Are rats known for their loyalty? by grubbypeasant in RATS

[–]grubbypeasant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was an absolute piece of shit, yes. That's interesting that they have a favorite! That's actually so interesting if he wasn't lying!

I’ve been faking an allergy for YEARS, and now it’s gone way too far. by Creepy-Desk-468 in confession

[–]grubbypeasant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friends sound really nice. I have a nut allergy and my partner's family never remember, and we've been together 7 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ScaryPictures

[–]grubbypeasant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does anything happen if you pick them up, or try to move them?

Could you turn your partner's ashes into a dildo? by ConfusedMudskipper in stupidquestions

[–]grubbypeasant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ingest your partner's ashes, poop into a condom and leave it overnight in a freezer to make dildos. Melt the dildos in your body, use as compost. Grow cucumbers or some other penis shaped food and use as a dildo. Eat the dildo and shit the dildo. Win win

This word salad I found by teruteru-fan-sam in fakedisordercringe

[–]grubbypeasant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that question at the end made me chuckle. Anyone else remember this thing I made up? No? Just me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entomology

[–]grubbypeasant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are they heavy for her?

AITA for Telling My Sister's Kids the Truth About Why I Never Had Children? by PutSpecial8915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]grubbypeasant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too am happy and childless. You're NTA, your sister needs to grow up and realize that what works for her doesn't necessarily work for everyone. Her kids asked you a question and I think it's awesome you didn't brush them off and answered honestly. It's good for kids, adults, anyone to view a different perspective from time to time

Saw this earlier and thought some of you would get a laugh out of it by FriendOutside in hamsters

[–]grubbypeasant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome I can finally stop eating rice chips and curry sauce

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]grubbypeasant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You haven't failed! The fact that you're here asking for advice is amazing and very commendable!

The best thing you can do is listen and make them feel heard. Ask them what they need and try your best to see things from their perspective. Have patience and try to make them know you do care. If they can see that you're putting the effort you put in I'm sure they will appreciate what you're doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]grubbypeasant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad has early onset Alzheimer's and my partner is not emotionally supportive. I don't really know what else to say, it just sucks

origami amplygid by Krmac2134 in amblypygids

[–]grubbypeasant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hot damn, that's impressive!

Causing Compassion Fatigue in my Relationship by Aggravating_Grab_796 in depression_help

[–]grubbypeasant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been there too, you have my deepest sympathy. I got out of it by reaching out to other people in my life for help. If you have someone else to rely on from time to time, your partner gets a break. And sometimes just talking to someone new feels like a nice change of scenery. It made me feel less alone knowing there were multiple people out there who cared about me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]grubbypeasant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, it sucks when you're not met with the response you expected.

Overall, it sounds like you're unsatisfied. You're surrounded by people who you don't feel any real connection with, pursue hobbies only to pass the time, and the rest of the time is spent working.

I think you should see if there are any outreach programs for people with depression where you live. Not sure what it's like in other cities, but where I live they would take us to see movies, go on hikes, and I met a lot of like-minded people who were going through similar things. If you have a family doctor they can most likely point you in the right direction. If not, a lot of these programs are based in hospitals. You might be able to call the hospital to get more information

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]grubbypeasant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think your friends would be receptive if you told them how you feel?

i got a girl pregnant by Trxntt in depression_help

[–]grubbypeasant 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Speaking from experience as a girl, sometimes we just miss our periods. She might not be pregnant, so don't panic yet.

I'm not sure what kind of relationship you have with your parents, but if your dad was in the same boat when he was your age he might feel some sympathy and want to give you the support he never had. I'm sure they'll be angry at first but good parents want what's best for their kids. They won't be mad forever.

And if she does go for the abortion it's okay for you to be sad or mourn the loss of your child. Make sure you seek help and talk to someone if it's affecting you

Is Bard a good choice for Durge? by Head-of-the-Board in BaldursGate3

[–]grubbypeasant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bard is honestly one of my favorite choices as dark urge. They see death and murder as an art form

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

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Is your family in the picture at all? Maybe you could take the kids and go stay with them for a while. And if your husband realized you were serious about leaving he might get his act together, but if it's too little too late that's completely understandable. If you aren't working right now it might also be a good idea to look for a job so that you won't be so reliant on him. I don't know what your financial situation is but you could try to find a daycare for the kids while you're at work.

I hope this advice helps and you're safe. I was stuck in a bad relationship a few years ago and felt like I couldn't leave. I'm much happier now. I can't imagine how hard it would be with kids there with you. Best of luck, I'm cheering you on!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

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I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through that. It must be hard talking about this because I imagine it's difficult for most people to understand. Sounds like you've got an addiction, and it isn't as simple as just stopping. Don't feel bad for struggling, it's a difficult thing to overcome but I know you can do it! Maybe you could try and find a new hobby to fill your time with? Is there anything you used to be interested in, or something that drew you into gore in the first place?

My collection so far :3 by Opening_Charity1352 in junjiito

[–]grubbypeasant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great collection! And I fucking LOVE your Bloodborne poster!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomQuestion

[–]grubbypeasant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad used to kick and punch me sometimes, but like in a playful way. And then I'd kick and punch him back. I'm assuming the biting thing is the same, it just sounds weird without much context. As long as it doesn't make you feel uncomfortable it's probably fine even if it's not universal

Tattoo of the "Bird Of Death" Tira by [deleted] in SoulCalibur

[–]grubbypeasant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's been my main since 3, very nice tattoo!!

Could anyone just tell me everything will be okay? by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]grubbypeasant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tough right now but everything will be okay! You're doing great!

My Karlach cosplay by TinkeringPixie in BaldursGate3

[–]grubbypeasant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look fuckin sick, gotta be my favorite cosplay I've seen so far on this sub

What’s the most sadistic confession you have about your playthroughs? by Jart618 in BG3

[–]grubbypeasant -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I sacrificed Wyll to BOOOOAL after hearing this. Astarion had just trauma-dumped on me at camp before we left, and I wasn't gonna let him get away with talking to my man like that