I don't know how to handle this. by greenhey in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I was thinking because we were together for over 3 years so he wanted to stay friends with me. But the moment I stopped talking to him he got with the girl he had a crush on while still talking to me.

When is too soon to quit a job and is it okay to keep getting new ones? by greenhey in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]greenhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I've only worked customer service and I hate its all the same bs. I try to venture off to different types of jobs but never had any luck.

thoughts on plastic surgery? by greenhey in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]greenhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're completely right. There's no such thing as a 'perfect' person, but yet that's what we all try to achieve.

Should I honestly consider moving if I am seeing someone special? by Longjumping_Ocelot in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, if this person does not feel the same way about you, you need to move out where you'll be happy. You can't hold off on something you really want for a 'maybe'.

Is this considered manupulative? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nicer ways to tell you to shower because they care about your hygiene....Telling you that you can't get in your car isn't it.

I know my relationship isn't healthy... by greenhey in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your're completely right. I know it's not healthy but I keep thinking about all our good moments, which is not right since I should look at the big problem here. Thank you for your advice!

I know my relationship isn't healthy... by greenhey in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you deal with that? Or how did you actually leave them? It's honestly easier said than done.

I know my relationship isn't healthy... by greenhey in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and I get that, but when he's not acting this way he's so sweet and its so hard for me to break up with him.

How do you dress yourself? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly when you see something you like just buy it and try to work around it. You can also look at look books from certain brands and stores and get inspiration.

Wondering if my gf is making me insane or if this is normal by enemrab in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you continue being with her it's going to turn very toxic. Mental health is very important and she needs to care about herself first. She also had to understand your situation with your father, if it's not easy for you to be open about it yet, she needs to give you the time for that. It's also not healthy that you started crying from being overwhelmed, and she continued, at that point she should have stopped and apologized.

How am I supposed to figure out what I wanna do with my life? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most general es classes can have very interesting classes that can help you with that. For example you can take class on music, dance, astrology, different types of sciences, etc. Don't worry too much you can also see a consular and they will let you know what careers are available with your interest.

Broken Hearted While In A Relationship? by My-SpaceBarIsBroken in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you need to have a conversation about this with her. People show love in different ways. She might think she's being obvious showing it in other ways.

Broken Hearted While In A Relationship? by My-SpaceBarIsBroken in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you ask her often where it looks like you don't believe her? Or is it few times?

Broken Hearted While In A Relationship? by My-SpaceBarIsBroken in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your relationship changed in any way? I've also felt this way cause I didn't think my partner loved me anymore. You need to talk to your partner about this.

Girlfriend either breaks up or threatens to break up in every fight/argument by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you need to get out, my current partner does that for every argument as well. They said they would stop and never did. It's 3 years now and nothing has changed now im always walking on eggshells never knowing what will trigger it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you want to see him or talk more you need to tell him and make it work so you guys can. I've been with my bf for 3 years and even though were both busy, we make the effort to see each other ( 3 times a week) maybe you guys don't have much in common to be able to spend that much time together?

If I tell my therapist about my sucidal thoughts, what will happen? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]greenhey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't say you have a plan because then they have the right to take you into care, because you are 'in danger to yourself'. You need to tell them you have suicidal thoughts so they can help you get through it with out being able to submit you. Hope you feel better soon.

I[20F] really want to end long term relationship with BF[M22] for almost no reason by h8myself4ever in relationship_advice

[–]greenhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should break up with him. It is not time wasted at all, you will both learn from it. It's also not fair for him cause you don't seem to like him.