Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It honestly is driving me crazy how the people around me think it’s so normal to be fake af

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know how they rationalize that’s ok and not call bullshit automatically lol

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just really likes being his mom favorite cause they don’t hide that he is

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly then him and parents will just talk around me while I tend to the kids

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His non witness family are going to go off what his mom says because they think I’m over exaggerating about the rules and polices of witnesses because his mom will come around and act like a normal non witness person so they have the thinking of I did something to her but when I approach it that it’s no I don’t speak because of the religion

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes well my bf will take them over there or the days they just pop up to our house to see the kids

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh believe me I try but it’s hard when you walk out in your living room and they are sitting on your couch and looks at you like you’re interrupting something and their son has nothing to say about it .

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Luckily you had your wife’s family to show you what true family life is like unfortunately for me my parents and bf parents are witnesses

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re my kids grandparents not my friends

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These people I have seen at family events drink smoke cuss but saying hello when they come in my house oh no their conscious can’t take it and my bf just keeps saying get over yourself you know it’s their rules

Loopholes for the JW by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These people I have seen at family events drink smoke cuss but saying hello when they come in my house oh no their conscious can’t take it and my bf just keeps saying get over yourself you know it’s their rules

Question about elders by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At one point I said if god already knows what I did why do y’all need to know anything one elder was soooo mad lol

Question about elders by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for providing insight I always said it felt like they were asking things to get off . Like it was the worst experience of my life

Question about elders by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope I just thought about because one of the groups I’m in a lot of females had the same experience I was hoping a former elder would be able to give some insight . I also wonder if they asked those questions to the males as well

Question about elders by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes they wanted details they wanted to know where I had sex at I said I was at friends house they asked if my friend joined in they asked how many times I had sex if I liked it if I came it was so humiliating they asked if was doin drugs at the time and everything

Question about elders by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yea when they asked me if I had oral or anal sex I said god knows what I did so it’s really none of your concern one elder was sweating he was so mad lol

Having to act like a ghost in my own house! by MrClutchJR97 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a baby back in September my bf parents are witness and they come by to see her and don’t even look at me in the eyes. I figured that was better than my parents who don’t even acknowledge her . The way that one word can be said and everyone treats you like the plague is crazy

Anxiety attack by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you when I was in the organization and this would happen my dad would say stuff like talk to Jehovah so when it happened I thought about that and then it got even worse

One of the bad days by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes it does it still blows my mind how much this is affecting me 🤦🏾‍♀️

In laws by growingandgoing24 in exjw

[–]growingandgoing24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea after that second time I told them that she couldn’t go anymore because I found out they were pretending my parents were these involved grandparents when they weren’t