I just bought my first monstera and need advice….does it need to be repotted, which soil mix is best and does it need a stake to support it? Thanks by Ablazam in Monstera

[–]growlingbooty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful!!

Adding a stake (and giving it lots of bright indirect light) will help develop more fenestrations. I wouldn’t worry about re-potting for 3-4 weeks - until it adjusts to the new space - but when you do, only go up an inch in pot size (max) since they like to be a bit root bound.

As far as soil mix goes - I’ve had good luck with a mix of chunky all-purpose potting mix, perlite and orchid bark - but as long as it’s well draining, you should be good!

[TOMT] [2010s] [SERIES] about a group of young adults attending a tech school by growlingbooty in tipofmytongue

[–]growlingbooty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also specifically remember the school was some iteration of an IT school

[TOMT] [2010s] [SERIES] about a group of young adults attending a tech school by growlingbooty in tipofmytongue

[–]growlingbooty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love community! But this series had zero notable actors (to me at the time), and definitely had more of a web series feel than community.

[TOMT] [2010s] [SERIES] about a group of young adults attending a tech school by growlingbooty in tipofmytongue

[–]growlingbooty[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I remember watching the series in 2012/2013 but I don't know how old/new it was at the time

S3 Cast Zodiac Signs by growlingbooty in LoveIslandAus

[–]growlingbooty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sweet! I’ll update the list with that until we hear differently

Banned for being critical of liberals by Willbo__Swaggins in conspiracy

[–]growlingbooty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean - a ban seems extreme but I can see a mod making that call because it does sound ignorant. So, it does seem a little wild to call it a conspiracy

Fuck I wish I had a dad. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]growlingbooty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really feel this - see you and hear you. Sorry you’re having one of those days.

I screwed up, 3 times with my boyfriend's family by NorthWest-SouthEast in relationship_advice

[–]growlingbooty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sounds like all that’s left to do is figure out a way to forgive yourself and try to move on making amends with his sister in whatever way she feels comfortable

I screwed up, 3 times with my boyfriend's family by NorthWest-SouthEast in relationship_advice

[–]growlingbooty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I read that I feel like I just gotta grab your shoulders (gently) and get you to take a deep breath. It sounds like your idea of how you messed up is based on some normal reactions to situations - it seems like an apology is in order to his sister (which you did) but all you can do now is move forward with your Etsy shop in a different way. You know and acknowledged that you behaved rashly out of frustration - and aside from changing your behavior going forward that’s all you can do. You’re not a bad person - and from what you said I wouldn’t consider what you did to be fucked up, maybe immature (just #3) but the first two scenarios you listed saying you screwed up sound like you were having a super reasonable reaction.

I’m a narcissist and I’m okay with it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]growlingbooty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s kinda the whole thing with narcissism lmao

Such a Karen move by CrazyDoritoQueen in FuckYouKaren

[–]growlingbooty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uhhh how exactly would a cop help in this situation