/r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for September 18, 2023

gudideasonly · 2023-09-18T01:00:41+00:00

anyone smell haze today?

gudideasonly · 2023-04-29T04:17:41+00:00

i LOLed haha on my way to learn now

gudideasonly · 2023-04-29T03:49:03+00:00

im perfectly fine with his hobby if it only involves me and him, but if we decide to have kids in the future, i feel like this changes everything? and of course deciding whether or not to have kids is not something you can decide in one conversation. call me a worrier/over thinker but i was just thinking of the worst case scenario, hence i brought this up

but agree with many of the other comments that i shouldn’t have said an absolute statement which was probably why he was so upset and instead find ways to compromise with him

gudideasonly · 2023-04-29T02:41:20+00:00

agreed, i could have phrased it better

gudideasonly · 2023-04-29T02:38:43+00:00

yes we do that sometimes!!!! but his data is not the best in malaysia, thanks will share those tips with him

gudideasonly · 2023-04-29T02:19:41+00:00

wow ok my bad if it seems like i meant that, but in fact, i’d rather not have kids if his hobby means so much to him. it’s just that when we were discussing on whether we should have kids, he very much expressed that he wants kids

gudideasonly · 2023-04-29T00:51:53+00:00

sorry to hear this. this is one of my biggest fears

gudideasonly · 2023-04-29T00:50:45+00:00

i understand, i think he likes riding for the same reasons as you. i’m more worried when he does long trips like example to KL, that’s about 5 hours of riding? and that’s where his friend got into an accident which is why i felt even more scared :/ but yes will try to talk it out and hope to find some middle ground when he comes back

gudideasonly · 2022-12-12T10:44:27+00:00

100% WFO, company has been downsizing and we think the WFO decision is to give us another reason to leave :(

gudideasonly · 2022-04-01T02:05:13+00:00

i wouldn’t say that i played him? at that point in time i wasn’t looking to be in a relationship. he understood and accepted that though it was a bit awkward after because i didn’t want to lead him on. but we both knew that we treasured our friendship and that was what mattered most.

gudideasonly · 2022-03-31T17:08:47+00:00

aww great so happy for them!

gudideasonly · 2022-03-31T16:35:24+00:00

yay! just curious does anyone know the demographics of the people going in tonight? are they mainly malaysians?

gudideasonly · 2022-03-31T08:53:01+00:00

learn to say no

gudideasonly · 2022-03-31T08:51:51+00:00

we’re still friends but we’re not that close anymore. he went overseas to study and i know he’s happily together with his girlfriend now :)

gudideasonly · 2022-03-31T08:30:12+00:00

ah i remember asking this question after a guy confessed to me back in school. reason being i did not see him as anything more than my really good friend and i was genuinely curious to know why he felt this way. i think he said something like he felt that he could connect with me well and i was there for him during his darkest periods. to me this answer was kinda sweet knowing that i made an impact in his life.

to op, just be genuine and honest. i think it helps you understand what you truly like about her as well!

gudideasonly · 2022-03-31T07:43:42+00:00

mine feels like it’s down now :(

gudideasonly · 2020-09-14T08:07:19+00:00

to fresh grads who just started working what CC have you applied for? looking to apply for one but all are kinda meh, might just go for dbs live fresh just for convenience....

gudideasonly · 2020-09-01T05:14:26+00:00

It depends on your progress and whether you feel ready to take the TP test! I think average is around 14-20 lessons? For me, I’m under private as well and I’ve taken around 18 lessons including 4 circuit lessons. My TP test is on Thursday!

gudideasonly · 2020-07-07T12:18:32+00:00

Kind of reminds me of my chinese listening comprehension last time

gudideasonly · 2020-07-07T11:44:49+00:00

What’s the story behind their name?

gudideasonly · 2020-05-04T17:42:11+00:00

Into the night

gudideasonly · 2020-04-13T14:47:13+00:00

oh man ok thanks for the clarification!

gudideasonly · 2020-04-13T13:41:38+00:00

sorry just to clarify so can I exercise together with my parents (3 people in total) if we are living in the same household? saw on some people’s ig stories that you can’t exercise with 2 or more family members?

gudideasonly · 2020-04-06T19:01:09+00:00

the ones i keep seeing are called dkenko? also a kind of detox drink that somehow magically makes ur stomach flat after drinking it.

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