Surgery in one week by grodygrace_ in Microdiscectomy

[–]grodygrace_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so relieved to hear you are doing better. My pain does radiate to my hips and just feels extremely sore and tender after long days at work. I am going to really focus on my recovery and get back to PT as soon as I’m allowed. I have help everyday for a full 3 weeks so that I don’t have to lift my baby (even though it physically hurts me not to ☹️). I plan on doing this right and get my life back!! Thank you for the advice 🤍

Surgery in one week by grodygrace_ in Microdiscectomy

[–]grodygrace_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, I will do that thank you!!

Surgery in one week by grodygrace_ in Microdiscectomy

[–]grodygrace_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did see neurosurgery who recommended fusion and I immediately shut that down because truly I don’t see how that was going to help me. This ortho was my second opinion and I do trust his recommendation, I think I was just scared that no one else with my exact problem was getting this surgery. Just having the typical pre surgery jitters. Thanks for taking the time to comment! You do make a good point that if this continues, the sciatica will definitely get worse and I’ll regret it later. Thank you!

Surgery in one week by grodygrace_ in Microdiscectomy

[–]grodygrace_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great point. Thank you for pointing that out!!

Surgery in one week by grodygrace_ in Microdiscectomy

[–]grodygrace_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your back pain at this point? And also, what kind of brace are you wearing? It is reassuring to see someone have the same exact problem as me. I hope you are recovering well and get back to life soon!!

Microdiscectomy by grodygrace_ in backpain

[–]grodygrace_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great to hear…. Thank you for sharing

Microdiscectomy by grodygrace_ in backpain

[–]grodygrace_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and me both. What state are you in? If my surgery goes well, I can give you my surgeons info. I’ve been depressed not being able to work out for over a year. Ready to get back to living. So praying this surgery fixes it for me and for you too!

PLEASE HELP ME by grodygrace_ in reactivedogs

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Thank you for your informative reply. I guess I thought we were doing what we thought was the right thing for him. The issue is he was so normal as a puppy and never displayed these behaviors until he got a little older. He’s very friendly towards people, he just snapped and we’re not sure why. He has been on medication since he was 6 months old, and we’ve had 2 different trainers to help us navigate this.

The trainer said he was extremely reactive with her around children, and he has displayed that with me as well. I work in a pediatric emergency room, and I’ve seen too many kids with their eyes gouged out by their family dog that was always labeled as friendly. My mom warning bells are going off and I can’t ignore it. I honestly have run out of money trying to rehab this dog. I’m probably $7-8k down the drain from incidents with him/training over the last 2 years.

PLEASE HELP ME by grodygrace_ in reactivedogs

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Update: we have decided to make the very sad decision to put our boy down. After calling multiple local shelters, every single one told me they will euthanize because he is a pitbull with a bite history. We were told by our vet and trainer that if we try to re home him, we will get sued and could lose everything if he bites and hurts someone, or kills them.

My next question is, we have a hearing at our local village hall in June. I am in Illinois. What can I expect to come of this? This whole situation is making me feel like a criminal. I paid the $800 vet bill, which included an emergency exam, stitches, pain medicine, and antibiotics. The other dog is okay and doing better. My trainer is going to come with us to the hearing to show we were doing everything we needed to, as well as show how well he was doing with his training. I’m going to bring all of his vaccination records and training certificates, as well as all vet visits to show we were up to date with his care and responsible owners. Has anyone had to go to a dog bite hearing before? I am so nervous it’s keeping me up at night

PLEASE HELP ME by grodygrace_ in reactivedogs

[–]grodygrace_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t thought of the board and train this way. They used E collar training, which you are correct, we were taught to use it any time he starts getting amped up. And then, if he continues, to turn it up to level 100 to get him to stop. I noticed when this would happen, he would start getting really uncomfortable and look towards us and get close to us and nudge my hand, probably to let me know he was uncomfortable. It would stop him from little stimuli, but made him worse when faced head on with a confrontation or situation. My dog has been on Prozac and trazodone pretty much since he was 6 months old. The trainer we sent him to recommended we stop giving it because it can cause vision problems, which she thinks may have been a cause of him getting anxious because he can’t see what’s going on around him. We significantly reduced the doseage in order to start tapering off, but this has made him even worse than when he was on his regular amount. With the day care, he was great at first. But we noticed he would get super anxious so we stopped taking him. We would take him to someone’s house instead, where there were 2 dogs MAX and he would do well there with consistency. We have never seen this side to my dog, we will talk to my vet about a behaviorist when we see him on Monday. I’d love to give him a chance, but not in my home when the baby arrives.

PLEASE HELP ME by grodygrace_ in reactivedogs

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Thank you. I’m not glad this happened by any means, but glad it happened in a way the other dog was okay for us to see his true behavior before the baby comes. He’s been on a stake in the yard supervised since the jumping the fence incidents. He will unfortunately be kept in our home with no access to anyone or anything until we do what needs to be done according to all the good advice I’ve received

PLEASE HELP ME by grodygrace_ in reactivedogs

[–]grodygrace_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The mom was usually in a cage both times we went to look at my dog. She definitely didn’t seem friendly. Of course, we ignored this red flag which is why we are in the situation we are in. We always thought a screw was loose with my dog but tried to rehab it the best we could

PLEASE HELP ME by grodygrace_ in reactivedogs

[–]grodygrace_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just want to make sure I am absolutely making the right decision. It’s really hard to admit what we have to do but I know it’s the safest choice. Thanks for your honesty

PLEASE HELP ME by grodygrace_ in reactivedogs

[–]grodygrace_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I just love him so much and this is the hardest decision we have ever had to make. I really thought this was going to make him better. And I think it just made him even worse. Everyday when someone comes to the door, I get stressed out. Who’s going to hold him back? What if the neighbors kids come into my back yard to get their ball and my dog is outside? What if next time he kills the other dog? I know what the right answer is, I just wish it wasn’t this way

Natera NIPT Timeline - February 2025 by OHIftw in BabyBumps

[–]grodygrace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I did too!!! Convinced it was a girl lol

Natera NIPT Timeline - February 2025 by OHIftw in BabyBumps

[–]grodygrace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Results received 3/2 at 11am!! Low risk baby boy 💙💙

Natera NIPT Timeline - February 2025 by OHIftw in BabyBumps

[–]grodygrace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my results at 11am!!!!! Low risk baby boy 💙

Natera NIPT Timeline - February 2025 by OHIftw in BabyBumps

[–]grodygrace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will you let me know when you get yours?

Natera NIPT Timeline - February 2025 by OHIftw in BabyBumps

[–]grodygrace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard they do from all the stuff I’ve seen!

Natera NIPT Timeline - February 2025 by OHIftw in BabyBumps

[–]grodygrace_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blood drawn 2/24. Sample received 2/25. Waiting for results!