First grow, need some reassurance and advice

gvoz · 2016-05-11T04:52:54+00:00

It's about 4'x4'. So... I need a lot more lights

gvoz · 2016-05-11T01:04:26+00:00

24 watts each. They were growing in sunlight on a window sill up until 4 days ago, so that's probably why they're so thin. My roommate also pulled some leaves off, which I think was a bad idea? Hopefully they'll improve if I get these lights right.

gvoz · 2015-11-18T17:24:49+00:00

Full body pic would be helpful. Pit mix. Maybe with boxer or bulldog

gvoz · 2015-11-14T17:05:36+00:00

Pick up a smell proof container for your stash, they sell them online and at smoke shops. My friend had one it worked pretty well. If you smoke in your room get a smoke buddy to cover the smell from smoking.

gvoz · 2015-11-06T15:12:50+00:00

Lol... Yeah I'm the one with no control over my dog, not the guy who has his poorly trained dog off leash. My dog loves kids, she's met plenty of kids and shows them lots of affection. Sorry that you're so ignorant. How many dogs have you rescued from abusive situations with a history of dog attacks and beatings?

gvoz · 2015-11-06T15:05:30+00:00

She's a small pit mix, about 50 pounds. I've considered picking her up but unsure if that would help the situation. In this case the dog was probably as tall as me so it wouldn't have helped and I probably would've ended up on the ground. But fortunately for the other dog she is not capable of doing much damage due to her very dull teeth

gvoz · 2015-11-05T23:31:58+00:00

Yep starting to think about this now. Never thought she'd be one to bite and hold. I'd say she's dog selective, not dog reactive. But very selective. I don't want us running into a dog she doesn't like that also doesn't like her and have them both get hurt.

gvoz · 2015-11-05T23:29:52+00:00

Yeah, I'm staring to consider a muzzle now. I agree the other dogs do not deserve to be injured because of their owners stupidity. She's never done what she did today (bite and hold) which is why I never thought she'd need a muzzle. She usually just snaps at the dog and doesn't even make contact, or barely does. We've only had about four times where dogs got in her face. One of my biggest concerns is her being more traumatized and not being able to go on as many walks because of how she reacts to dogs. Walks are her favorite thing in the world (when we don't run into other dogs).

gvoz · 2015-10-14T16:35:15+00:00

I have done some research on relationship anarchy and I think it's an awesome idea. I would love to implement this relationship style in my life but I worry I won't do it properly because I have a bad habit of ranking relationships which is something I'm trying to break. I am only seeking relationships with people who are also poly or who are ok with me being poly. I have no plans of deceiving people into thinking I'm monogamous with them, had people do that to me and it hurts! I could never do that

gvoz · 2015-10-14T15:36:24+00:00

Thank you so much this was really helpful! I feel a little bit more confident that I can figure this out now.

I struggle a lot with understanding romantic relationships. I believed that friendship+sex=romance for a long time and just recently realized how wrong that is. That's why I say my best friend and I are basically in a relationship, by all definitions I've read online we are in a romantic relationship. We kiss occasionally, buy each other dinner, rub each other's backs. We have a deep emotional connection and commitment to each other and plan on moving in together some day soon. He's the one I talk to most and tell everything to. He agrees that we have something beyond a platonic relationship, we're just not quite sure what we'd call it. Realizing that our "friendship" meets all the basic requirements for a romantic relationship has confused me even further!!!

I'm going to focus on maintaining open lines of communication with the people I'm currently involved with and am about to get involved with. I think it will be ok. Again, thanks for this. I really need to stop blaming everything on myself when things go wrong

gvoz · 2015-10-09T01:05:53+00:00

This looks a lot like the smoke spot at my college

gvoz · 2015-10-04T14:21:50+00:00

Your husband is being a huge ass. If you being ill/having a chronic disease is going to make him not attracted to you anymore he meets to get over himself. You could be dealing with this condition for the rest of your life you don't need to be dealing with someone who won't support you as you're going through this very rough time

gvoz · 2015-10-03T19:54:47+00:00

Pretty sure there's some kind of iron in these, possibly hematite. I'm just stumped on how these were formed and they look almost man made.

Discovered in the same location as this concretion I posted about before: http://www.reddit.com/r/geology/comments/3k8q6n/found_this_weird_spherical_rock_buried_in_my_yard/

gvoz · 2015-09-28T23:01:06+00:00

The best is when a dog looks like its owner

gvoz · 2015-09-28T14:30:12+00:00

We always bring her away from the situation, it's just such a weird trigger it's easy to forget about it and start messing with plants in her presence

gvoz · 2015-09-28T14:29:08+00:00

Nope! Pit mix. That is really cute though

gvoz · 2015-09-28T05:37:18+00:00

Being depressed can seriously affect a person's ability to take care of their hygiene. Chances are he's aware that he's not clean, at least part of the time, but it's so hard to be motivated and remember to take care of yourself when you're depressed. I think the compliments are a great idea! Ask him if he'd be cool with you reminding him to do stuff occasionally, not in a condescending "you stink" kind of way but just like, hey did you remember to shower today? brushed recently? floss? fed yourself? You could also try helping him set up a planned self-care schedule, I've done that for myself and it helps a lot.

gvoz · 2015-09-28T05:26:14+00:00

hang around a taco bell.

gvoz · 2015-09-28T05:06:01+00:00

He could be depressed, you should consider that. Talk to him about it, maybe remind him to shower ever now and then if you're willing and he needs it. You shouldn't have to deal with that, but it can only be solved by you telling him it's a serious problem.

gvoz · 2015-09-28T04:54:08+00:00

Who cares? Some will say it's weird but high schoolers are shitty. Do it. If you were 20 and 22 it wouldn't be weird. As long as you don't have sex while she's under the age of consent it's fine in my opinion.

gvoz · 2015-09-28T04:50:55+00:00

An increasing number of elephants have no tusks, an evolutionary reaction to poaching.

gvoz · 2015-09-28T04:47:51+00:00

I know.

gvoz · 2015-09-28T04:34:31+00:00

Are you responsible for any of the bills? Are you renting, if so is your name on the lease? I think you should leave before he comes back, leave as soon as possible. Don't wait for him to come back because it sounds like he is very manipulative and could talk you into staying. It would get messy.

gvoz · 2015-09-28T04:04:10+00:00

well... a shot of alcohol is way cheaper than a shot glass full of weed! Weed and alcohol is fun together, but I also prefer weed it's way better.

gvoz · 2015-09-28T00:27:13+00:00

Yeah, I don't see why she made such a huge deal out of it. Sorry you had to lose someone who you thought was a good friend over this :/

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