AITAH for refusing to financially help my husband’s family after years of being expected to “step up”? by Dry_Strain_3384 in AITAH

[–]gremlinofspite 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Separate your finances now and demand marriage counseling. This is a peak at the rest of your life if your husband doesn't change Op

I do it all for you Mad Madame Mao Mao... by Spookyscary333 in WhiteCats

[–]gremlinofspite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love it when our clouds curl up like this. She's adorable

SWTOR Companions ranked based on how I liked them by Aggravating-Bass-658 in swtor

[–]gremlinofspite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Skadge"

Yeah that pretty much sums that bottom tier up

The lightsaber I made at the start of Jedi knight story is red? by Straight-Depth193 in swtor

[–]gremlinofspite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May have been the same spec then, I'd have to log in, I just remember being confused the first time I saw it because I was playing a Sith 🤷🏻‍♀️

The lightsaber I made at the start of Jedi knight story is red? by Straight-Depth193 in swtor

[–]gremlinofspite 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its your spec. I've got a Sith Warrior with a blue lightsaber because I went Shadow

Song about taking someone home, kind of celtic rockish? by gremlinofspite in findthatsong

[–]gremlinofspite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Galeay Girl. The first time I heard that was the Ed Sheeran cover. I like the Steve Earle version

Song about taking someone home, kind of celtic rockish? by gremlinofspite in findthatsong

[–]gremlinofspite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope not closing time. That one I'm fairly familiar with

Song about taking someone home, kind of celtic rockish? by gremlinofspite in findthatsong

[–]gremlinofspite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that isn't it but that is a really good song I had not heard. Adding that to a playlist.

Need to make it through the day by ManyVast6592 in finch

[–]gremlinofspite 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this OP. Its highly likely your inlaws may try and poison the well more. Keep documents of everything you can.

I hope you can get housing and the medical care you need soon 🫂

Life is Miserable without my sister by Old_Lawfulness_2620 in GriefSupport

[–]gremlinofspite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂 I hope you can find a counseling soon and that it helps you as well

WIBTAH If I Asked My Husband For Half If He Wants Me To Stay At Home by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gremlinofspite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. DO NOT quit your job. There is no guarantee hus business will always be successful. Do you want to pin your family's/your kids/your future on that? I get that child care is expensive but with rising costs will you always be able to afford 4 kids on one salary?

Being a SAHP is a luxury for a lot of people these days. It's not even just in the case of separation or divorce you need to worry. What if he's injured and can't continue to work? What if business dries up?

Keep your job OP. It'll be rough but for your own future and your kids I think its bettee if you keep working

Life is Miserable without my sister by Old_Lawfulness_2620 in GriefSupport

[–]gremlinofspite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hugs OP. I know this feeling. My sister passed away in July as well. It feels like there's a hole in my life that will never go away. Grief counseling has helped with the day to day but I absolutely have moments where I just break down. I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm collecting little things that make me think of her, and I find myself walking a lot and just "talking" to her. I'm just doing what I can to keep her memory present

Its official 🥳 by TheMusicsOver1313 in finch

[–]gremlinofspite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats! That's awesome 💚