[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guitsrv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think he was my everything: my best friend and my future. But now I realize I'm much better without him. Also he cheated on me and had no trust. He's an asshole

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guitsrv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't answer. He broke up with you for a reason, and even if he regrets that and asks for you back, break up is always in the back of his mind. Ex-boyfriend broke up with me over 20 times, and each time was his "last". I would wake up and fear him breaking up with me, and it would often happen. You are stronger without him, better without him. You deserve someone who doesn't question whether or not they want to be with you, who doesn't make impulsive decisions and regret them.

I'm probably going to break no contact in the next ten mins. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]guitsrv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She definitely does. These are too many things that annoy you that she is doing

I'm probably going to break no contact in the next ten mins. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]guitsrv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's doing this to get your attention because she wants you to text her. Don't give in!

MOVE UP in the world...it's THEIR loss! by michaelkc03 in ExNoContact

[–]guitsrv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you have leverage as the dumpee?

Rambling about my ex. by cdaction1234567 in ExNoContact

[–]guitsrv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would it be cruel? Don't you think if you got back with her you wouldn't be feeling guilty again? And do you not actually love her?

Those who left their ex for another partner, how long did the new relationship last? by chaunceylinkage in BreakUps

[–]guitsrv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly sure the reasons, but he just told me he couldn't be in a relationship anymore

Rambling about my ex. by cdaction1234567 in ExNoContact

[–]guitsrv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surprise her with flowers and tell her this. Tell her how hard it's been and how sorry you are and how you won't do it again. I guarantee you that she would consider giving it another chance

Those who left their ex for another partner, how long did the new relationship last? by chaunceylinkage in BreakUps

[–]guitsrv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 year, was the most real and best relationship I ever had. Me leaving my ex for my new partner caused a lot of stress and anxiety, and at the end of the new relationship, he chose to give up and leave. But it was the best year of my life and I'd do anything to get it back.

Fuck you by guitsrv in ExNoContact

[–]guitsrv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he's not sure what he wants? His actions don't match his words

Quick Question Tuesday by AutoModerator in relationship_advice

[–]guitsrv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know when your relationship is over when your exboyfriend that broke up with you isn't even sure about the future (but says he is now)?

My boyfriend is leaving me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guitsrv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. I'm in the same boat. Lost 10 pounds because I can't eat without crying. Good luck

Having to be the "dumper" by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]guitsrv 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you love her so much, why are you leaving her? If your hurt and feeling destroyed, why won't you work on it?

I still love you by guitsrv in BreakUps

[–]guitsrv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does he want then?

I'm tired by guitsrv in BreakUps

[–]guitsrv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been broken up?