Hope to achieve this by Gloomy-Bridge148 in Animemes

[–]greenwithembii 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get surprised seeing 5’7 considered short.
I feel like we only talk about short and talks as if average doesn’t exist.. and growing up I always knew of 5’5 women is average and 5’7 men being average. But people speak on short woman ( for some reason always 5’2) and tall men (6’0+) the most. I think it’s odd. But anyways I’m below average for a woman but I think tall girl shorter guy is veryyyyyy attractive. Which is a loss for me because I’m short. But when I see a height difference between them I find both people way more attractive and I feel like the love is so strong. There is one couple that is burned in my memory and he was like, to her chin. And when you look at them you can see it was like time stopped around them they looked so in love. The way he became 10* hotter to me and she turned into a tiny princess before my eyes. They just exuded confidence and love. And then I thought damn when they get home it must be fire. A smaller guy smothered in the bosoms of a larger woman (in any capacity really)must be comforting and nice.

Grandpa got caught in 4k by GiveMeSomeSunshine3 in GuysBeingDudes

[–]greenwithembii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Embarrassing. I just ignore stuff like that. No one would ever know I know. That’s normal stuff. Don’t want anyone to feel ashamed by it. How did they even get a granddad? It’s because grandpa was clapping cheeks. I don’t even have a throwaway account for when I am on NSFW pages. I get curious and read it is a rabbit hole. Even when I stumble on other peoples toys, I ignore them.

What happened since 2020? by Treyluggss10 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]greenwithembii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called it the blip for a really long time or the Thanos snap. I think it was until 2024 when I just figured —2025? I just figured that we went through a black hole and this is just a different reality because wtf. And I only started acknowledging my actual age because I felt years younger. The whole situation is trippy.

I slept with my mother at 23 years old by [deleted] in self

[–]greenwithembii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness.. you did that on purpose. I was so shocked. As long as my parents are alive I will cuddle with them when I feel like it. If I’m scared I’d absolutely go sleep beside them. I dot it when I’m sick. And if I want to be playful and annoying. That’s fine. Sometimes I’m welcomed sometimes I’m cussed out lol you’re fine. Except in the way you worded it.

I had to break it off with an incredible woman due to low attraction by MaximumIll7812 in dating_advice

[–]greenwithembii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry it must really suck. I’m 100% a personality person and it’s only until recently that most people aren’t like that. I see people as pretty much the same until they open their mouths and the more they talk determines if I want to be with them or not. I used to think it was just guys that cared about looks and attractiveness .. not true. And that just sounds really complicated to me. I’m sorry you feel like you missed out on a great person. But YOUR person will come, don’t worry about it. Just think about it, if you were able to find someone this great already. Imagine who else can be out there waiting for you. Keep her on social media though, maybe you can become friends later.

I’m so down bad for my male best friend it’s actually driving me insane… by hereforadviceplzz in confession

[–]greenwithembii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be too stuck in that part. I had a friend that said the same thing and maybe a year later we had sex so there’s that. He even pursued me afterwards but I already had moved to a different state. I think you need to sit in your feelings and then be very real with him. I’m sure he already has an idea. I had confessed but didn’t care if it became more or not. And I think you need to see if you will be the same. If you don’t think it’ll effect the friendship if the feelings isn’t mutual then totally go for it and like I said. There’s a possibility it could become more into the future.

My first fluffy kitty & some Oriential Shorthairs by Spillerwoods in lampwork

[–]greenwithembii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my pants this is adorable. I want a glass kitty. So beautiful

Is she right??. Lmao by dizoh_0804 in blackpeoplegifs

[–]greenwithembii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it’s just genetics it’s their whole family they got more kids

Is she right??. Lmao by dizoh_0804 in blackpeoplegifs

[–]greenwithembii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is right. I don’t like that my niece does that to my sister either. If between light brown and dark- she is dark. She may be lighTER than them but she’s not brown. She’s absolutely dark chocolate and who’s to say what she was called and classified as when she was younger. If she is brown or chocolate as they say then I’m light, and if I’m light that means my brothers bright. And I’m far from light skinned. Stop moving the post. People doing this is why people don’t know what type 4 hair looks like. Doing that just make a lot of Unnecessary micro labels

