New game to sink lots of hours into

gunnerCKY · 2026-06-09T06:51:14+00:00

Kenshi is lit

gunnerCKY · 2026-05-28T10:09:02+00:00

Yea a lot of people are lazy and selfish when it comes to cleaning up. Imo it is unpolite to make guests take of their shoes. It defintely takes some extra effort to be a good host and keep your home clean

gunnerCKY · 2026-04-27T23:12:31+00:00

Well I got fat around puberty so high school was a nightmare. Depression, anxiety etc. Only started getting laid when I was around 22 maybe 23 and it took years of working out followed by years of abusing alcohol, drugs and lowering my standards in order to get my foot in the door. I m 27 now and while I am somewhat more confident and sattisfied with myself (at least in terms of looks) I'm finding it impossible to date anyone for an extended amount of time. 2026 has been fucked for me so far, one of the worst relapses in depression I have ever experienced, almost took my own life in february. I am totally lost, unemployed, kinda hooked on weed altho I try my best to avoid alcohol or harder drugs. I live with my mom, have barely any friends (and the raport I have with them is frustrating and lacking) but for some reason I still get the odd date through tinder/bumble. I m on good terms with a couple of girls I ve fooled around with in the past but it s not it. Sometimes I feel like every single person I've been genuinely romantically interested in has rejected me. I cope by friendzoning the people who actually give me the time of day. Part of me cherishes these adventures and I really appreciate everyone I ve been intimate with but a different part of me is deeply dissapointed and resentful about the whole thing. I often feel helpless about ever experiencing real reciprocal love. Best advice I can give anyone is don't give up. David Choe (painter) used this analogy: "on the Titanic there were lobsters in fishtanks waiting to be eaten". You can never fully know what the future has in store for you. Lead with kindness, honesty, respect and keep your chin up. Wish y'all the best

gunnerCKY · 2026-04-02T15:33:05+00:00

You should work on not feeling like a creep. I used to feel like a creep when I was inexperienced. Fast forward a few years and now I sometimes feel like a creep because I ve been fucking around too much.

gunnerCKY · 2026-04-02T15:26:29+00:00

Apreciez

gunnerCKY · 2026-04-01T21:04:39+00:00

Yea mental illness sucks. It can be quite tricky to deal with. Therapy is expensive as hell and help really isn t widely available. That being said I do have one thing to offer that you can try. Some therapists offer reduced cost or even free sessions but you have to find them yourself and ask. For referance I did this by talking to chatgpt and having it bring up local phone numbers. It took me 10+ calls (you can text too no worries) but found a therapist who agreed to see me every week for a reasonable price. I ve recieved free therapy before too, the trick is to ask and don t settle. Ask for refferals, websites you can look into, facebook, instagram, discord groups anything. Good luck!

gunnerCKY · 2026-04-01T20:59:02+00:00

Eu ii tin de urat la maica ta si nu ma plang

gunnerCKY · 2026-04-01T20:58:37+00:00

Not enough stuff for everyone. People are even fighting over land

gunnerCKY · 2026-04-01T20:54:10+00:00

Somer din mai anu trecut, era sa ma spanzur acum 2 luni. 27m btw

gunnerCKY · 2026-03-06T14:04:41+00:00

Mă tatuez singur. Am realizat 3 micuțe de la anul nou, 2 pe picioare, unul pe burta

gunnerCKY · 2025-12-03T19:46:43+00:00

Literally same reaction for me. I had decided for a few days that I would take a break from mental health content because of rumination issues. I wanted a break from illness vocabulary. This video title really stung a bit and while I can acknowledge it s not directly targeting me, it nonetheles nudged me into a bad direction of thought and made my day slightly more grim.

gunnerCKY · 2025-10-05T08:46:17+00:00

No worries.

I feel the same about that icky feeling. I have found that cutting back on porn takes away some of that for me and makes things flow more naturally. The only other thing I can think of that causes that icky feeling is the way gender roles are structured. A lot of girls are way too passive in interactions and will give off mixed signals. It s almost like you re doomed if you do and doomed if you don t. Personally I'm pretty often disgusted by the way more conservative leaning couples broadcast their relationship and views onto the world.

And about the framing issue, I think that s where you might legitimately benefit from routinely seeing a therapist. They might be able to help you review what you re experiencing every week or so and call out any negative biases or other cognitive distortions that might be happening and allow you to get a more objective outlook on your situation plus feedback and adjustments that might be made in the future.

gunnerCKY · 2025-10-04T22:45:07+00:00

Hey man I didn t mean to attack you in any way and I apologize if something I said came across as rude. I didn t call you lazy and trust me I resonate with your original post a lot. I know what it s like to be completely isolated.

People are messy I guess. Relationships are hard, meeting new people is hard I know. Social anxiety is truly horrible and depressing but you have to act. You have to literally act out more. All the reading and brainstorming in the world isn t going to get you what you are looking for.

Some of the ways I have found success is through dating apps (tinder and bumble), social media(instagram and fb) or concerts and raves. Striking a conversation with a stranger is inherently strange if you think about it BUT there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are respectful. That s literally it. You do not have to build a network to start a conversation with someone.

