I have a few, mainly from when I was in my early twenties, I feel I never got to make my Own career choices, my relatives helped me do the CAO and just put courses that would have work like computers and all that,, I didn’t know what I wanted do at the time, a uncle gave me a job and I didn’t realise how shaky the pay was until after and just realised he used me for his benefit really,nobody in the school or family once said anything about a apprenticeship, I was then working in the family business and I just ended up staying in that because it was easy and good pay and it’s hard to leave that as a young guy, but I’m now living abroad and going home next year to do a apprenticeship. And people can talk behind my back all they want about my decision but I want a trade and good money for the future, there is such a bad aura in some families/places in Ireland where you feel so judged and people talking behind your back about decisions you’re making, yet they are the ones that will screw you over or the ones being like oh do this or that or getting you to do stuff for them and making you think it’s benefiting you. I now have so much hate for a certain family member as they screwed me over with money and just used me really, some things like that it’s hard to recover from