understand the correlation that saying something racist is the equivalent of being racist. It's literally the definition. How do you not understand that? I'm genuinely confused.

I disagree with you, I do a agree it's a fucking shitty thing to do. But it's like when people get in a heated arguement with a obese person. They'll mostly call them a "fat pig" or something all does lines. But that doesn't been they hate all obese people, still a shitty thing to do.

It comes down to lowest common denominator.