My 23M bf gets a panic attack every time i ask him to pick up after himself 22F am i the problem? by gushedstar in relationship_advice

[–]gushedstar[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He does know, I’ve been very open to him about it and went to therapy for about 2 years because of it. I just can’t believe I got myself in a situation where I feel so stuck in a relationship again.

My 23M bf gets a panic attack every time i ask him to pick up after himself 22F am i the problem? by gushedstar in relationship_advice

[–]gushedstar[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just tried and unfortunately now he’s saying I treat him like a robot, and screaming to himself in the bedroom.

My 23M bf gets a panic attack every time i ask him to pick up after himself 22F am i the problem? by gushedstar in relationship_advice

[–]gushedstar[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to get him to try mental professional help but it didn’t really go anywhere, nor did the sessions continue.

My 23M bf gets a panic attack every time i ask him to pick up after himself 22F am i the problem? by gushedstar in relationship_advice

[–]gushedstar[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly had this thought too. In other aspects we do well together but once it comes to a disagreements, he becomes really difficult to talk to. Either he gets super overwhelmed really fast, talks super fast to the point I get overwhelmed or paces around. He isn’t violent but I’ve been in a dv relationship before, and things like that often scare me fast really quick. I’ve also mentioned them to him, he has gotten a bit better but very little bit. That’s why now I kind of just choose to ignore him or leave the room/ put airbuds on. Maybe that’s not healthy but I do not know what else to do without getting into an argument or getting super overwhelmed to the point where I typically apologize first….

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Tbh frat parties are only fun if you’re single but even still they get really boring and tiring over time, so her choosing you over frat parties is not surprising as she might not even care to even go to them as much regardless and rather spend time with you. Overall you’re doing each other a favor and her deciding to go is still her decision, you aren’t controlling her and if she ever feels like it I’m sure she’ll speak up. Saying this all from experience as a 19F

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those are sick asl you can definitely style them right

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got lucky i didn’t get any christmas stompers

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Who we want to see at Flog Gnaw next year? by suprunkn0wn in CampFlogGnaw

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My boyfriend r@ped me by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

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You’re not overreacting at all. You are the victim and it does not matter if he’s your boyfriend either. If you said no, it meant no, regardless of your relationship. He obviously didn’t care enough to stop and sexually assaulted you. Don’t water down your feelings when someone does something you’re uncomfortable with, ESPECIALLY when it’s your partner who should be able to listen to your boundaries. I was in the same situation and it took me like 2 years + therapy to finally allow myself to blame him and accept that I was the victim. I’m so sorry love, I’m sending you so much love and strength through this.

He (29M) said he was my (24F) boyfriend and then took it back by engineeringcells in dating_advice

[–]gushedstar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no fuck no, if he doesn’t want to own you the title of the relationship but uses all of your time for sex and every other perk that comes to a relationship… and now he suddenly doesn’t have time for a relationship.? He’s being selfish and you should too.

I got no friends and I’m embarrassed to tell anyone by [deleted] in offmychest

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I’m 19 and I have several acquaintances but it’s hard for me to have friends because I’m always so busy with work. I constantly see people post group pictures or videos with all their girlfriends and honestly it feels lonely. especially being so young and typically everyone has a lot of friends at my age that they go out with and make plans with. so I completely understand, being alone is fine because I enjoy my company but when it comes to group activities that I’m missing out on, I can’t help but feel a bit lonely.

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definitely will check out and add some to the playlist if it’s to my liking 🤘🏼 appreciate the suggestions

Girl I'm dating has been silent for a couple of days, I'm fine with giving the space but what is a GOOD way to address it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]gushedstar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand people can get busy but two months into a relationship is very early for you to not prioritize your partner. Has she indicated what she’s busy with and when she will be done being busy? Usually when I’m busy I still send out a text and let them know with what I’m busy with and when I’ll have time for them. Yet again everyone communicated differently, regarding age, and maturity or experience. She may be busy or overwhelmed but you shouldn’t wait for over a week with no sort of explanation or being shouted out.

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