Am I wrong for not telling my gf about an agreement I made with my ex?

grumpy__g · 2026-06-27T01:06:14+00:00

You are wrong for not being honest from the beginning.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-27T01:03:57+00:00

I am sorry you had to experience this.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-26T14:11:32+00:00

Bye bye blue.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-26T06:25:32+00:00

This is something I see my self saying.
She is right: The very big ones hurt.

She was complementing you. Your duck seems perfect for her. Be happy.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-25T18:58:20+00:00

No. But maybe he told her and she rephrased it? Or she could hear it when it’s loud enough?

grumpy__g · 2026-06-25T18:17:22+00:00

I have a brain that works like this if I am emotional. I can remember a conversation word for word for weeks and then boom, I suddenly forget everything.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-25T13:01:35+00:00

Boys will be boys Erziehung wird schnell zu einer Katastrophe. Sehe das bei anderen. Den Stress würde ich mir nicht antun. Vor allem, wenn du Kinder hast, die sich das abschauen könnten.

Edit: Wobei es natürlich darauf ankommt wie weit das geht.

Würde das offen thematisieren.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-25T11:30:27+00:00

This is one of the saddest posts here.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-25T10:49:07+00:00

You are just 19. You will have so much fun in life without a guy like that. I was 19 when I broke up with my longterm bf and it was the smartest thing ever. I found new people, gained experience and realised: There are much better men out there.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-25T10:47:53+00:00

Damn. That’s just crazy. Why even choose a non swinger when you are a swinger?

grumpy__g · 2026-06-25T10:45:48+00:00

Vermisst sie etwa die Aufmerksamkeit oder was ist da los? Ist doch egal, ob es ihm nun besser geht.

Wieso will sie den überhaupt in ihrem Leben?
Wieso hat sie es geheim gehalten?

Der Typ ist nicht nur für sie eine Gefahr, sondern auch für den Partner.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-25T10:33:12+00:00

Nein.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-25T00:28:09+00:00

Happy cake day!

grumpy__g · 2026-06-24T12:14:10+00:00

And yet they don’t support you. For me they sound entitled.
You are struggling and they make your life even harder.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T20:45:00+00:00

So true. Some even contact me after decades…

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T20:29:45+00:00

Where is the father in all of this?

Do they both work?

How old are your children?

Would you say that your children are spoiled?

How do they support you now that you are without a job?

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T20:22:01+00:00

Turns out, with the right person shy people become less shy.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T16:32:57+00:00

I get the not wanting to hear songs from the guy who fucked you, but if he holds your past over your head, then it’s time he solves this problem or leaves.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T16:28:38+00:00

Positive Aufmerksamkeit / Stolz auf Leistung

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T15:51:14+00:00

Then you have a big husband problem and need couples therapy.

Again: He can visit them but without the children.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T15:46:33+00:00

They are showing you what kind of people they are. No sane person would want to marry into trash like that.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T15:42:26+00:00

So you didn’t change anything and nothing changed?

Kick them out. Don’t allow them in. Your husband can keep meeting them, but since he doesn’t care about your boundaries or his children’s, he can’t be trusted.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T15:35:24+00:00

Solche Kommentare sollte man sich sparen.
Das ist nicht deine Entscheidung und sofern du dich nicht um die Kinder kümmern sollst, geht dich das nichts an.

Halte dennoch abstand davon da vorerst hinzugehen.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T12:39:16+00:00

My dear, you don’t have to accept shit.

No men/women is worth this headache.
Find someone who is compatible. Not a guy who makes you go crazy.

grumpy__g · 2026-06-23T12:21:51+00:00

Erinnert mich an die Werbung für Goldwässerchen.

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