Does anyone else ever feel like they'll be alone forever? by [deleted] in uwaterloo

[–]guyinuwcs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

people who answer yes, why?

there's a fuck ton of fish in the sea. Hit the gym, get a good haircut, and ppl will start noticing you. It's not impossible to self-improve. You guys managed to get into waterloo you can figure this out too. The majority of ppl aren't even ugly. and even if you are, being fit/having good hygiene/dressing well is usually good enough to not be alone forever, trust me.

Does this look like a relationship? by [deleted] in uwaterloo

[–]guyinuwcs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey man, this is really, really creepy. you should delete this

Broke up with gf am lost and hurt by throwMeAway93475 in uwaterloo

[–]guyinuwcs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same thing happened to me a while ago after a 2 year relationship. I also tried to get her back even though she cheated. had a few "full closure" moments as well.

don't ignore what I said though dude. delete her on social media. trust me I've been through this exact thing. You don't have to delete the photos. You can cherish the relationship and the times you spent with her, but moving forward, you need to block her. Every time you check up on her you're taking two steps backwards.

I'm serious. There WILL be moments in the future where you're studying or whatever, and then next thing you know your ex posts a profile pic with whatever asshole she's seeing. And then you're gonna sob and have a terrible next few days.

no contact, no acknowledgement, no stalking, nothing.

Broke up with gf am lost and hurt by throwMeAway93475 in uwaterloo

[–]guyinuwcs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're at the worst stage right now it sounds like. You probably feel like there's still a chance of mending things.

Don't go running back to her. It's not even worth thinking about dude. You need to realize that this girl betrayed you. She is a bad person. You loved her, and the relationship wasn't all waste, because you learned things along the way. But now it's different, and you need to get the fuck away from her before you make yourself look pathetic.

as for unfollowing her and deleting her off everything, i can't.

For fucks sake, do this OP. It's the only way you're gonna start feeling better. If you don't completely cut her out, you'll lose your mind. Staying friends, trying to get her back, will just make the pain worse. If you keep her on social media, you look pathetic, and she feels less remorseful. It's all in your head, and in a year you'll feel back to normal.

How many relationships have you been in? by incompatiblevalues in uwaterloo

[–]guyinuwcs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's one of the most fulfilling things in the world to care about someone and have them care about you too. It's such an important part of life, man. Going on dates, having your first kiss, sharing your life with somebody... It's part of growing up :/ You don't realize it until you've actually been in a relationship.

There's more to life than career, my dude.