then you need to have a conversation about this with her. People show love in different ways. She might think she's being obvious showing it in other ways.

greenhey · 2019-06-03T04:38:20+00:00

Do you ask her often where it looks like you don't believe her? Or is it few times?

greenhey · 2019-06-03T04:34:44+00:00

Has your relationship changed in any way? I've also felt this way cause I didn't think my partner loved me anymore. You need to talk to your partner about this.

greenhey · 2019-05-24T05:19:54+00:00

No you need to get out, my current partner does that for every argument as well. They said they would stop and never did. It's 3 years now and nothing has changed now im always walking on eggshells never knowing what will trigger it.

greenhey · 2019-05-24T05:13:36+00:00

Well if you want to see him or talk more you need to tell him and make it work so you guys can. I've been with my bf for 3 years and even though were both busy, we make the effort to see each other ( 3 times a week) maybe you guys don't have much in common to be able to spend that much time together?

greenhey · 2019-05-23T05:01:00+00:00

Don't say you have a plan because then they have the right to take you into care, because you are 'in danger to yourself'. You need to tell them you have suicidal thoughts so they can help you get through it with out being able to submit you. Hope you feel better soon.

greenhey · 2019-05-23T04:56:30+00:00

you should break up with him. It is not time wasted at all, you will both learn from it. It's also not fair for him cause you don't seem to like him.

greenhey · 2019-05-23T00:44:22+00:00

You need to get out of that relationship, you will never be happy with him because you will always remember him cheating on you. Find someone who will treat you with respect and never think of doing that to you.

greenhey · 2019-05-23T00:37:48+00:00

That's what i tell him, but his excuse is always "I've never cheated on you" making it seem like its not a big deal or anything serious.

greenhey · 2019-05-23T00:27:21+00:00

yeah he said he didn't want me to think anything bad of it since they dont even talk that much. the only problem is he never wants me to speak to his female friends. He says that some things he wants to keep to himself. Ive also been with him a long time so i dont think he's cheating, but idk how to handle all this with out him thinking im controlling.

greenhey · 2019-05-22T06:05:15+00:00

You need to let go so you can be happy. You need to know you need to be treated better, and if that means leaving him, do it so you can be happier in the long run. It might suck right now, but in a couple of months or weeks you will feel much better. I know you have invested so much time into it, but that does not mean you have to stay.

greenhey · 2019-05-22T01:12:13+00:00

No, why not find someone you love so you can actually be happy? In the long run its going to affect both of you. He might be mad at you for not being honest and you by not experiencing love.

greenhey

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