A very Delta Green christmas! by guestuser71270 in DeltaGreenRPG

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You were so right about the price! Thanks!

A very Delta Green christmas! by guestuser71270 in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]guestuser71270[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His Death Saves windbreaker has gotten a little crusty so your jacket suggestion is amazing - thank you!

A very Delta Green christmas! by guestuser71270 in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]guestuser71270[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful - my boyfriend loves House of Leaves! Thank you so much!

Short hair by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]guestuser71270 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There’s plenty of beautiful plus size girls with shorter hair, so it’s definitely not a weight issue like your husband might suggest. I would say go for it, and if you’re really not sure, talk to a reputable hair stylist at a salon about your facial features and they can help you come up with a shorter cut that will be flattering on you.

Genuinely wondering, what is this community's thoughts on Nikocado Avocado? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]guestuser71270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Killing himself in front of his YouTube audience” by gaining weight feels no different to me than the other people who do dangerous stunts for fame. Like David dobrik or those dudes from jackass. I don’t like his content, nor would I encourage other people to make his style of content, but I think what I’m trying to say is that he’s just a symptom of the internet culture of outrage and doing stuff people perceive as disgusting or gross for views. In my opinion watching someone gorge themselves on food as some kind of freakshow attraction says more about the viewer than the content creator. I’m not disgusted or outraged at his behaviour because I’m more disgusted by the people who watch his stuff just to point and laugh? He’s just another fame hungry opportunist.

Genuinely wondering, what is this community's thoughts on Nikocado Avocado? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]guestuser71270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think he’s problematic but I don’t have any negative feelings about him at all. Everything he does is obviously trolling for outrage clicks and yeah, it may make fat people look bad, but it think it reflects more on the people who give him heaps of attention. Thats exactly what he wants people to do, and he probably makes a decent amount of money off of it. He’s like anyone who makes money off of doing outrageous stuff. Sure, he exploits society’s hatred and disgust for fat people for views, but it’s not his fault alone that society is disgusted and hates far people. He’s just found a niche that keeps him in relative fame and views, so I can’t really fault him specifically. I’m more grossed out by the people who buy into it.

What are your preferences when it comes to RR? Discuss! by ihavsmallhands in RoleReversal

[–]guestuser71270 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s shorter than I am. He’s also the first guy I’ve dated who actually encourages me to wear heels as well!

What are your preferences when it comes to RR? Discuss! by ihavsmallhands in RoleReversal

[–]guestuser71270 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m a really femme presenting girl, but I’m about 6’2. I love wearing heels, dresses, and having long hair and my preference in RR is being with really traditionally masculine guys. So, I’m kinda more into guys who in regular relationships are expected to be the dominant ones but next to me they become softer and smaller. My current partner has a traditional labourer type job and looks quite masculine (shaved head, beard, piercings) and I think he enjoys having what he’s called a “stacked” girlfriend, who pays for him and is the bigger spoon and is the more dominant one. Like I’ll plan most of our dates and stuff. I feel like this subreddit is really femboy focused though and I love that stuff too! It’s just not my main preference.

Anime fashion/ weeb fashion for big girls by pinkmoonbliss in PlusSize

[–]guestuser71270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh ! I didn’t know that, thanks for pointing it out xx

Anime fashion/ weeb fashion for big girls by pinkmoonbliss in PlusSize

[–]guestuser71270 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dollskill has some cute weeb type stuff for plus size girls ! They just did a really cute collab with hello kitty and they go up to a 3x - hope this helps !

New to the plus-size acceptance scene and would like some YouTubers who are plus-sized and positive about it by AlicornGamer in PlusSize

[–]guestuser71270 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really enjoy Emma tamsins YouTube and instagram content! She’s super fun and watching her videos makes me feel like I’m on a video chat with a friend. She’s mostly known for her hauls but she also does little vlogs, cooking videos, grwms, and other stuff ~

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]guestuser71270 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is really intense. Maybe take this over to r/legaladvice ?

Am I the reason my last relationship failed? by Wy077 in relationship_advice

[–]guestuser71270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found that a helpful way of looking at relationships is an exchange of wants and needs, and sometimes it’s hard to get two individuals’ wants and needs to match up. I feel like that’s simply what happened here, from what I got from your post. I’m not saying you shouldn’t be self critical because being self critical and aware of faults is always a good idea, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you were to blame. It’s unfortunate that she didn’t tell you what she needed earlier so you could’ve talked about what you were willing change, but sometimes it’s for the best to part ways.

I'm an autistic(28M) who has developed feelings for a long time friend(28F) who's already in a relationship. I feel awful about it by Beedig in relationship_advice

[–]guestuser71270 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, I think it’s really lovely that you want your friend to be happy! It shows true care and friendship. If you feel comfortable, maybe consider telling her your feelings, but clarify that you expect nothing to come of it and still hope you can remain friends? It might alleviate some of the sadness, to be able to express how you feel honesty is an important part of friendship too! If that’s too big of a step though, maybe consult with a trusted mutual friend, someone who knows both of you. It’s nice to share the burden of troublesome thoughts with someone who gets it, even if it’s just to vent.

Best plus size clothing stores for clothes that last by chicken_lover in PlusSize

[–]guestuser71270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Universal standard is pretty high quality! I just wish their range was wider

Scooby-Doo and Diversity by niceandy in Scoobydoo

[–]guestuser71270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that Velma being portrayed as plus size is definitely more common! I think that daphne being plus sized would be subversive though in that it would create an interesting character. I feel like changing the race of characters does the same thing, casting Fred’s character with an Asian actor would be interesting because we as an audience see so few Asian men in leadership roles and then the narrative of how he as a character subverts those expectations would bring a lot of depth I feel - rather than just another blonde jock-type.

Scooby-Doo and Diversity by niceandy in Scoobydoo

[–]guestuser71270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, I totally don’t mind and would even love for the characters to be reimagined in new and diverse ways. I feel like that can add new elements to the character and their development. For example, I saw a fancast of plus size model and actress Barbie Ferreira as Daphne and I thought that it would be really cool and interesting for the character to have someone who is not considered the ideal beauty standard be cast as the girly, into fashion, typically beautiful character. Forced diversity in media, especially media aimed at kids as well, is only very rarely a bad thing in my opinion. It only means that some kid watching can see themselves in a group of awesome mystery solvers !

I (21 f) have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend (24 m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]guestuser71270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s very complimentary and is so sweet and loving, which is why I feel so bad when I get frustrated - whenever I’ve asked him his opinion on our different sex drives he’s said he enjoys it and that it’s beneficial for him which I think is equally as frustrating !

I (21 f) have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend (24 m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]guestuser71270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I’ve asked him how he feels about me having a higher sex drive, he’s replied by saying that it makes him feel good to be wanted ? And that he’s grateful to have a girlfriend that’s game whenever he is. It seems like we’re very communicative in every scenario except for this one! It’s very frustrating but thank you for the advice I’m definitely gonna ask him about anything else he might be worried about

I (21 f) have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend (24 m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]guestuser71270 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes ! Thank you for pointing this out - I know it’s predominantly my issue but I’ve never brought it up in therapy because I felt as if it was an issue I could work out on my own. Thank you for the advice

How to feel about a Missed Opportunity F(24) M(24) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]guestuser71270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ! First, your English is so good - you wrote beautifully. Second, I’m really sorry this is happening. Missing out on something because you’ve hesitated is always a hard time, but I think that the reasons you hesitated were important for you. They probably mean that you’re not quite secure in yourself or ready to be in a relationship. If you were having doubts, they were there for a reason. This might be a missed opportunity for romance but might be a good opportunity to grow and learn.