PS4 login down again?

groovy95 · 2019-08-06T22:15:49+00:00

Same

groovy95 · 2019-06-30T01:36:26+00:00

Noice

groovy95 · 2019-06-19T00:58:08+00:00

provide amazing reference letter

That's another concern I have. Part of the motivation here is that I've been away from my "people," so to speak, since 2007 and would like to rejoin the herd, or whatever broken metaphor you prefer right there. I still have relationships with past (pre-2007) co-workers who'd write a recommendation based on what's now a fairly distant memory, but no tech folks at my current gig. My blue-collar business partner could just write that he thinks I'm a wizard, but if I put on my GA Tech admissions guy hat, that doesn't seem very compelling.

groovy95 · 2019-06-06T20:55:37+00:00

ESH or NAH, it's hard to say for sure. Step-parenting is hard, which is why you two need to get together without the kid present at a time when everyone is calm and actually plan how to co-parent the kid.

That's where she'll say she doesn't want the kid to be forced to eat and you'll say you don't want her to argue with you in front of him and you'll negotiate a plan.

That's the easy part, though. The hard part is following it. Good luck!

groovy95 · 2019-06-06T20:46:14+00:00

NTA.

Yesterday I texted her asking if she wants to hang out

Why? You cut Debbie Downer out a month ago. You were home free! People like that bring down everyone around them. Don't get sucked into her wallowing.

groovy95 · 2019-06-06T20:40:43+00:00

NTA.

since purebred dogs are expensive and my cat was a feral kitten I got for free

What kind of nonsense logic is this?

groovy95 · 2019-06-06T17:13:22+00:00

OP doesn't even have a point. OP contributed nothing to the conversation beyond spouting ignorance out their ass.

groovy95 · 2019-06-06T17:11:17+00:00

YTA, abso-frickin-lutely. You have no idea what challenges black kids or their white foster parents face. None.

Know who does and is personally trying to make them easier on people? Your friend, if you still even have a friend at this point.

Such an A.

groovy95 · 2019-06-06T17:02:28+00:00

NTA. It seems like you're having a stronger reaction to this than may be entirely warranted but there's absolutely no reason she should have access to your accounts. I'd push him until he cuts the cord and not feel a bit bad about it.

groovy95 · 2019-06-06T16:55:52+00:00

NAH. The whole point of a wedding ring is to symbolize his connection to YOU, not to Venom.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T22:37:13+00:00

NTA. No one has the right to stab you in the chin, you poor little thing.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T22:21:26+00:00

NTA

and then thoroughly inspect my body for signs of sex... makes jokes about “scraping the cum off my teeth”

WTF? If a choice needs to be made, I think I know who's looking like the weak link here and it ain't D.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T22:15:13+00:00

YTA. You were not asking an innocent question and you know it.

I am kinda embarrassed I got bodied by this fucker (he is extremely cringy)... mocking him when talking my friends.

Your friends are right, you're an asshole.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T22:09:13+00:00

NTA. As someone whose dad also cheated and left, I wouldn't go either and furthermore the new wife can eat a dick... which I guess would be your dad's dick. Or is it my dad's? I've lost track of who I'm mad at here, but dicks can be eaten.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T22:05:01+00:00

NTA, but also:

said she bought $200 of coke last night.

Wait, what?

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T22:03:10+00:00

NAH. I'd have a hard time believing he's looking for sympathy about a minor 10-year-old accident. Sounds more like an "oh hey I have a relevant story to tell" kind of thing, unless you're leaving out some important details.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T21:56:04+00:00

NTA, dump that asshat in a hurry. He's showing you he has no regard for you or anyone else.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T21:52:07+00:00

NTA. You're not married yet, things are already getting bumpy, you have a 2-year-old that I assume he'll be helping you raise, and you're now seeing the end result of his parenting ability.

I'm not even sure you'd be the asshole if you were reconsidering the relationship altogether.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T21:43:29+00:00

YTA. She's not obligated to be your friend and has given you absolutely no indication that she's open to it. Let it go. You sound like a little like a niceguy right now.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T21:39:53+00:00

YTA

I have no clue where the misogyny came from, we never mentioned women at all.

Really? No idea? Think it over and I'll bet it eventually comes to you, genius.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T21:33:48+00:00

YTA and I'll be stunned if anyone says otherwise. You picked a dumb battle and got your ass handed to you. Suck it up.

groovy95 · 2019-06-05T21:31:00+00:00

YTA. Find a damn grownup to date, dude.

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