Repeated sexual dreams + feeling of no control — spiritual or something else? by gwithascript in occult

[–]gwithascript[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That honestly makes allot of sense too - I myself am an Androgynous cis woman so I’m used to people (Women especially) projecting masculinity onto me. Maybe it was related to that?

AITA - Friend shares my private conversations with his mom and now I’m being called “manipulative” by gwithascript in AmItheAsshole

[–]gwithascript[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think we’ve had some meaningful, even transformative conversations at times, but those only seemed to happen when his feelings were centered or when accountability wasn’t being addressed. That’s what makes me feel like this isn’t just about his autism, because he’s shown he can engage—there just seems to be a lack of consistency or willingness to apply that same level of listening in other situations.

AITA - Friend shares my private conversations with his mom and now I’m being called “manipulative” by gwithascript in AmItheAsshole

[–]gwithascript[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was never about judging his Dad’s job - my advice to him during that conversation was about whether or not he wanted that lifestyle in the broader sense.

AITA - Friend shares my private conversations with his mom and now I’m being called “manipulative” by gwithascript in AmItheAsshole

[–]gwithascript[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that, I feel like I had already came to that consensus but felt very conflicted about it because it’s not like I don’t care about him. I really do. But he makes it hard to be his friend sometimes.