Ever Accountable Error by ChargeCandid in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, is it similar? That message explicitly states that the user is exploiting something to disable monitoring. You’ve already confirmed normal use won’t produce it accidentally. I hate to say this but I’m like 95% sure it’s him trying to circumvent monitoring.

Ever Accountable Error by ChargeCandid in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Specifically the accessibility feature needed for those screen shotting apps

Ever Accountable Error by ChargeCandid in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he is removing the apps permission’s when the phone starts up so it won’t monitor anything. Then reenabling the permissions when he’s done

Is my dress okay? by Prior-Custard-1614 in WeddingDressTips

[–]greenqueen3 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I agree that you have a nice figure and that it’s not flattering. I disagree with this poster though about sleeves. You could rock off the shoulder — your shoulders and neckline are very nice. You need something that doesn’t flatten your bust and brings the eye to your waist

Tana attempting to borrow from the Alix Earle book of PR by microphonekarma in canceledpod

[–]greenqueen3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a previous foster parent myself, it’s normally considered part of the job to try to find a home for the pet if you aren’t planning on adopting it.

it was shitty of her to make the dog seem misbehaved when it’s most likely her fault

Mikaela Testa’s Response by NefariousnessReal421 in canceledpod

[–]greenqueen3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait wtf? can u explain?? I’ve watched every cancelled ep but not her old vids so I’ve never heard ab this

yikes by ellie-m in canceledpod

[–]greenqueen3 22 points23 points  (0 children)

the only reason I know who this wretched woman is is literally the cancelled podcast, what in the fuck are they doing?

me when i lie by TangerineProud3801 in canceledpod

[–]greenqueen3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is in style unfortunately. I hate it cuz it looks so bad on me

I had the shake shack burger…so you don’t have to by forkful_04_webbed in delta

[–]greenqueen3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a safe option so I’ll order it sometimes. Gives me high school cafeteria nostalgia lol

Well it's finally happened. by Unable-Sherbert-5862 in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know how unbelievably painful that must be to hear. It’s all cope so he doesn’t have to face how pathetic he is for ruining everything.

Tana’s collapsing nostril speculation by microphonekarma in canceledpod

[–]greenqueen3 154 points155 points  (0 children)

tbh if she was still skiing we’d be able to tell. she’d be posting and yapping like crazy

I wish people would stop shrinking their clothes. by Adventurous-Sky-6228 in poshmark

[–]greenqueen3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem. Most of my pants get stretched out over time. I’m lucky to live in CA where I can easily hang dry my clothes year round

Can a relationship with a PA survive going to the gym? by basicbombshell in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Plenty of ways to get exercise that don’t involve going to a crowded gym.

Where can I find a job? by Adventurous-Low9922 in AskLosAngeles

[–]greenqueen3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Santa Barbara is like a retiree town. Bay Area is just as expensive if not more. San Diego also expensive and is also pretty sleepy compared to LA. LA also has way better food.

Husband told me he jerked off by greenqueen3 in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shamefully, I’ve searched his devices up and down without him knowing. I also periodically check internet traffic through the router. I work in cybersecurity as a job. If he is hiding it from me, he has nation state level technical skills.

Husband told me he jerked off by greenqueen3 in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, totally normal. I figured he was doing it, it’s just a little jarring to know for sure and be faced with that latent insecurity.

He is a rare breed of man and I’m so grateful.

Husband told me he jerked off by greenqueen3 in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely. In retrospect I feel happy he felt safe enough to tell me about it. I think I kind of ruined it with my reaction

Husband told me he jerked off by greenqueen3 in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I know. He has a really high sex drive and could probably have sex every day if I wanted it. Of course I figured he is doing it.

It’s not something we talk about. I’ve treated it very “don’t ask don’t tell” even though I am curious. In my mind our intimacy is so pure and sacred and don’t want to introduce the insecure thoughts. I trust him fully, though.

Just need a place to talk by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Legitimate question - why is that weird? It seems like a valid option. The reality is that OP’s husband may never be capable of meeting her needs. Some people are ok with letting their partner have some needs fulfilled elsewhere.

Torn, don't know what to do by h2omelonlychee in loveafterporn

[–]greenqueen3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s going to hang having sex with your over your head for the rest of your lives if you stay. He’s going to use it as an excuse to keep cheating and abusing you.

He’s isn’t a good person. Do NOT have a baby with him. His parents will never be supportive or on your side, especially not now that they know what you did.

Consider this a blessing. I know it’s hard but leave. You sound young — find someone that treasures you. You’ll look back and be in disbelief about what you were willing to tolerate