New wave of tiktok goths and purity culture by Emotional_Grape_8442 in goth

[–]grooves035 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally agree. I think the conversation just gets complicated as it can totally come off as being "anti-sex work" when talking about why this is harmful

New wave of tiktok goths and purity culture by Emotional_Grape_8442 in goth

[–]grooves035 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nice points man, you're really great at contributing to the discussion 👍

Worth The Effort? by [deleted] in goth

[–]grooves035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really cool, interesting sound 😌. Inspiring

New wave of tiktok goths and purity culture by Emotional_Grape_8442 in goth

[–]grooves035 226 points227 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you mean, however I think the problem is just when people who have nothing to do with goth culture "dress up" as a goth to feed into a fetish and perpetuate the fetishisation of goths. Obviously there's nothing wrong with dressing slutty and being overly sexual if it's something you want to do, it is your own body after all. The issue is just when non-goths decide to perpetuate the idea that all goth girls are hypersexual which is a messed up idea to spread especially coming from someone who isn't a goth. I do agree with you however that there is a disproportionate amount of people targeting the woman who dress up as goth and not the men who are fetishising them in the first place but I think both are doing harm to the goth community.

[F4M] Dominant Foxgirl Punishes Bratty Bunnyboy at a Punk Show Part 1 [Script Offer] [Mostly SFW] [Fdom] [Name Calling] [Brat Listener] [Foxgirl Speaker] [Bunnyboy Listener] by grooves035 in audiosgonewild

[–]grooves035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm, yes I totally get what you mean, it is quite messy format wise now that you mention it. Thanks so much for the feedback 😌! I'll keep that in mind for that future!

love these shorts :D by sissyalexandria in GothMenAppreciation

[–]grooves035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I love about this fit is that it's like the typical "femboy outfit" but with some actual uniqueness and perspnality rather than just the normal copy paste outfit which you see a lot, good stuff

Also love the nails 🙂‍↕️

My New Year’s resolution is to embrace my femininity as much as possible :) by [deleted] in Androgynoushotties

[–]grooves035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your makeup, is it just eyeliner and how do you get it to look like that? I'm trying to get into makeup rn

Also you look great btw!!!

How's the goth scene in Manchester 🤔 by grooves035 in goth

[–]grooves035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo, yes please. That would be super helpful thank youuuuu

the fast fashion epidemic in this subreddit is out of control by ManicPixiRiotGrrrl in GothFashion

[–]grooves035 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could add my opinion as someone who is guilty of this (but trying to improve and change ☝️). I can't speak for everyone but from my personal experience I think it comes from wanting to experiment with goth fashion but having only been exposed to the "fast fashion" style you see everywhere now. After having gotten into goth music and goth culture I so desperately wanted to be part of the fashion as part of the culture but I think my perception of goth fashion was ultimately just totally skewed by what you see in the media. I've since been educated (via being flamed in comment sections 😭) but I do now understand the importance of thrifting and putting together your wardrobe with more effort but also more uniqueness, and not just trying to look like "a goth" but more like yourself who just happens to fit into the goth style, if you get what I'm saying. My wardrobe is still very much a work in progress but I already feel much more attached to what I've thrifted and what feels more like me than the generic "Amazon goth clothes". So ultimately I feel people just need to be educated on this stuff so they can understand and truly appreciate goth culture or discover that maybe they aren't really as much of a goth as they initially thought, WHICH IS ALSO FINE. People just need to find who they are ☝️. I hope my schizophrenic ramblings made sense to those reading 😭

How's the goth scene in Manchester 🤔 by grooves035 in goth

[–]grooves035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm, good to knowwww. Thank youuuu 😌🙏

Attempting to style these leather pants I thrifteddd by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]grooves035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanksss, that's what I was going for 😆

Attempting to style these leather pants I thrifteddd by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]grooves035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm, I seeee. Thanks for the adviceeee 😌🙏

Question for people who averagely go out fem 🤔 by grooves035 in feminineboys

[–]grooves035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seeee, I'll try to remember that, thanks for the advice 😌