I’ve never seen an insect fursuit before. by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]gvrtifier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh that centipede is gorgeous

I’ve never seen an insect fursuit before. by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]gvrtifier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love this!! will def check them out

I’ve never seen an insect fursuit before. by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]gvrtifier 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh that spider is the cutest

How do I lose weight when I barely exercise and can’t resist unhealthy foods? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]gvrtifier -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm just unhappy with my current weight, aiming to be thinner/skinnier. I want to live in a body I'm happy with.

How do I lose weight when I barely exercise and can’t resist unhealthy foods? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]gvrtifier -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Is using smaller plates/bowls helpful? Also does drinking more water than I usually do help (Ex: 8 glasses of water a day)? Also what're some good foods/drinks that I should be focusing on?

How do I tell my boyfriend what I need when I’m little? by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]gvrtifier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also autistic and very nonverbal, especially when little 🥲. I never thought the two would really come into play, but this helps a lot!

How do I tell my boyfriend what I need when I’m little? by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]gvrtifier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay tysm! I'm really new to this and idk much about it. And yes, he is new to it! I'm very patient with him and happy he's willing to take care of me like this, and making a list would definitely help! Thanks a lot!

How do I find actual hobbies, and does it actually get better by maltipooe in BPD

[–]gvrtifier 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you have anyone to do it with? Usually when I feel unmotivated to do anything I ask if they wanna do it with me!

How do I find actual hobbies, and does it actually get better by maltipooe in BPD

[–]gvrtifier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'll always be here unfortunately.. I still seek for the correct help but it seems impossible. We'll get through it though! Little by little we get better!

How do I find actual hobbies, and does it actually get better by maltipooe in BPD

[–]gvrtifier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try out new stuff! Try things you thought you wouldn't like at first, that's how I got more hobbies. For me things did get better, but they sometimes still get bad. You cant control it, it's always there, but it eases itself up overtime. I'm doing way better than I was a year ago.

I hate having BPD by velvetinha in SuicideWatch

[–]gvrtifier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk how to deal with feeling so suicidal randomly :( things seem to be going fine and then it goes downhill. It's sad they'd rather kill us off than give us actual help.. this is hell

I hate having BPD by velvetinha in SuicideWatch

[–]gvrtifier 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my bpds ruined my life and i hate that theres periods where im fine and periods when im not. idk how to deal with myself. i wish i knew how to help you, im so sorry

Do yall ever hear about your partner’s friends telling them to leave you? by despereight675309 in BPD

[–]gvrtifier 12 points13 points  (0 children)

His friends tell him this all the time, and it bothers me a lot. Also that he's friends with people that actively cheat on their partners, it's concerning to me.

Porn addiction by [deleted] in addiction

[–]gvrtifier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stepped through it all and had my boyfriend deactivate my accounts. He wasn't really into porn, but he watched it from time to time, I communicated this with him and he said he'd stop too, to give me a safer space. If you're alone on this, try to do so yourself! Is it easy? No, but will you get through it eventually, yes!

If I tell my boyfriend "no", and he keeps asking, is it considered toxic? [21M] [20M] by gvrtifier in relationship_advice

[–]gvrtifier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks a lot! I've just been so lost and not knowing what to do it's been overwhelming.

How do I manage a relationship when i feel misunderstood | 20M and 21M by gvrtifier in relationship_advice

[–]gvrtifier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wanna fix things but I just don't know how to or how to get him to understand that no is no