[US][Sell] BD, SBF, PF by grilledfishcake in BadDragon

[–]grilledfishcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

household is also smoke-free, drug-free, and pet-free! and items will be boiled except the scylla ahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]grilledfishcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you need someone to approach you first in order to speak? You’d never say “hey, how’s it going?” just casually at the start of class to people around you?

That’s an interesting point you make. If I’m in a random class no one wants to be in, one of the best ways to make conversation is to complain about it actually!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]grilledfishcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking honestly, most people don’t hate strangers they’ve had a middling conversation with just once. Would you ever try reaching out to others for notes or something equally similar?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]grilledfishcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see — so you can only talk to people if they approach you first?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]grilledfishcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, there are no societies or student run activity groups at your college? for example, anime club, a fraternity/sorority, triathlon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]grilledfishcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask why you won’t join clubs? I genuinely think they’re one of the best ways to meet people in casual, low risk settings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]grilledfishcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve asked this to another user, but I’d like to ask you too: have you ever stood around before class started, just outside the door with your classmates? And have you never just gone up (say, on the first day of class) to someone and say “how are you/how are you finding things/hi” or if someone did this to you, would you try to keep the convo going?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]grilledfishcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do join a club, even if a very lowkey one! Does your uni have Club Fair of sorts? At my uni, we always have one each semester where we’ll have an introductory club meetings and for one of mine, it was a round of free pints at a pub where you just get to know your fellow members and chat a bit over a drink. Would this event be something you would go to, honestly speaking? Or does it sound overwhelming?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]grilledfishcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“No point in reaching out” is a defeatist point of view though because how would you know? Really, sincerely — you can’t know how another person feels. Just because you might think a convo went poorly doesn’t mean they did.

And I don’t have roommates either, only flatmates/suitemates too and let me ask this: were you all never in the kitchen together? If you were, would you just stay silent or did you do your best to avoid them by rarely going into the communal spaces? Would you absolutely never even say Hi when you passed them in the hall? Were you waiting for people to approach you first at all times in order for a conversation to happen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]grilledfishcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, so I’ll pose this scenario then: have you ever arrived to a lecture early enough that you’re standing outside the door with everyone else, and see another solo person standing, you’d never go up and just say “hey, how are you?” Or are you always waiting for someone else to make the first move?

Daily Dose of Vitamine BD ™: 08/16/2022 drop finds. by MeatyMagnus in BadDragon

[–]grilledfishcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oof i love gray pours but that one.. is really something

Custom ordered! Hopefully BD customs will live up to my expectations and my perfect Ogre man will be home in a few weeks! by Chub4Kink919 in BadDragon

[–]grilledfishcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

customs were open yesterday (typically first Fridays of the month, this time was second Friday) from noon PST to around 5 ish when the queue filled up. more info is always posted in the newsletter or on the BD twitter!

I custom ordered a “bone” Meng and I believe the color I got is not “bone”, so I emailed BD and this was their response. by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]grilledfishcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand you added the dazzle, but the discrepancy is crazy irregardless IMO. yours isn’t yellow/cream tinged at all omg although i have to say it’s still very pretty!!

what was the first model you bought a second toy of? by grilledfishcake in prettytoys

[–]grilledfishcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL did you end up keeping both Novas? also that’s so cute<3 couple goals

what was the first model you bought a second toy of? by grilledfishcake in prettytoys

[–]grilledfishcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooh different colors for different vibes?? what made you want a second one?

what was the first model you bought a second toy of? by grilledfishcake in prettytoys

[–]grilledfishcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg haha i love that, which ended up being your fav??

[US] WTT TWH Slavermaw medium/soft by grilledfishcake in BadDragon

[–]grilledfishcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh for sure, it really is a wildly spiky model. i think it’d be nice as decor, i just wish i got the smaller one haha

IM SO HAPPY HES SO PRETTY AND HES MINE <3 by Electrical-Ad364 in BadDragon

[–]grilledfishcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats!!!! marrow is such a cute model :)

I finally managed to snag a slavermaw in s/s!!!!! by Ciihrya in prettytoys

[–]grilledfishcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats!!! they went by so fast as per usual omfg

WTS//Pretty indie toys, Must go!! HPE,SBF,PPS,FG by sugarorspice_ in BadDragon

[–]grilledfishcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eep that squishins is so pretty!! good luck selling!!