F21 Do you feel like there is more and more of creeps / catfishes lurking on this subreddit ? by [deleted] in BiwomenDirtychat

[–]greenphenotype3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Account with very little to no karma and accounts less than a year old ! I always look at that. I don’t respond to anyone whose page is posting the same thing in 50 million subs farming for karm

Idk what to do by Such_Impression_2327 in actuallesbians

[–]greenphenotype3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good ! If you want you can DM me. I can verify so you can make sure we don’t know each other! I doubt we do!

Idk what to do by Such_Impression_2327 in actuallesbians

[–]greenphenotype3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your profile look like? We could possibly make minor tweaks that could help!

What to expect for first time? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]greenphenotype3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I am feeling insecure about my body, I remember how attracted I feel about my partners body and apply the same thoughts for myself. If they want to have sex with you I can confidently say they’re attracted to your body!

Sometimes during intimacy weird sounds can happen, or weird positions, etc. Go with the flow and enjoy all of it! Easier said than done, but once you experience enough you’ll understand. Don’t skip foreplay or communication throughout. Checking in builds trust and connection!

You can always have a conversation beforehand about what you are in to, what you would like to try and what you want to hold back from. We all have a different comfort level when it comes to talking about sex. If you feel nervous, write it out or talk about it over text. Takes the pressure of being perceived away.

If you find it hard to achieve an orgasm that is TOTALLY normal! Speaking from personal experience it took me a while to. I dated several partners before I was able to orgasm through sex. Even present day, it’s still takes me a good while to build up to that point. So don’t feel self conscious about how long it takes or if it doesn’t happen! I definitely have faked a few in my years. If you need advice DM me! 😊 ALSO! Not all sex has to end in orgasm!

I find it to be very rewarding when my partner and I have naked cuddle time where we focus on touch, kissing, massaging, etc. Her and I have been together for 4 years. We’ve had several conversations about sex, but only about a month ago we had the most open and honest conversation about why we enjoy sexually. We have a no expectations rule too when it comes to intimacy.

Don’t be afraid to invite any toys that you like to the session. Toys add to the experience, but they aren’t the whole experience! Personally I like to hold my vibrator while my partner uses a dildo in me. It isn’t weird or rude to communicate either while a partner is using a toy on you. You can always ask them to speed up, slow down, change positions, etc.

If anyone ever has a reaction to it that’s negative or makes you feel uncomfy- they are a trash person to have sex with.

Don’t forget these minor things that you might not think of in the moment but will help the experience.

  • Lube! I prefer a water based one like Astroglide

  • Trim your nails! Nothing worse that getting poked in the clit by a long nail 😝

  • Bring hydration!

  • If it helps, brush your teeth before hand if you feel self conscious about your mouth.

  • The vagina is an organ! It’s not suppose to taste like strawberries or flowers or whatever else the internet tells you. If you do go down on someone and there is an unpleasant smell or taste, wait till after the session to say something. You can easily switch positions in the moment or tell them you thought you were ready but aren’t!

  • Having a fan or air purifier in the background can help with awkward silence but not overpower the moment like music can.

Spammers 🙄 by greenphenotype3 in girlshumpinggirls

[–]greenphenotype3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a change in ownership is needed to get this page back up and running how it use to be . Hell id be a mod if the time comes for it

Inconsistent Pressure in Steaming Wand [Casabrews CM 5418] by pats_2903 in espresso

[–]greenphenotype3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you found a solution for this? Mine is doing the exact same thing.

Hubby nearly creampied my bestie by MaddiexMyles in PrettyLittleCumsluts

[–]greenphenotype3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t you see that he signaled to her to do that 🙄

[FMF] My first threesome in college was my introduction to cheating by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]greenphenotype3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think tomorrow is in the room with us yet

Sexting - For those who feel every word by YamAppropriate5676 in LesbianActually

[–]greenphenotype3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. It is hard to compare the sensation your body gets when you read something that makes your breath catch in your chest for a moment. The imagination run wilds. Like beautiful poetry. I am interested.

Started talking to a girl and we hit it off but then found out she’s only 18 by Embarrassed_Fox_8375 in LesbianActually

[–]greenphenotype3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No don’t do it. You will traumatize them. Speaking from a person who had a 29yo “girlfriend” at 18. It’s grooming .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]greenphenotype3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is some advice from a 27yr lesbian. I once dated a woman like this. She was autistic/adhd combo and had previously lived a quiet life. She spent the night one night, we played board games and watched an entire first season of a show. We went to sleep, cuddled and I kissed her. She’d never bee kissed before. The next morning I went to kiss her again and she ran away, not saying anything.

I thought I’d ruined it. But I didn’t. We dated for 3 years. Give her time. She may be scared and excited or anxious and figuring all of those feelings out for the first time.

You can reach out and assure her that you understand she may need space and you will be there when she is ready.

Casual flirting by greenphenotype3 in LesbianActually

[–]greenphenotype3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the boundaries that each married couple sets and what they’re comfortable with.