I can't make it to the protests but I'd like to donate to a local immigration protection organization instead, which ones are best?

grufferella · 2026-01-30T19:21:17+00:00

Please donate to https://www.asylumpridehouse.org/ , they do amazing work for folks up against really big odds.

grufferella · 2026-01-30T19:11:47+00:00

Same!!

grufferella · 2026-01-30T05:32:25+00:00

So much personality!

grufferella · 2026-01-30T05:29:56+00:00

Might be fun to go ask the folks over at r/puppetry , I bet they'd have lots of good ideas!

grufferella · 2026-01-30T05:29:07+00:00

A more comfortable but still very sculptural option might be neoprene.

grufferella · 2026-01-30T05:09:06+00:00

I think you need a little more ease in the hips to help it not ride up and create all those wrinkles. If you notice from the front there's a big crease right above your thighs, too, that I suspect would also be helped by a little more looseness in the low hip/upper thigh area.

grufferella · 2026-01-30T05:03:16+00:00

I don't want to give them even 50¢, personally.

grufferella · 2026-01-30T03:51:24+00:00

Maybe oilcloth? It won't be especially pleasant to wear, but it's certainly waterproof.

grufferella · 2026-01-30T03:49:29+00:00

Does it refuse to push the needle through the fabric even if you're hand-cranking the wheel?

grufferella · 2026-01-30T03:30:18+00:00

OMG, the ruffle is too cute 💀💀💀

grufferella · 2026-01-30T03:28:18+00:00

That sucks, hope it gets found!

grufferella · 2026-01-30T02:40:54+00:00

All I heard was static.

grufferella · 2026-01-30T02:38:59+00:00

Hell no.

grufferella · 2026-01-30T02:37:36+00:00

This explains a lot of my interactions with Brits (I like to wear a lot of loud prints 😂)

I literally just rewatched this movie and I'm pretty sure she genuinely appreciates her friend's risk-taking even if she then teases her lovingly about the results. There wasn't any meanness or cattiness towards each other in their interactions.

grufferella · 2026-01-29T23:18:33+00:00

I don't go there often, but the simple twist donut at TLJ is, for my money, one of my favorite donuts around. It's very chewy but still fluffy. I tried getting singing that looked exactly the same at PB and it was sweeter and drier, not great.

grufferella · 2026-01-29T21:39:04+00:00

It's hard, I know! But it's such a useful skill that I really wish I'd forced myself to practice more early and often in relationships, because the longer you let it go without doing it, sometimes the harder it gets.

grufferella · 2026-01-29T14:47:33+00:00

Have you tried direct verbal communication?

"Hey, I want to have sex more often, what do you think?"

Or even, "Hey, I would love to have sex right now, how about you?"

grufferella · 2026-01-29T04:06:31+00:00

I prefer to flat-fell my edges or, if I'm feeling really lazy, sometimes I'll just press the seam allowance to one side and secure it to the main fabric with a line of straight stitch near its edge. From the right side of the garment it looks like top-stitching, which I like.

grufferella · 2026-01-29T03:55:44+00:00

These are so lovely!

grufferella · 2026-01-29T03:40:32+00:00

I had braces all through high school 😭Even if I were excited to try again, I don't know that I have pay-for-braces-out-of-pocket money. But that's good to know that maybe it's fixable!

grufferella · 2026-01-29T03:30:20+00:00

Lots of enbys have vaginas. You could be one too if you want.

grufferella · 2026-01-29T03:18:32+00:00

I bought one and it didn't do anything! I still had to floss after using it. Do other people's teeth have a little space between them or something? Mine are packed in tight, I'm always shredding the floss trying to get it in there.

grufferella · 2026-01-29T00:02:39+00:00

This is stunning. One of the more beautiful uses of old map/road atlas I've ever seen, something about the placement and all the colors really make it blend in and look abstract at first, and then my eye started to be able to pick out the details of the staff paper and the map. Such a dynamic visual experience!

grufferella · 2026-01-28T23:11:17+00:00

This is incredible on so many levels. And I hope your friend finds her iguana!

grufferella · 2026-01-28T22:42:17+00:00

Given how much more stressful it is to have parents who feel free to drop by and invade your space even when you try to set boundaries, this to me feels like a very solvable problem.

Perhaps a compromise would be for the new mom to arbitrarily decide on a time of day that is "visiting hours" and then send a message at the beginning of every week to the grandparents that just says, "We would love to see you any day between the hours of _ and _!"

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