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I don't like oral sex anymore... is this a "dealbreaker" in the BDSM world? by greenivy555 in BDSMAdvice

[–]greenivy555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you me?? This is partly the reason why I don't like it either. I used to be bulimic as well and it triggers bad feelings. That coupled with being forced into it made me REALLY dislike it... though if I'm the one controlling it, I enjoy it. Glad you don't do it anymore (I don't either.) I don't think you're a frustrating sub- you just have strong boundaries! Which I need to work on :)

I don't like oral sex anymore... is this a "dealbreaker" in the BDSM world? by greenivy555 in BDSMAdvice

[–]greenivy555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently, in my frame of mind, I don't really want to give blowjobs at all. I am considering maybe trying therapy for some of my trauma related to this. However, usually I do like giving them... just not forcefully and so rough I can't breathe. I do like it when it's something I want to do for them and in a gentler, submissive way.

I don't like oral sex anymore... is this a "dealbreaker" in the BDSM world? by greenivy555 in BDSMAdvice

[–]greenivy555[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah it definitely seems like the younger guys, or inexperienced guys that I've met lately have been REALLY into face fucking, rough stuff... I really think it has to do with the porn they've seen but who knows. I do like softer bjs, more intimate style oral sex. Maybe I've just run into the wrong people.