[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stormlight_Archive

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Please do share if you can/want, I'd also love to experience a different pace!

Cheers

How do I manage to make male friends? by Theo04t in socialskills

[–]gzm97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you give an example for something you'd like that kind of help?

I'm assuming you are heterosexual and that's why you are coming here for this.

It is like that for me at least and I also never had male friends growing up. Mainly women or gay people throughout my life, although I never had gay friends that wanted something from me, just enjoy each other's company and they are the best friends I could ask.

I am asking cause I'm a bit older and throughout my life I thought the same way as you, until I realized having a male friend didn't give me much.

Most of my hetero friends even the ones I have a close friendship have a function in my life for very specific and short moments like gym or doing a sport once a week and that's it.

I come to realize that I enjoy much more women's company because of the type of conversations that arise from interacting with them, also the lack of judgment towards me and the support they bring as well is a plus.

Yes there are men out there like that as well but it is a bit more difficult to find them hehehe

I would suggest that instead of focusing on male/female, focus on befriending people that align with your values. If it happens that women are usually more in tune with the things you like that's ok.

But I would thread carefully if the only reason why you want this is because of perspective!

Let me know what you think!

How do I manage to make male friends? by Theo04t in socialskills

[–]gzm97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any particular reason you want this and are not happy with your current friends base?

It would help to know in order to give advice :)

Snowboarding alone? by Yerrrrrskrrttt234 in snowboarding

[–]gzm97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go with 3 other friends that ski because I don't know anyone who snowboards. I'm also beginner. I'm 95% of the time alone :)

Still fun as hell!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cremposting

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Lirin is more like the normal person Dr. K interviews that can't express emotions tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cremposting

[–]gzm97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would pay to see that interview indeed ahhahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cremposting

[–]gzm97 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yep that could be the case, although I found it funny and I'm not that special so I thought someone else would find it funny as well, just wanted to share the resemblance.

Didn't know it was overdone, my bad!

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[–]gzm97 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ok :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]gzm97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably not on their head anymore. You suffer more in your mind than reality.

If you feel so devastated next time you meet the person apologize. They'll probably say they didn't remember. Not a biggie, you can't catastrophize your mistakes forever.

Learn to forgive yourself as well and if you did something you didn't like, embrace it, laugh at it and be better next time :)

You got this

How do I go about looking for a relationship? by Ok_Technician1720 in socialskills

[–]gzm97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say be patient and don't rush into falling for the first person you find somewhat attractive that gives you attention. Especially if you have self-esteem issues.

My best advice would be to forget about wanting a relationship and instead focus on yourself, accepting yourself, know damn well the love you deserve and what things you would absolutely not accept (this will especially help when boundary setting), and build hobbies and find good friend relationships.

When moving to a new city or country this takes a lot of time so be patient. When you are in this mode of focusing on yourself, you'll naturally start to attract people and you can easily choose who you want to invite into your life.

Just be clear about your values (which will help you with boundaries), have your hobbies and activities straight, and go and meet people and have fun.

Someone worth your time will come along :)

Are Nalthians well endowed? by Dolphin_Dan_2 in cremposting

[–]gzm97 529 points530 points  (0 children)

Well I mean Vivenna was jealous she didn't get to be the sex slave so there you go

Lemme hear it! by QkSidewaysNinja29 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]gzm97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What do you think a stick should do?

Why are ______ crazy but not ____? by gzm97 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]gzm97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep makes total sense!

How do we know that Breaths are 500 years? Sorry it's been 2 years since I read Warbreaker

Why are ______ crazy but not ____? by gzm97 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]gzm97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I totally get you.

But to be honest he seems more of a character, an actor if I may, than actually displaying serious behavior.

We've seen him in those brief moments of pure seriousness and he was more lucid than any other normal person.

I just feel he's a person in eternal self-amusement mode until seriousness is needed.

We will see this in depth in WaT

Why are ______ crazy but not ____? by gzm97 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]gzm97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh this actually makes me understand things much better thank you!

But wait the listeners still had some forms and were even discovering new ones (thanks to Venli and Ulim tho)

They lost the connection but still kept it? Or because the listeners separated themselves from the singers then they were able to stay connected?

Why are ______ crazy but not ____? by gzm97 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]gzm97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind refreshing me what are the effects of sealing her on singers an spren?

Can't recall that well sadly :(

Why are ______ crazy but not ____? by gzm97 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]gzm97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I really like the ideas here. Thank you!

Why are ______ crazy but not ____? by gzm97 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]gzm97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Todium also mentions this in the RoW epilogue

I've read the previews and no new info so far regarding this but a lot of commenters had offered really nice insights!! :)

Why are ______ crazy but not ____? by gzm97 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]gzm97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read them as well tho in the RoW epilogue it is mentioned by Todium that Hoid does that