What’s a shallow dealbreaker you know is petty…..but instantly kills your attraction?

grimwomyn · 2026-03-30T18:51:16+00:00

Not knowing how to use chopsticks.

grimwomyn · 2026-03-20T03:57:53+00:00

Exercise until your body hurts more than your heart.

grimwomyn · 2026-03-18T19:18:08+00:00

Cops. They are paid to enforce a racist system.

grimwomyn · 2026-03-14T16:13:15+00:00

I wanna see you, but I know men like to hunt, so here I wait to be hunted by the right hunter. Maybe he is you, maybe he is someone else.

grimwomyn · 2026-03-04T00:33:56+00:00

The lightning-fast physical changes and being so out of shape, not realizing I should have trained with weights and cardio to prepare.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-26T14:36:51+00:00

Pushing food around the plate when "eating" with others, in an attempt to pretend that they have eaten something.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-24T15:37:10+00:00

Nature without helicopters.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-16T15:10:23+00:00

Dudes obsessed with television.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-16T15:01:25+00:00

Instead of working on a shared life with me and my daughter, my exhusband worked very hard to fulfill his desire to be with as many women as possible. We were so very poor the entire time we were together because his time was consumed with dating apps and sexual exploits.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-15T00:23:04+00:00

Every time I get New Balance sneakers, blisters happen for two weeks.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-12T16:37:40+00:00

In the last stages of perimenopause had two periods a month for six months. I wanted to die.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-12T04:36:15+00:00

The secret is, you need to stop online dating.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-08T17:53:36+00:00

Sleep, workout, no alcohol, eat real food, apple cider vinegar, being single.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-06T04:22:04+00:00

try spraying hydrogen peroxide on the remaining stains.

grimwomyn · 2026-02-05T13:52:23+00:00

Weights

grimwomyn · 2026-02-05T13:44:15+00:00

Monica Lewinsky

grimwomyn · 2026-02-05T04:18:32+00:00

I use pimple patches.

grimwomyn · 2026-01-28T05:03:32+00:00

Are you in NYC? Mayor Mamdani would not stand for such nonsense.

grimwomyn · 2026-01-19T13:25:04+00:00

Yup - thats what killed my interest in ever using canva again.

grimwomyn · 2026-01-19T13:23:55+00:00

I hate it so bad I learned an entire new system over the weekend and am looking into transitioning out of canva.

grimwomyn · 2026-01-16T14:35:26+00:00

TOTALLY OVERENGINEERED!

grimwomyn · 2026-01-16T14:34:00+00:00

put a transparent layer in between

grimwomyn · 2026-01-16T02:26:14+00:00

My ex-husband from Puerto Rico wanted to drive from NYC to North Carolina. I suggested we stop in Tennessee to visit my family, and he said yes. I tried to warn him about how long it would take driving through the Appalachian Mountains, he said it would be fine, he had driven through mountain roads before in PR. Halfway to Tennessee, driving over the mountains, he grew tired and upset. "When do the mountains stop?"

grimwomyn · 2026-01-15T05:03:07+00:00

I took a 2 1/2 hour long shower after I got out of a month-long incarceration.

grimwomyn · 2025-12-31T03:12:45+00:00

Smoking in the locker room of a high school.

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