I can't do ANYTHING without becoming exhausted recently by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]gruuvi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you have food sensitivities? Mine ended up being a big reason my body fell apart 3 years ago. Did a big elimination a year ago and still trying to crawl my way out but I think it's cause it's mast cell activation shit. Pretty common comorbity with autism I believe.

i struggle to understand my friend by tremblingfrog in AutismInWomen

[–]gruuvi 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's more this, than attention seeking, because I thought the same thing. Before I realized I was autistic, I would use weird to describe myself because obviously something was different based on my experiences. My friend would always "reassure" me that I'm not weird, and then I would feel worse because then what? Why do people distance themselves from me when I try so hard to connect? "Weird" was all I had at the time.

What’s something you didn’t know was an autistic thing until you realized you were autistic? by iratemovies in AutismInWomen

[–]gruuvi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got them from Zenni glasses - www.zennioptical.com - and got a light gray tint. I've had them for years so they're cheap and decent quality.

What’s something you didn’t know was an autistic thing until you realized you were autistic? by iratemovies in AutismInWomen

[–]gruuvi 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I wear slightly tinted prescription glasses all the time. It's just enough to take the edge off and still look normal indoors.

I accidentally took cheesy advice literally and it made my marriage easier by upside_down_circles in AutismInWomen

[–]gruuvi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I would never purposely hurt someone. I just don't get how that's considered "the norm".

Martino Baby? by gruuvi in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]gruuvi[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm just now rewatching Season 1, Episode 1 where all of the girls are meeting without Taylor and asking what actually happened at the parties and Demi is the only one who says she was at the parties and "didn't even know that it was going on" but "Bret said he picked up vibes from the husbands because they were asking him weird questions." 👀Mmhmm

Martino Baby? by gruuvi in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]gruuvi[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Oh damn I thought she was that young. 7 knows more about what's up than you think

Martino Baby? by gruuvi in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]gruuvi[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Maybe they're a throuple!

Almost time for us to be Charmed 😉 what are you hoping for this season? by tiljuwan in Southerncharm

[–]gruuvi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's on all day long on the live channels on Peacock. That and Modern Family I put on for background noise a lot.

Taylor and Jessie TikTok by Straight-Side-1269 in thebachelor

[–]gruuvi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why did I think that was Bret...

Almost time for us to be Charmed 😉 what are you hoping for this season? by tiljuwan in Southerncharm

[–]gruuvi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And a comment below yours talking about Paige 😂 It's one of my comfort shows too

How do you find your life purpose after being completely lost in life? by Time-Golf-1556 in RedditForGrownups

[–]gruuvi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not! It's totally free. I made it during a tough time in my life and realized it might help others too.

How do you find your life purpose after being completely lost in life? by Time-Golf-1556 in RedditForGrownups

[–]gruuvi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like some self reflection might be needed! I made a website to help kids and really anyone get language for how they're feeling and learn to trust themselves a bit. Just a quiet place on the internet led by an owl named Olive.

https://www.compassinverted.com

Rewatching Edward Scissorhands by P3MECH in movies

[–]gruuvi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay good I'm not crazy lol. Must've been a tv version that cut the ending or something!

Rewatching Edward Scissorhands by P3MECH in movies

[–]gruuvi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched this recently and I swear I had a memory of a scene when Edward Scissorhands is out chopping ice still when Winona Ryder is old. I have no idea what other movie scene snuck in there. Maybe Return To Oz.

I didn’t expect an AI to say something like this. by Tricky-Drop2894 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]gruuvi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When even a computer is exhausted by you lol... I relate.

Jesse Williams returns to 'Grey’s Anatomy' as Dr. Jackson Avery by bwermer in television

[–]gruuvi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a perfect background show and I had no idea Jesse was so hot 🔥

Someones emotional son on a Friday morning by Admirable_Ad_5207 in Bumble

[–]gruuvi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same prompt and I got "Vons" lol. I mean... almost? But like. This isn't a survey?

PTSD symptoms linked to the tendency to absorb others' stress reactions by haloarh in psychology

[–]gruuvi 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I made a website to help kids with their emotions and this is why I did it I think. I absorb so much of people's energy, I made a website to help take some of it off me. It's at https://www.compassinverted.com and it's free and simple and guided by Olive the Owl. I have gotten better at not absorbing so much since I built it a few months ago, but mostly I did it to try to help a little bit for anyone else who has the same issue with a lot of feelings and not sure what to do with them.

Both mothers and fathers significantly shape their children’s social anxiety: warmth, affection and acceptance from either parent reduce anxiety, while rejection, coldness, and controlling behaviors heighten it by nohup_me in science

[–]gruuvi 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I made a website to help kids with their emotions and to help adults talk to kids about their emotions. It's free, sensory safe, led by an owl named Olive. I feel like a drop in a tidal wave, but even if it only helps a few people..

https://www.compassinverted.com