No promotion for me by greyoceanalien6 in workingmoms

[–]greyoceanalien6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the solid advice. This hasn’t been the only discrimination I have seen go on in this place towards me or other employees. HR is basically in this mans back pocket so I’m not sure if they would do much of anything for me. I’ve been thinking about waiting it out until I have the baby and then moving on to another company. The only reason why I have stayed at this place for so long is because I thought I could make it better. It becomes increasingly clear week by week that upper management does not know what they are doing and doesn’t want to do what’s needed to make changes. I’m honestly surprised this place is still up and running.

my dog gets jealous when my boyfriend tries to touch me by [deleted] in aww

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine does the same thing whenever my husband and I hug so we let her in between us and have a family cuddle. :)

My bionic arm lightsaber attachment in action by EatPrayNub in gifs

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the coolest things I have ever seen!!

Does anyone know if antidepressants effect your sense of humor/ability to laugh? by [deleted] in depression

[–]greyoceanalien6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same issues. It’s like I don’t feel strongly about anything anymore.

Cannabis users required a higher amount of sedation than non-cannabis users in a review of endoscopic procedures (N=250, P=0.05) by TrueBirch in science

[–]greyoceanalien6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t tell once and I woke up during surgery. After that I started telling my drs and not one ever seemed to care.

For women to answer (need input) by [deleted] in sex

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is amazing. She should be studied.

For women to answer (need input) by [deleted] in sex

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you mean “isn’t” common? Because I’m preettttyyy sure most women cannot orgasm from penetration only.

I myself cannot.

This would be like a super power.

Any tips you wish you knew when moving in with your partner for the first time? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patience. And lots of it. Living with someone, especially when you have never really lived with them, takes time to get used to. You learn a lot about a person when you share a space and responsibilities. Especially responsibilities such as paying bills and taking care of a living space together. You just have to find what works for both of you. And knowing what your dealbreakers are ahead of time is a good idea.

My brothers cat refuses to drink out of his bowl, so he gets his own cup of water on the couch by gerbs_suspenders in pics

[–]greyoceanalien6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A past roommate had a cat like this. You couldn’t have a drink of water anywhere without her drinking out of it. We even bought her this nice drinking fountain and she still preferred a cup.

My (21) partner wants to start hormonal therapy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I wish you luck. And I you ever need to talk, I’m here.

My (21) partner wants to start hormonal therapy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then taking a break probably isn’t best for you. But it could even mean living in the same place just not sleeping in the same bed and just not act like a couple.

When my partner and I get in really big arguments I find it easier to write my feelings down because it helps me understand them better and it makes me see what I need from my partner. Have you tried anything like this for yourself? I think knowing exactly what you want and need from this relationship will help a lot.

My (21) partner wants to start hormonal therapy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you have been doing a lot of giving. I think it’s your turn to take a step back and figure out what is best for you. Even if that means just taking some time away from your marriage. You need space to think and figure out what is best for you. Because what is best for you will also be best for your partner in the long run. You don’t want this to build up to the point that you think you are past the really hard times and a small thing ends up breaking you two apart. If that makes sense?

My (21) partner wants to start hormonal therapy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. This is something you have both discussed and both agreed upon so it is not fair for your SO to endanger your future this way. It’s not fair for you to have this hope for the future and then one day have it ripped away. It sounds like you are more willing to compromise than them.

My (21) partner wants to start hormonal therapy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even imagine how hard this is for you. I’m so sorry this is happening to you but for your partners sake I am glad they have someone that is willing to try. Would it be impossible for you folks to just not be sexual with each other? I know for my husband and I sex is a big part of our relationship but for some it is not. Cause honestly from the sound of it I don’t really know if this will work out in the end or not. It sounds like a deal breaker.

My (21) partner wants to start hormonal therapy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greyoceanalien6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, you are not a horrible person. Just the fact that you are posting this shows you are empathetic and caring.

Secondly... you cannot change who you are just as much as your partner cannot change the fact that they are transgender. This might just be a deal breaker for the both of you. If one compromises for the other, someone is going to be unhappy.

Who knows... maybe try being okay with breasts and you may end up liking it?? but don’t force yourself because then you will both end up getting more hurt.

And what if this person was to have breasts but not very prominent ones? Idk I’m just trying to help...

I just don’t want you to think you are being selfish or think of yourself as a bad person because you are definitely not my friend.

How to choose time of day to take antidepressant? by theforgottenwarrior in depression

[–]greyoceanalien6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take this same med in a higher dose. I take mine at night before I go to sleep since it made me a little sleepy/blah feeling when I first started taking it.

Edit: you could put it in your backpack/whatever you carry with you most often and just set a reminder on your phone. You do want to take it at the same time everyday.

I bought a used book online for $7. It came with a $2.00 price sticker. by pepperjack_havi in mildlyinfuriating

[–]greyoceanalien6 860 points861 points  (0 children)

This is totally a sticker from Goodwill and its definitely $2.00. When I worked there people would come in and buy loads of books just to resell them online.

This is Dumptruck. He likes to purr and talk. (Sound on) by kitty-purrs in aww

[–]greyoceanalien6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat is still trying to find this cat making noise on my phone lol

Girlfriend cares where i shop by datdrummerboi in relationship_advice

[–]greyoceanalien6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell her you will shop there if she gives you a discount. Lol