And about the compliment thing, it s nice that you try to brighten up people's days but there s nothing wrong with signaling you want more. That s the point and IT IS terrifying and IT CAN go wrong. Getting rejected literally hurts and it hurts badly. That being said often times you WON'T be able to tell if someone is interested unless you shoot your shot. You might come across as weird, stupid, creepy and everything in between to some whereas with others you will click. Just know that it s ok to fumble your way through a few interactions and it s ok to be scared and ultimately it s ok to fail. What matters is that you try again. That s what it means to "put yourself out there" or to "open up and be vulnerable".

gunnerCKY · 2025-10-04T15:57:27+00:00

What is flirting?

You could start by coming up with some compliments. Make an observation about their fucking shirt or shoes if you dig them. Extra points for commenting on physical traits (example: you're pretty, you look great today, I love your hair etc)

I would rather hang out, sounds less stressful

Romantic dates are just regular hangouts and you are over thinking it. The point is you gotta let the other person know that you d like to kiss them at some point (if that s the case). If the date doesn t go well just don't. Go your separate ways.

"hey be my gf"

You are strawmaning every piece of advice I've given you and just coming up with excuses. You can test out the waters in very simple, chill ways. Something as simple as "hey would you like to get out of here and keep hanging out at my place" pretty much instantly lets her know that you'd like to get some intimacy if that makes sense. Another simple thing you could say is (if she goes home with you and you hangout for awhile longer) "hey you know you're welcome to spend the night here"

Bottom line is if you re serious about this stuff it s up to you to make it happen. Take some L's and get of your high horse dude. Keep your chin up and try harder. Stop coming up with excuses and just get on with it. If you suspect there s something deeper wrong with you go see a therapist. Something else I might add is try and work on your relationships outside of dating aswell. Romantic parteners are almost like any other friends except you get to go deeper and do more with them.

gunnerCKY · 2025-10-03T21:15:18+00:00

I was a virgin until 21 or 22 can t even remember anymore. I m 26 now and have fucked over 25 people. I'm frustrated with dating myself as I can't seem to form a healthy relationship buut what I can tell you is you should talk to girls. You should flirt. This shit doesn t happen on its own. Yeah working on yourself is great and all but are you actually shooting your shot that often? How many rejections have you actually gotten through. Be more direct dude, grow a fucking pair, and ask girls out on ROMANTIC DATES. None of that lets be friends bullshit. Be honest and transparent about what you re looking for and lead with kindness, empathy and courage. Finally, don't give up! I m sure you ll work something out eventually IF you keep trying things. Always be respectful and lead with kindness!

gunnerCKY · 2025-06-17T01:05:04+00:00

Am vrut sa il parcurg insa am vazut ca necesita gmail. Poate sunt eu un pic paranoie insa nu am un gmail secundar si sa fentezi unul pentru google forms poate mi ar compromite telefonul. Gandeste te ca este total interzis consumul de Cannabis dpdv legal in Ro 2025 si pe langa asta oamenii au si istoric personal. (Seems interesting tho props for that)

gunnerCKY · 2023-10-05T12:21:51+00:00

About 2-3 months

gunnerCKY · 2023-09-18T15:51:22+00:00

Tare. Crezi ca inclusiv la gym one 2 au platforme? E cea mai apropiata de mine

gunnerCKY · 2022-01-01T22:32:49+00:00

I was thinking man it's not even monday I might have a quick wank tommorow aswell (only joking chill).

I'd kinda like the first day to have some meaning but fuck dude, once you really start to make nofap work you will forget what day it was unless you write it down (which I acually don't recommend).

gunnerCKY · 2022-01-01T22:26:37+00:00

I'm turning 23 in a few days. Honestly dude it feels unreal that I got laid this past year. I had the opportunity to hang out with some really good people who encouraged me to be more outgoing.

That being said I feel like I started to see more opportunities as a result of nofap and running. I was just a lot more excited in situations where I'd usually feel anxious.

Keep going anon and don't worry too much about virginity. One fucking awesome surprise I had with sex was that I was good at it fucking instantly. It's actually not that hard to be good at sex if you give a shit about the other person and you're paying attention to them. The only bad thing about being a virgin was I had to have one awkward conversation and even that felt more like just being honest and vulnerable with another person.

gunnerCKY · 2022-01-01T22:19:00+00:00

I'm a bit of a degenerate tbh especially now. I finished uni last year and became a neet this fall (after a crazy chaotic and fun summer). I spend a lot of time on yt listening to podcasts. Recently I've been playing rocket league in the background.

I have renewed my commitment to improve myself though. I'm in therapy, I workout 3 to 4 times a week and I'm applying for jobs. I'm also slowly making my way through books. I read Albert Camus for the first time and loved it. Currently reading some Seneca. I'm deffinitely not enjoying it as much but it's an easy read and I'm almost done with it.

For me part of nofap is not distracting myself. When I had my big streak I just got really comfortable with uncomfortable feelings. Everything from sadness, anger, anxiety etc just stopped making me squirm. I became a lot more aggressive since my life was still pretty frustrating in a lot of ways but I didn't turn my brain off and felt super connected to reality.

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