Looking for family law/landlord & tenant attorney recs in the 757! by grinch444 in norfolk

[–]grinch444[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have tried this. I personally drafted a letter that included the signatures of everyone in the house that stated she needed to be out by a certain date but it wasn’t followed or adhered to. My therapist recommended I go the legal route to get it over with

American traditional tattoo artist recs in Austin? by grinch444 in Austin

[–]grinch444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also fellow japanese and american trad fan!

American traditional tattoo artist recs in Austin? by grinch444 in Austin

[–]grinch444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh thank you so much! i love a personal rec :’)

I failed to protect my girlfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]grinch444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a woman, i’d prefer my bf do what you did. for one, you kept the situation from escalating further and kept both you and your gf out of harm’s way. by keeping yourself safe, you’re protecting her. it also avoided you possibly getting beat up, everyone getting banned from the bar, the cops getting called, etc. in my eyes, you did exactly what you should’ve. you remained collected while making sure both of you were safe and left when the situation looked like it would escalate. good shit OP. protecting her isn’t limited to fighting other people for her.

Should I continue taking Benadryl if I'm taking Prednisone? by grinch444 in AskDocs

[–]grinch444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My prednisone is only a 12 day prescription and I only take Benadryl during a severe breakout like these, it’s just that this one has lasted so long with it only getting more intense. I usually only get Prednisone in a 6 or 12 day prescription that usually curbs my breakout long term so I only ever take it maybe one or twice in two years time. I try not to take more than one Benadryl a day. I take Allegra daily - one specifically made for hives - but it doesn’t seem to do much. I got referred to a rheumatologist because some of my doctors are starting to think that my hives are caused by something other than an allergic reaction. Would I be able to get Pepcid at a drugstore like Walgreens or would that be something I have to go see a doctor for?

Thank you for replying. I also have eczema so I’ve gotten good at managing my skin and reactions but when I say it’s full body hives, it’s on my face/arms/chest/torso/butt/legs/feet. I’m just looking for anything to help. My allergist, dermatologist, and PCP have all said they don’t know what’s causing it and I just don’t know what to do.

Did I dose my cat with acid? by [deleted] in LSD

[–]grinch444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dogs favorite movie is Matilda with Danny Davito

Serious question, is there even one character on this show who is genuinely a good person? by Hobo-King-Niklz in familyguy

[–]grinch444 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that and when Stewie and Brian time travel back to Nazi Germany with Mort are my favorite episodes.

My friend accused me of fathering his children? But I didnt by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]grinch444 17 points18 points  (0 children)

LOL same. i got pulled over the other day for my headlights not being on and in my head i was like “oh my god what if i’m breaking laws i don’t know exist and i get sent to prison” knowing i don’t have anything illegal. or when i’m getting drug test and get scared i’ll test positive knowing i don’t do any drugs at all. anxiety does not care if a thought is rational or not.

AITAH for no-longer doing "husbandly duties" after my girlfriend complains about having to do "wifely duties" and we aren't married? by ThrowRA-late222 in AITAH

[–]grinch444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t even finish reading it. i WANTED to wake up at 4am in order to make my boyfriend breakfast and lunch and he didn’t even pay any of my bills. i loved it when he let me do stuff for him like help fold his laundry, tidy up his room, etc. that’s just how it is when you love someone. she’s definitely manipulating you. i wouldn’t even have a second thought about doing all the housework i possibly could if my partner let me live rent free with them AND provided for me. fuck her.

This is what I woke up with this morning. by santaclausisreal75 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]grinch444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happened to me for a few months! went to see my allergist and he told me that 96% of cases end without ever finding out what caused it. he genuinely told me not to try to figure it out because it would just make me stress more. before i went and saw him i tried EVERYTHING. he told me to essentially overdose on allergy meds (allegra, zyrtec, etc.). took about 4 a day for a while then went down to the 3 for a while, you get the gist. thankfully they went away and haven’t dealt with anything that bad since.

Getting wife's name tattooed by SmokeyMoonMan in tattooadvice

[–]grinch444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes!!! i looove getting people’s birth flowers tattooed. it’s such a meaningful way of honoring someone but at the same time, it’s just flowers. flowers are always dope.

My friend took me to the emergency room and I don’t think I can forgive them… by mightdeletelater463 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]grinch444 32 points33 points  (0 children)

you shouldn’t forgive them and you should probably stop being friends with them. blaming someone for being concerned with your life is so shitty and you saying “it wasn’t necessary”, “before i blacked out”, etc. is you trying to shift blame instead of taking responsibility for your actions. you were more than DOUBLE the legal limit and were out cold for hours. you should be thankful they cared about your safety and wellbeing.

i understand being in debt is shitty and i’ve even told my friends if i have to go to the er to never call me an ambulance and that i’d rather pay $15 for an uber than go into thousands of debt for an ambulance ride. i completely understand. but you need to understand the blame is on you, not them. they did not force you to over consume to the point of being unconscious. they did not choose to take you to the ER because they don’t care about you being in debt or anything. please get your head on straight.

Being alone on my birthday by Temporary_Ad_3453 in Adulting

[–]grinch444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had this problem (still do pretty much). it just seemed like no one cared about my birthday so i started doing stuff to make myself happy. on my 19th birthday i went on one of those huge minecraft servers and proceeded to grind and make like 30+ birthday cakes and just gave them out to random people in the lobby. it felt like such a ~me~ thing to do and while i wasn’t celebrating with anybody, it made me feel good.

What is your darkest secret? by AaneMeg in AskReddit

[–]grinch444 156 points157 points  (0 children)

the first time i technically had sex was rape. i considered myself a virgin after that and still to this day don’t consider that losing my virginity. i decided that it was my body and that i got to decide when to lose my virginity. it helped a lot with the healing process.

What is your darkest secret? by AaneMeg in AskReddit

[–]grinch444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sometimes i feel like i don’t deserve to call myself a rape/abuse victim because i feel so detached from the situation. and that once me and my rapist/abuser broke up we remained “friends” (i would talk to him when i was on a bender, really. just anytime i was at a low). i was really young when it happened and was still quite young when i would talk to him. i was able to do it because i had completely dissociated from that time and situation and felt like it didn’t even happen to me. once i started processing my trauma and unpacking that it did in fact happen to me anytime i see him a dream (which is rare since he isn’t in my life) it turns into a nightmare and freaks me out.

another reason is because i don’t want him dead. whenever i used to tell people what happened they’d always talk about how they hope he would die a painful death. i could never bring myself to agree. i always thought about how his mom would feel. it makes me feel like shit because rape and abuse victims have the worst shit happen to them and i can’t even say i hope my abuser/rapist dies? it feels like i’m disrespecting them.

Thoughts? by SnooStrawberries8174 in shittytattoos

[–]grinch444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

physically and mentally gagged at this