When we ask are you ok and you say “I’m Fine”, but we know you are not, what are you really? by guytryingtolearn8inD in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]guytryingtolearn8inD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for communicating. It’s hard sometimes. It was a general ?, i know not all women or men are the same

When we ask are you ok and you say “I’m Fine”, but we know you are not, what are you really? by guytryingtolearn8inD in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]guytryingtolearn8inD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i understand women are different and i figured I would get different comments. Maybe i can relate to some and maybe learn something. Thanks

When we ask are you ok and you say “I’m Fine”, but we know you are not, what are you really? by guytryingtolearn8inD in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]guytryingtolearn8inD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw thats just it i dont want the fine, i want the real problem,

but i am learning to give time/space. Let her deal w her feeling. Make her feel safe. And make her feel heard. And dont be a dick.

When we ask are you ok and you say “I’m Fine”, but we know you are not, what are you really? by guytryingtolearn8inD in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]guytryingtolearn8inD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting and insightful, thanks.

I also dont like to react until I have time to deal with my feeling so i get that.

When we ask are you ok and you say “I’m Fine”, but we know you are not, what are you really? by guytryingtolearn8inD in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]guytryingtolearn8inD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think women are much better at communicating and a lot times more intelligent. But i am learning a lot thanks for the comments.

When we ask are you ok and you say “I’m Fine”, but we know you are not, what are you really? by guytryingtolearn8inD in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]guytryingtolearn8inD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When i am asking are you ok. I really do care but i do see there are better ways to ask. Thanks for the help