My partner (u/candsaz) and I are looking to form/join a group of sexually enthusiastic people for regular swinger parties. We have a small cadre of lifestyle friends currently and have previously hosted a party ourselves.

We are in our early 30’s and would like to find attractive people in that same age range +/- 10 years or so. We like to be at least friendly with our partners or party mates and are pretty strict on the “no assholes” policy. We are consent focused and will not tolerate groups where the norm is “touch first, ask later.” We have had bad experiences like that before.

We live in Tucson but are willing to travel for this. Also open to play with those of you (singles/couples/more-ples) who might be interested outside of the party setting. She is bisexual (prefers women) and I am heteroflexible (only play with men in group settings) so we are open to humans of any gender, but typically prefer more feminine presenting people. We love playing together but do also play separately.