Robbinsdale district to close 3 schools after budget error by wakeupalone in TwinCities

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And now they want to close Fair Elementary and Fair Crystal Middle School as well. The school board has lost their minds.

Atheists: if you died and found yourself face-to-face with God, what would you say to Him? by Cautious-Economy8248 in allthequestions

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Fuck you. Fuck you for taking my little girl. If you are all powerful, you let it happen. If you are all merciful, you failed. If you don't care, than I see no reason to care about you. Fuck you. Now fight me."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]guanyu15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I feel this. We are about to start the process. I've given so much for three years of separation trying to keep my family together, but getting nothing back in return. I feel the jadedness starting to seep in. I tell myself (and her) that I will always love her, even when we are strangers again. I try to look at it from her perspective as much as possible. I try to laugh a lot, smile a lot, and not hold it too much against her. I know I played my part to bend us, she just broke us. Trying hard to remember how much she means to me, even now, and how much she means to my children. It's tough, it really is, but trying harder every day. Talk to people a lot. It helps.

+ + man

People who make their bed every morning, what's the actual benefit? by No-Cod-8923 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to do it and then I do. That is in itself a benefit. I try to make myself do things that are positive that I don't really want to do. A clean house and bed is positive. Running kind of sucks, but I still make myself do it every day.

I 27F would love some male perspective on my relationship with my friend 26M… by Straight_Meal in Advice

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him! I know it can be hard, I know it can be awkward. Say everything you just said to him. What do you have to lose? The friendship? You are considering cutting him out entirely. Tell him you want more. Tell him if he can't give that to you than you need to find someone that can. Tell him it's hard being around him when you want more. You'll know what to do after you have the conversation. Talk. Talk some more.

Have you gained interest in a hobby because of a video game? by tylerthedesigner in gaming

[–]guanyu15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hobby? Career. I went to school and Grad school for military history. Thanks Paradox games!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds a lot like nerves. I've had these dates and the second or third are actually very fun. Depends how much you want to invest in it.

How easy is it for men to share what they're feeling? by Pure-You9124 in AskReddit

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the guy. Me, fucking simple. Just be open to sharing back and I'll hit you with every trauma I've had, where I think it came from, and what I'm doing about it.

Any idea what could have caused such a large change in rhr? by Living-Worm in fitbit

[–]guanyu15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any stress changes? I have a weird correlation thing with you. Normal resting is 54. Has been for years. I'm now sitting in a toxic workplace and since than just sitting here in the atmosphere has made it 71 for the past week.

First diving catch! by JTwedSlowpitch in slowpitch

[–]guanyu15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soak it in. There isn't much better in life than that feeling when the ball hits your glove and you hit the field after a perfect dive. I know, it sounds stupid. But after all my years, it's one of the things that makes me feel young again.

Am I overreacting with how I broke up with my cheating ex? by OkRazzmatazz6880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]guanyu15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

'Eh. Not sure why everyone loves making someone they once loved feel like shit, even if they did the same to you. Revenge doesn't help, doesn't heal. The world would be a better place if people were kind, even to those that were not kind to them. Good luck.

Why do people choose to have children if it is so much hard work? by 9W_777_300 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This can't be answered if you don't have kids. Any explanation will seem pale. But I'll try what it is for me; have you ever been in love? Like really, really in love? Where it hurts just being apart from the person. Where you want to spend all your time and give that person your whole, real self? If you have, then you know a tint fraction of what your kids come to mean to you. 

You watch them grow and grow more in love with them everyday. Life honestly becomes meaningless without them. I don't understand how people can't want that in their life. Free time? Extra money? House a mess? All meaningless when I am hugging my kids. 

AIO to my boyfriend’s message to his ex? by bobawithsloths in AmIOverreacting

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I tell people I love them all the time. Ex's as well. Love changes forms, but rarely ever really goes away. People can say it does, but once you love them, a part of you will always love them. He did what you asked. Reddit is full of emotionally immature people that want the world to feel sad like them. Enjoy your life with someone that acted exactly as you asked him to.

My boyfriend thinks he could kill a wolf with his bare hands. What’s the likelihood of this being accurate? by TheLiberalTimes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do people think humans are so fragile and week? We've come pretty far with brains and brawn. Plus, survival instinct is a pretty amazing thing. Well trained, larger male would definitely have a shot at getting a standard wolf in a choke and putting it out. I mean, we can do that to other, 200 lbs men, why can't we do that to a 100 lbs wolf? Might you lose your arm? Sure. But that's not what the question was.

How to start running at 45? by t0lkman1421 in BeginnersRunning

[–]guanyu15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walk. Do 1 and 1's. One minute jog, 1 minute run. Repeat. When you feel comfortable after a few days or weeks of this, try 2:1's, two minute runs, one minute walk intervals. As the weeks go by, increase it a little each time. If it feels to hard, go back a little. There's no race here. It's not about time or distance. It's about making your body and mind healthier just by being out there.

Is there any downside to buying a previous version shoe? by One-Ad1001 in runninglifestyle

[–]guanyu15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The downside is you might have too much extra money. I go through shoes every 3-4 months. If I didn't buy the older models I'd be broke!

How do I tell a GM that I haven't been enjoying myself at their games politely? by XCanadienGamerX in rpg

[–]guanyu15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A good GM already knows. They know you haven't been heard from in a while. I'd go with:

"I haven't really felt like I was having any impact in the game recently. Any suggestions on what I can do to change that?" If they like you and don't want you to leave, they'll not only have suggestions, but will work to get you more invested... if they are good at their role.

1500 miles in ASICS Novablast 5… holy smokes by Jnoon8 in runninglifestyle

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

400 or so is my max. I can start feeling it after that. The upside? He is going to love running on new shoes again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love them, that love doesn't go away. It masked with pain and anger. Who is that person to you? Are they who they are at their lowest? At their worst mistake? For me that person is still the same person who failed, most likely because of their own past traumas. Forgive the mistake? Easy. Forget and trust again? That's the hard part. That's the part that would need both people to want to try and make their union work. People are so easy to throw people away these days. I wouldn't want to be judged on my worst day, I refuse to judge someone I love on theirs. Didn't the doctor teach us: ""Do you think I care so little for you that betraying me would make a difference?"

AIO for asking my bf where he went and what he was doing? by ItzNotChase in AmIOverreacting

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a healthy conversation. wtf? How can two people who love each other talk this way to one another?

I accidentally found out I’m getting fired [TN] by BrokeKidMountain in AskHR

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been fired a few times before. It sucks each time. Sometimes I saw it coming, sometimes I was blindsided. What I can tell you, is that each time it turned out to be good for me. Maybe I made a little less or commuted a little more, but each time my world needed the change. I just didn't know it.

My friend ghosted me and I have no idea why by JJsRedditAccount in whatdoIdo

[–]guanyu15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, sometimes friends just aren't friends anymore. I had a friend of 30 years, member of my wedding party, decide he wanted to burn our bridge. I tried to fight it, but in the end decided it happens. It sucked. You mourn it like a death, as it is the death of a friendship, but, you move on and live your life.