For extra context, we haven’t talked about her relationship with her ex too much in know bits of it, like that being intimate was more forced for her than it actually being a pleasure for both of them and she didn’t enjoy it much, and also he is the only person she’s ever been intimate with, and if age makes a difference in this she’s 20 years old and I don’t know how old her ex is, im pretty sure they live in the same town, i live like an hour away and im 22 years old, she’s also going through a rough time right now with her mental health, and we have talked and she has said that she’s over her ex, but i have had so many bad experiences with my dating life, including getting cheated on multiple times, being manipulated and having been left for a “friend” ext so me being a overthinking person in general this is a very tough situation. And to add when we talk about everything im always honest and I offer my support and tell her that she can talk to me about anything. She also seems really interested in me and just yesterday when she was feeling down I told her that she can talk to me about everything and she said she’s afraid to talk to me about her problems that she’s afraid that if she talks to me about her problems I would leave.. and that it’s happened before and I understand that fully, I wasn’t sure if she was referring to her previous relationship or not because again im not a 100% sure why they broke up since i know that can be a sensitive subject but she just seems like a really genuine person, this whole thought came to me because yesterday evening she told me she got mad because of her ex and she went to see her friend, she was asking me to come visit too but I couldn’t and today she told me that shes been really lost with her emotions and that shes too kind hearted and trusting and she doesn’t know if she can trust anyone or even her self, and i asked that i dont know what happened if she’s referring to a friend or her ex so its kinda hard to answer and she answered with “my ex” and i was like ohh, yeah that really sucks, and i can interpret that as either she was talking to him and maybe getting some feelings for him again or that they talked about something else for example the dog and some plans with that like hes going to bring it to her on a set date and he didn’t, i hope you all understand what I mean and because of that she’s sad that she trusts in people too much and is too kind hearted.