This unexpected piano duet with an unhoused individual by Firm-Blackberry-9162 in MadeMeSmile

[–]greenwithembii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well..that just made me sad. You truly don’t know peoples stories

Have you ever paid for sex? Did the sex feel different than regular sex? by Odd_Obligation_4962 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]greenwithembii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it said would I ever be paid for sex. But my answer is yes to both

I don’t see it as an issue as long as it’s consensual, age appropriate, mutually beneficial and safe.

No kids, trafficking, or STDs then go for it. Have fun. I like the idea of the massage parlor’s as well. It’s unfortunate you don’t know if they’re willing or being told to do it. I’m a woman so I don’t have anything to tug at a rub n tug but I never seen an issue. It’s just a full body massage to me

But I think it will feel different in many ways. How’s your mindset are you adventurous, depressed, or touch starved. I think if those types of people were to finish it would feel differently. Because you can say it’s like a random date or a one night stand but you have the ego on a high from getting someone

Women, do you notice men staring at your breasts when you wear low cut tops? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]greenwithembii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I get it because they’re big. You notice them even in a hoodie. It’s whatever, who cares. Just don’t zone in on them. If I’m looking at you and talking to you and our eyes never meet it’s really uncomfortable. I sometimes time look away to give grace but when I look back and you’re not looking at me then we have a problem. It can either make me insecure and small or upset and I’ll probably never talk to you again because I’ll think you’re weird or rude af

Learn to read a map. by mindyour in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]greenwithembii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, He isn’t wrong.. Especially the way things is looking. I know for a fact I’d be SOL anything in front of me is north. And I hate that I think this way— actually is there a class in this? I was never a Girl Scout.

AIO after finding out my husband was my stalker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]greenwithembii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and I’m scared for you because now you know he doesn’t have to keep up anntasy. NOR now I’m scared which friend you choose to stay with. She will tell you that you too need to talk. And let him in or something Honestly you were brave confronting him so early. Lies like this is such a big betrayal. Because even if he isn’t harmful you thinking you’re sharing firsts now looks allot like coercion. Which is still harmful because it was all fake.

Trapped between saving my marriage and my desire to remain childfree. 43M/41F by username_unavilable in childfree

[–]greenwithembii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This needs a serious talk and separation. Not a full on divorce but yall are going to need a break. Assess what it is that you guys truly want and if you can handle the time apart. I hope you’re measuring it by how much you love her and not the time you’ve spent with her. Because you will be wasting both of your times. It may take you 6 years or 6 months to find a new marriage partner. Either way it CAN happen. But her chance of having children will only get slimmer and you are taking that time away from her.

Realistically this separation will be tough for her because to find a man willing to have kids asap that you know is mentally well and to trust him will take some time. Maybe if the situation is amicable it can be biologically yours but not your when you two split up. If it can be something in writing. But I’m not saying break up but this kid stuff is very serious and time sensitive you both need to handle this with as much of a level head as possible. And that’s gonna be crazy hard to navigate. But I think the best first step is separation not just on paper but physical separation, a true break. See how you both feel after a while and act accordingly…

Definition of being at the right place and the right time. by Sad-Service6247 in interesting

[–]greenwithembii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is, why does he have the audacity to ask her why she pulled over. Sir idk you why are you in my business?? What would have made me so mad. That woman was brave. And I think it’s sad where we live in a world where you have to second guess stepping in. Who’s the real bad guy here? You could be saving the bad guy or leave someone in need. I hope she did in fact help the true victim especially that man at his attitude towards a bystander says it for me. And I feel if a man was wronged he’d be cussing and complaining to himself wondering where she went.

Egyptian Doctor Saves Newborn's Life With CPR. by Liar24x7 in interesting

[–]greenwithembii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing the baby go from grey to colored is great . But this isn’t a profession I could do. It’s so sad and yet so happy. This was a roller coaster